What are some of the things in your life and work that make you suddenly realize?

In the first half of 2018, I suddenly lost my job and lost my economy, but the monthly mortgage is still there, relying on only a little money left to pay off the mortgage for a month, I don't even have a meal in my hand, there is no way, I can only call ** to find someone to borrow money, the first one to call is my best friend, but he made me stop borrowing money from others. "When will you be able to pay back this money? I'm in a hurry too!

This is knowing that I am unemployed, and I am afraid that I will not be able to pay back. I replied at the time, "Then forget it." "After that, I didn't call other friends, because my best friends were not willing to lend me money, and the hope of calling others was even slimmer.

In the end, I borrowed 3,000 yuan online and barely survived until I found a job again. This incident made me suddenly realize that I understood a sentence that I once thought was a joke: "The poor are in the downtown and no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains." ”

You can only take the bus on campus or walk to and from school, but several people in the same dormitory have bought cars, so you can sit in the car every time you get out of school. Until one day my roommate jokingly said something, but the summary in my heart was: I can open a week alone, but I can only drive for four or five days with people.

It dawned on me that after a few days I started walking to and from school, and although this would lead to eating alone a lot, I felt a lot more relaxed. So, even if it's a friend, don't rely too much on it, try to do what you can do by yourself, even if it takes more time, it's better than being embarrassed to occupy yourself.

I'm 57 years old, and I'm well past my prime. When I was young, I didn't work hard for the young man, and the boss was sad. One sentence is just a vague understanding, but now it suddenly dawns on me.

After graduating from high school, I was not admitted to university, I and another classmate applied for the agricultural broadcasting school, I gave up halfway, and my classmate insisted on studying to the end, after graduation, I was promoted and used by the township, worked in the township agricultural science station, became a civil servant, and now the salary is four or five thousand yuan a month, and I have a pension after retirement, and I live a carefree life. When I think of contentment and happiness, I have a new understanding of my current situation, it is not terrible to be poor, but I am afraid of losing the courage to live.

In life, I think the thing that makes me suddenly realize is to lend money to others, if you don't take an IOU, it will hurt your whole life, if you are working, I feel that it is good to accumulate experience!

As a girl, you must know how to love yourself, you can not be beautiful, but you must learn to protect yourself. Because girls are really vulnerable. If you are in love, you must not lose yourself in the relationship, no matter how much you love this person, remember, nothing is important to yourself, let alone ignore your own feelings to fulfill others.

Also, to be a bright-eyed person, you must be able to look at people, don't be too willful, girls are emotional.

I went back to my hometown to help my parents harvest the autumn during the eleventh holiday, and at one moment I found that my old mother's waist had bent, and even walking was a bit of an old lady, and it was no longer the young parents in our impression.

Life is really lonely, and the only thing you can believe in is yourself. No one will care what happens to you, only the life of a great man is worth it. Everyone has times when they are embarrassed, and they don't want to be embarrassed by others, and don't embarrass others.

I am a relatively slow person, many times the other party does not reach out to me I will not take the initiative, together for two or three months, I always feel that he is not attentive enough to me, not considerate enough, I have been awkward with him, and several times openly and secretly want to break up, not that I don't like him, but I am afraid of being let down in the end. But every time I mentioned it to him, he would talk to me well, not get angry, ask me what's wrong, tell him if I was unhappy, and slowly guide me to express my emotions, instead of withdrawing when I encounter problems. At that time, I suddenly felt that I should not always be afraid of cowering, but speak well and express my feelings well, communication is very important, and the most terrible thing in the relationship is not getting a response.

I've been exploring the meaning of life. I often feel that life is hard, sometimes even painful. Later, I suddenly realized that I came to this world as a life, trying to live this life well, being myself, and this is the meaning.

I spent my sophomore year in school in a mess until I was educated by my father and started to study and was admitted to 985. It turns out that as long as you are willing to start, it is really never too late. Don't believe in anything romantic love.

You have to have enough love in your heart, and the arrival of others is just to bring out the love that exists in your heart.

I remember one time I took the wrong key to unlock the lock, and then my dad reminded me that I suddenly realized.