I m digging into the horns. What do you mean by drilling the horns

Have you ever wondered why they didn't tell you?

The method I want to suggest to you is simple! Start from yourself, many daughters-in-law have this phenomenon of you, how many will be complained by their in-laws, but their husbands will not, imagine if you have complaints about your parents? I think if you and your husband live in your house, your husband will have some advice to your parents!

It can be seen that you and your husband have a good relationship, since you live with your in-laws, it is a family, and you have to live for a lifetime (under the premise of no emotional crisis), you have to treat your in-laws as your own parents, take care of them in life, be considerate, love, and tolerate (such as giving your mother-in-law a massage when you are free, buying a dress for your father-in-law after a small section, and stewing a tonic if your in-laws are a little sick)! If you really do this, your status in this family will be very high, and your in-laws will be more oriented to you in everything! Of course, the same should be done for my husband!

A warm family life needs to be run by yourself! Those daughters-in-law who complain about their in-laws as a whole are not unfilial, but they don't understand life! Think for yourself if that's the reason!

In addition, you should also have requirements for yourself, don't always live around the monotonous family life, and also have your own life circle (these two aspects should be coordinated) and sisters go shopping, travel, participate in public welfare undertakings, learn a few skillful crafts, exercise, women should also pay attention to maintenance, present their most beautiful side in front of everyone, and more importantly, maintain a healthy and optimistic attitude (which is very attractive to husbands)! If you are satisfied, you will get extra points!

According to your description: you are the common [18% of people] small daughter-in-law phenomenon, and the culprit is a big "big family", and you are not a housewife in this big family!! According to the survey:

There is only one best solution to split up the family "Let your mother-in-law be her own housewife" If your mother-in-law separates, your husband will inevitably favor you, and you are the head of the house! You have the status and the right to speak.

What's there, it's natural to be wooden. For a person or thing or thing that belongs to oneself, it will be wooden. There are too many things for men. Not so much. There is only optimism. Don't overthink it. Don't take things that can't be solved too seriously.

Learn to be inclusive. Think more for the other person. Don't think only of yourself forever.

Life is like eating, you have to eat every day, it's boring.

Sort of. The family is more tolerant.

Hello dear, what does it mean for you to drill the tip of the horns, the meaning of the horns is that your mind is more paranoid, immersed in your own logical thinking, unwilling to accept other possibilities, stubbornly think that things are such guidance: it is recommended that you first relax your emotions, stabilize your mentality, and then, to absorb a variety of suggestions and factors, and then carefully and objectively consider certain things. So what you mean is that you're too stubborn.

If you encounter a vague problem, you should ask in time, get a lot of effective information, I hope it can help you!