Confident, please come in! What does it mean to be confident?

You're a sentimental girl You care too much about what others say about you If it were me, I wouldn't care about what others say or did Isn't it too tiring for you to live like that You're about the same as my GF A few days ago, because I talked to her about what the people in the class thought of her, she actually cried Know why, she just cares too much about what others think of her, if you don't care what others think of you, you can feel as happy as you want, then you won't feel inferior, because you live for yourself, not for others

In a word, "The eighteen changes of the female university, the more she changes, the better she looks!" "Believe me, I'm right, there was a girl in my class who was also very inferior, I couldn't recognize it when I saw it last year, she looked like a fairy, but unfortunately she was married.

You just wait for yourself to change, God won't be unfair, if it doesn't make girls look good, then isn't there most girls in this world who can't get married.

If everyone can come here, it means that everyone is confident, or I can't believe that we can give confidence to others; You have to know: a person, no matter what flaws or advantages you have, you have to believe (I don't know what your name is) that you are the only one in this world, and no matter how good it is, you can't find a second one, and others can't do it if they want to be like me. This is self-confidence, I hope you can cherish yourself and the people around you.

Be yourself and think that you have a lot of advantages that others don't have!

You all say pull"Come confidently", it means that you are not confident, as long as you learn to be confident, give yourself a smile every day, tell yourself that I am me, no matter what others say, I am the best, hehe.

Do more of what you think you can do well.

Doing what you are sure of will go a long way in improving your confidence.

Don't have low self-esteem, Dora, an ugly person in the world, you should believe in yourself, talk to your friends more, and exercise yourself more. Always say that I am no worse than others.

Believe in yourself, you can.

It's nothing, I used to think I was ugly, and then I felt very inferior, I usually got up every morning and said to myself: "Kiki, you are the best, you are the best, don't let the inferiority complex win, you can be beautiful and confident!" There is no one in the world who can make me sad and inferior!

Then I went back to school confidently

Don't have low self-esteem, the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge! There are people in the world who are inferior to you, why do you look down on yourself so much. Lift your head, puff up your chest, and you'll realize how wonderful the world is!

I agree with the point of view of the third floor !!

Tell yourself you're the best!!

Don't care about it.

Try to ignore it as much as possible.

Truth be told, a lot of people do.

Who can blame you for not looking good! If you want to blame your parents!

People live for themselves, what do others think?

It refers to an individual's assessment of their ability to successfully cope with a particular situation.

Self-confidence originally described a natural state of mind in social adaptation, that is, the nervous mental process when people try to grasp this strange world with their limited experience.

Self-confidence is not arrogance or pride, but logically speaking, it still has its blindness.

The meaning of life is to improve oneself from all aspects, and through continuous analysis, we can find out our own shortcomings, which is conducive to our own improvement and improvement.

On the subject of self-confidence, I would also like to add something for you.

1. Like yourself.

A very common problem for young people with low self-confidence is that they cannot fully accept themselves and cannot truly like themselves.

Scientists have found that girls don't feel the same way when they look in the mirror as boys look in the mirror. Boys admire themselves in front of the mirror, while girls care about seeing what "me" looks like in the eyes of others. Although the starting point is different, they have the same point of focusing on themselves.

However, some people pay attention to themselves but do not like themselves.

So, is it important to like yourself? The answer is yes. Psychologists tell us that we can't like someone unless we really like ourselves.

People who resent everything and everyone are more likely to show frustration and deep self-loathing.

An important sign of mental health is liking yourself and accepting yourself.

The first step to liking yourself is to stop judging yourself by other people's standards, but to establish your own values. Then put it into life and study. At the same time, we must learn to accept and reduce unnecessary self-blame.

Each of us has our own strengths and weaknesses. As students, we live in society, and we know our strengths and weaknesses mainly through the results of learning. But we don't need to feel inferior because of some of our own shortcomings, and perhaps, other aspects of you are the envy of others.

As we accumulate more and more knowledge, we will get more and more information. I believe that we will gradually have a proper and comprehensive self-evaluation. Neither will they doubt their full ability because of their own ability defects in some aspect, nor will they blindly estimate their own ability and neglect to compensate for their own shortcomings.

With self-acceptance, you will pay attention to everyone around you with an appreciative eye, and you will find that there are many lovely and shining things about them that are worthy of our praise and learning. You genuinely associate and get along with everyone. As you accept yourself and others, others will accept you.

Like yourself, show your true confidence in front of others, and you will be pleasantly surprised to find that you are gaining and improving every day! Your life is getting more and more exciting! Joy and laughter have become your inseparable best friends!

