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From now on, pay attention to current affairs and correct the bad habit of not being good at thinking about problems. Ask a few more whys and what to do, and then try to find a solution to the problem; Take the initiative to express your opinion after finding an answer or solution to a problem. As long as you can do both of the above.
Your unassertive image has completely changed.
Assertiveness describes one's own definite opinion or opinion about things. Have the ability to think independently. In the Guizhou dialect, there is a meaning of not doing one's duty and deliberately stirring up trouble.
The antonym of assertiveness is blind obedience. A considerable number of parents are accustomed to making decisions for their children in everything, and rarely ask for their children's opinions; If the child does not comply, he will be reprimanded. In fact, children have children's ideas, and parents should pay attention to allowing children to fully express their wishes at all times and give him the opportunity to think independently.
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I think it's because of my personality, and I lack the ability to make judgments. Indecisive in personality, I don't know how to choose, I am not confident in my heart, I am afraid that the conclusions I make will be biased, and I would rather listen to the arrangements of others. On the other hand, they do not have their own foresight of events and lack a certain ability to judge.
For example, if he has a strong expertise in something, he will make decisions easily, rather than being stagnant and not knowing where to go. Therefore, if you want to get rid of the shortcomings of not having an opinion, you must cultivate your self-confidence, improve your ability, and when you encounter problems, you must first make a comprehensive analysis, make a good basic judgment, and you can consult the opinions of others, but you do not need to completely adopt the advice of others. Gradually develop your own problem-solving skills, so that you can establish your own principles of life and work.
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1. If you are weak and unconfident, you will be easily disturbed by others.
2. If you don't want to think about problems and always want to rely on others, of course you won't have your own opinions.
3. Always want to make a thing perfect, but when you worry and worry, you will want to listen to other people's opinions, but there are many opinions of others, so you lose the ability to judge yourself.
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Either because of indecisiveness, or because of a lack of self-confidence, or because of the fact that someone has made decisions for you since you were a child, and you have developed the habit of relying on others for your ideas.
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The lack of assertiveness is, firstly, unconfident, not believing that one's judgment is correct, and secondly, the pursuit of perfection and always wanting the best result, thus hesitating.
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The main reason for not being assertive is that you are not confident, so you should build self-confidence in your daily life.
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What is the reason for not having an opinion, because of poor ability to do things, and not being firm in the position of not having a doctrine, that is, the reason for not having an opinion.
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Not being assertive is because you are used to relying on others.
Try your ability to change yourself.
Let's start by making small decisions.
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I don't have an opinion because I don't have self-confidence.
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Parents and elders do not give their children the opportunity to exercise, they must learn to let go and not let anything be done.
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Analysis: Assertiveness is your independent opinion and perception of things. When others disagree with you, it doesn't mean that other people's ideas are bad.
Mature and assertive people will have their own judgment on what they want to do, and at the same time, they can rationally look at the suggestions of others and learn from others' strengths. In the end, choosing the most reasonable one is not necessarily your own assertion in the first place.
Method: Expand your knowledge and think positively.
On the premise of referring to the opinions of others, insist on making your own decisions on your own affairs.
Regularly voice your opinions online, at home, and in the classroom.
Dare to refuse. Financially independent.
Nurturing children's opinions:
1. Actively solicit children's opinions and ideas, and let children make some decisions on their own. For example, if you take your child to the supermarket to do some shopping, you can ask him what he wants to buy; When you take your child out, you can ask him what means of transport he would like to take; When traveling with your child, ask him what he thinks he needs to prepare.
2. Break the child's superstition about authority, instead of blind obedience and blind imitation.
3 Do home mind games with your child. Parents can identify a topic or problem and ask their children to come up with multiple ways to solve it.
4. Cultivate children's ability to think and judge independently.
5. Frequently ask questions with your child, leaving space for him to think and answer without interfering.
6 Listen to your child's "nagging", listen to your child's "justification", and teach your child to say "no".
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1. Assertiveness is personal opinions and opinions, if a person does not have an opinion, it means that this person will not put forward his own opinions on things, can not make his own decisions, such a person may not be valued by others.
2. Assertiveness describes one's own definite opinion or opinion on things. Have the ability to think independently. In the Guizhou dialect, there is a meaning of not doing one's duty and deliberately stirring up trouble. Antonym of assertiveness.
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