What are the causes of children who have no opinions?

Many parents are "kind-hearted" and arrange everything for their children. I'm afraid that they have wronged their children, what clothes to wear, what meals to eat, how much water to drink, when to go to bed, etc. Parents generally believe that children are small and children are not sensible.

Parents make decisions for their children for their own benefit. In fact, it is not necessarily for your own good, it is likely to save yourself trouble. But what is certain is that this damages the child's autonomy, does not give the child the space to choose freely, and it is not uncommon for parents to expect too much from their children, and children do not meet the requirements of their parents and are criticized by their parents.

When children handle things on their own, they always feel that they are not perfect. In short, when children do things, parents criticize too much, blow too much, and there is no encouragement, resulting in a loss of self-confidence and low enthusiasm for children, so they will not take the initiative to do things, because doing things will be hit, it is better not to do it.

People with a low sense of self-worth have a strong sense of conformity. In the process of growing up in children, the most important thing is to gain a sense of worth and belonging. When this need is not met, the individual is likely to form different personalities, such as over-dependence, over-courtship, and excessive low self-esteem.

They think in their hearts that they can't do it, so they won't and don't dare to express their opinions. The ability to grasp holistically refers to the attitude of flexibility and responsibility in the face of various constraints and behavioral consequences. Judgment refers to the use of wisdom and reasonable values to evaluate a situation.

The reason why a person has no opinion and cannot express his own opinion is because he has poor judgment ability on himself and things, does not have the confidence to grasp the overall development of things, and is unwilling to think. Due to their parents' wrong educational model, they have become accustomed to this mode of doing things without independent thinking.

Willpower refers to the psychological quality of setting goals and overcoming difficulties to achieve them. People with high willpower can consciously set goals and control their actions. People with low willpower are particularly suggestive, unable to conduct in-depth and detailed analysis when encountering difficult problems, lack the ability to think independently, and are more likely to be influenced by others to follow in their footsteps.

There is a big difference in personality between a child who is assertive and a child who is not. Especially independent children, they are very calm in handling things and are willing to interact with others. A child who has no opinion is indecisive in dealing with things.

They tend to exist in their own world. They don't like to socialize with others, but they are also afraid to socialize with others.

I think it has something to do with the discipline of parents, because parents always impose their own ideas on their children, so children will feel that it is okay to have parents, so they will not make decisions themselves, so they will not have opinions.

The child is too well protected by his parents and never makes any decisions independently; In the family environment, children are accustomed to listening to their parents for a long time, and gradually lose their own opinions.

The main original picture is because of the influence of the original family! Growing up in a family environment where her parents were strict, she had to get the consent of her parents for everything she did, and she couldn't have her own ideas. So I slowly lost my opinion.

1. The doting of parents, parents always think that their children are good words, and always help their children make choices. 2. Parents ignore their children's ideas and always feel that their children's ideas are wrong, and children must follow their own ideas.

First of all, parents always take care of everything for their children! Also, when a child says no, parents will always not agree with the child's opinion, or even refute the child, and sometimes force the child to agree with their own opinion.

Because their parents interfere too much in their children's affairs in their lives, do not let their children do anything themselves, or are often criticized by their parents in life, children are prone to lack of opinions and have low self-esteem.

The children did not have an opinion, it was the parents who laughed and made a decision for them. Let the child be assertive, respect him, treat them equally, and don't make decisions for him under the banner of being good to him.

This is that the child is not confident, so he will not be assertive, and this is that the child can do more things on his own, so that he will be assertive.

Because he is often called without his own opinion. Respect your child's opinion and let him take the initiative to put forward ideas.