Do we all get occasional satisfaction from disappointment?

At least I'm not. I have always been very satisfied, I meet my learning conditions, although there is still a big gap compared with others, I meet my family conditions, although I can't compare with the rich, but parents are very good to their children, I meet my friends, although they are not perfect people have their own shortcomings.

People live in the world, content and happy, think about it, I live a relatively happy life. There is family and friendship, and although there is no love, I still feel satisfied.

I'm not smart, I was born with a decision, but my IQ is enough for me to live, I'm not rich, but I don't care about so much money, I'm not chic, but I believe I will still find someone I like and someone who likes me. But I have something of my own that others envy, at least I live with optimism, :-

Writing about these things may not be of any use to you at all, because everyone has their own outlook on life. But if you are satisfied with your outlook on life and yourself, you will continue to get a sense of satisfaction.

Indeed, for example, if you can't learn no matter how you study, you just study hard, and in the end you succeed, I am so stupid, it is true that my IQ is not as good as that of smart people, but I understand that smart people will never succeed, this is my own experience.

Aren't all young people like that?

It is ...... to say that new words are strong

What you don't get is the best.

Don't expect too much, look at it lightly.

If you keep at it, you will succeed.

The reason why the more expectations and the greater the disappointment means that people hope that they can get what they expect at once, and if they fail once, they will feel that they can no longer succeed, and then they will feel very disappointed, and they feel that they have lost the motivation of life, but they forget that every successful person, how many times they have worked hard to succeed, they are disappointed again and again as a motivation to work hard, and finally to achieve their expectations, the process is naturally very difficult.

I look forward to it too much, but it may be different in another way, do my best, do what I should do and have no regrets, no matter what I do, as long as I work hard, do my best, and cherish it, I can have no regrets.

But in this case, you should not expect too much from anything. Just have a normal heart.

In fact, your expectations are too high, and when the result backfires, you will be sad, try to be normal, go with the flow, and you will find that life is beautiful.

Hello, life is a journey, the fun is not in the end, but in this long process, if everything goes to the first result, then you can never be satisfied, often those who do not care about how much they can get, just continue to pay people, the return is the most fruitful, is not there a song sang: once in the dim and dark confused, only to know that plain is true, with a plain heart, plain to face everything, you will find the wonderful and beautiful life.

There is a saying that the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. We should treat many things with a normal heart, always thinking about what we have gained, and what we have lost our lives. Prepare for the worst, and then you'll be able to face a lot of things.

We will be disappointed because we have expectations, and if we don't expect them, we won't be disappointed.

Those who work their own will not be disappointed, and those who wait for others will be disappointed.

Yes, the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment.

Know contentment, and be happy. The truth is simple, but it is too difficult to learn.

I just know that reality is cruel.

Real life, real her. Why do they say that people will change when they step out of school and step into society, she may have her own difficulties! Reality will torture people's bodies without hail.

When you get out of school, you'll understand her, and maybe you won't hate her anymore! A lover is someone who believes in each other and relies on it! I'm sure what she said reluctantly when you broke up was sincere.

She's going to be sadder than you, okay! Time changes everything! I wish you to come out of your sorrow as soon as possible and find true love!

What a woman thinks in her heart is forever unclear, just don't do it, do something serious, you will never be able to go, and you can't force it to come.

Your love test is over. What is the reason for her, it is just an excuse to break up. I advise you not to be disappointed, hurry up and divide it. And don't make a fuss"Both"Word: There are many good women who go to Liang Bi.

One day before the breakup, she also mentioned that after she arrived at the new unit, I couldn't see each other often, and I was afraid that I would like others these months

, break up, hail early、、、 afraid of me (you), like others].

What 'research' do you read?!

Because it doesn't meet the requirements of a woman's heart.

Watching too many movies with high expectations of love is not realistic.

Because the men don't give them enough money to spend.

I'm a man, maybe you're prejudiced against individual men, and I'm a woman who is very happy with me.

I'm telling you as a married man. Withdraw! It's a must!

Du feelings are not cultivated by nurture, and zhi men are useful if they are not honest and reliable. An honest man does not mean that he will be honest for a lifetime, and the more honest he is, the easier it is to fall for others. Not to mention that you don't like it yourself, people who don't feel it, two people are together, don't say love or not, because this is all inexplicable.

At the very least, two people should have common life goals and have several common hobbies and topics. If you can't live now, let alone later. If there is a cliff ahead, would you still consider whether to jump off?

Of course not. Why bother? Take a step back and open the sky, retreat!

The rapid retreat is called the opportunity to know!! Firm, divorced!!

Support bai first of all you don t love him and secondly du you are not married zhi divorce and divorce are completely different things the last thing to explain is that you go and that.

Answer: Talk to the man, explain the situation to him, and ask him what he thinks, after all, this is a matter for the two of you, if you take the initiative to withdraw from the marriage, people will not be able to get over it, and you can cultivate a relationship, postpone the marriage, and if you can't get along with the time of marriage, just withdraw from the marriage! I think it should be understandable if the man is reasonable.

If you don't like him, then you probably marry him.

It will be painful for a lifetime, and then the possibility of divorce will be great.

You can just talk to him well, just say that you really don't feel it, ask him what he thinks of you, understand each other, and divorce is better than divorce.

Besides, you are not a celebrity, maybe others will talk about you for a while, but after a while, people really don't remember you, don't take yourself too seriously, and don't take yourself seriously.

Happiness is the goal of life! If happiness is lost! What are you doing in life? In the future, it will still be two people who will regret being hurt!

I think it's up to the landlord himself, he should calm down, ask himself if he likes him or not, what is the reason why he doesn't like him, and tell him his problems and let him correct them! If this doesn't work, then just withdraw from the marriage, after all, the long pain is not as good as the short pass, and then do the ideological work with the family, I don't think anyone wants to see the unhappy life of their children! But out of an objective attitude, the landlord should prefer the former, although the second marriage is very popular now, but it will not be more glorious!

If it is not suitable, it is not suitable, and no matter how good it is, it cannot be lost because of it. You have to think carefully about your marriage, after all, you don't get married for other people's opinions.

Of course, I supported it, and it was too late to get married.

It's scary to think about being with someone you don't love for a lifetime.

Hurry, get out early.

In the tank! After all, it's a matter of one lifetime, and if you force it, you may not be happy in the future.

It's better to be scolded if you are scolded than to face someone you don't like every day. Marriages are not the same.

There must be a dead and alive feeling of love, but it must not be self-believing.

I don't like it, I don't want to face it. Maybe you've been injured? Find out the reason for your resistance, is it because of the family? Or is it because of something else? If you find it, you just don't like it, then it's better to be early.

I also have a similar scripture as you

But I'm not engaged yet.

Zhi let me get engaged this year, just two days ago, I explained to him that we are really not suitable for the genus, and he is also very honest, and I think if I live with such a person, I will die of depression.

You're not married yet, so give yourself a way out, don't get a divorce at that time, you'll be even more depressed at that time.

Since it is said that there must be there, the desperate green mushroom is similar to the ordinary mushroom, but the expression is different.

Those who love you will not dislike you.

Oh, and this? Do you know how to get dressed? Do you brush your teeth? Can you walk? If you can do all of this, you should have the potential to do something good.

Well, I think it's time for a boyfriend.