Second, the courage to practice.

What does self-confidence come from? Self-confidence comes from the process of practice.

Before doing something, some young people think about it and think about it, and they always think that they lack confidence and cannot put it into practice. In repeated thinking, they always imagine too much about the problems and difficulties of things, but rarely analyze their own advantages, so that the original self-confidence gradually disappears in the retreat and evasion.

In such a situation, we must keep in mind the self-confidence, "rather than thinking, it is better to do", in the process of courage to carry out the practice, our self-confidence can be gradually established.

Accept everyone's encouragement and criticism of yourself, first of all, we must admit that we are ordinary people, able to accept our mistakes, and will not blame ourselves too much, but know how to make up for mistakes after making mistakes, and know how to accept but not refute, because even if you do well, someone can find your problems, others criticize you may not hate you, but his concept is different, from the criticism you can also see how others see you, so as to be better and more perfect yourself.

Self-confidence: self-confidence: self-confidence, very self-confidence, overconfidence.

Self-confidence is self-affirmation and belief from the heart. Self-confidence is very important in interpersonal communication, career and work. As long as you believe in yourself, others will believe in you.

Specific ways to build self-confidence (1) Pick a seat in the front Have you noticed how the back row seats are filled first, whether in teaching or classroom gatherings? Most of the people who occupy the back seats want to not be "too conspicuous". And the reason for their fear of being noticed is a lack of faith.

Sitting in front builds confidence. Try it as a rule and sit as far forward as you can from now on. Of course, sitting in front of you will be more conspicuous, but remember that everything about success is conspicuous.

2) Practice looking at others squarely A person's eyes can reveal a lot about him. When someone doesn't look you in the eye, you instinctively ask yourself, "What are you trying to hide?"

What is he afraid of? Will he be bad for me? Not looking at others usually means:

I feel inferior next to you; I feel inferior to you; I'm afraid of you. Hiding from other people's eyes means: I feel guilty; I did or thought of something I didn't want you to know; I'm afraid that as soon as I touch your eyes, you will see through me.

It's all bad information. Facing people up to you is telling you that I am honest and above board.

I believe that what I am telling you is true, and I have no false heart. (3) Speed up your walking speed by 25% When David Schwartz was a teenager, it was a lot of fun to go to the center of town. After getting into the car after all the errands, my mother would often say:

David, let's sit for a while and look at the passers-by. Mother was a wonderful observer. She would say:

Look at that guy, what do you think he's suffering from? Or, "What do you think the lady over there is going to do?" Or, "Look at the man, he seems a little confused."

It's a pleasure to watch people walk. It's much cheaper and more enlightening than watching a movie. Many psychologists associate lazy posture and slow pace with unpleasant feelings about themselves, their work, and others.

But psychologists also tell us that by changing posture and speed, we can change our state of mind. If you look closely, you will see that the movement of the body is the result of the activity of the mind. Those who have been devastated and ostracized have a procrastination and a complete lack of self-confidence.

Ordinary people have the appearance of "ordinary people" walking, making a confession of "I'm not very proud of myself". The other person showed great confidence and walked faster than the average person, like a runner. Their pace tells the whole world:

I'm going to go to a big place, I'm going to do something important, and more importantly, I'm going to succeed in 15 minutes. ”

Self-confidence, the explanation given in the modern Chinese dictionary is only four words "believe in yourself".

Self-confidence is a kind of true trust and affirmation of self. Of course, ordinary people will appreciate their own good qualities, but I am afraid it is difficult to appreciate their own shortcomings, especially those that are in serious conflict with general concepts, such as laziness, cowardice, selfishness, stinginess, and so on. Therefore, when most people think of self-confidence, not only will they not appreciate their own shortcomings, but they will also try their best to hide their shortcomings and highlight their strengths.

What we may not realize is that when we do this, we are actually rejecting the opportunity to recognize our own shortcomings. In fact, any shortcomings have no substance, just a certain personality tendency, which itself has its benign side, such as laziness, which often brings people a relaxed mood and gives people stronger inspiration and creativity; For example, cowardice often has the advantages of kindness, thoughtfulness, and self-protection at the same time. If we can face up to these shortcomings, often their benign side will expand into another advantage of our own, and conversely, when we take them as shortcomings, reject them, suppress them, and avoid them, they will really become shortcomings.

Therefore, a truly confident person is a person who knows how to love and appreciate himself, and a person who can accept himself generously and peacefully. Only such a person will truly discover his own strengths, and in a situation of self-acceptance, people's internal friction is the least, and creativity and potential can be maximized.

On the other hand, if a person lacks such a mentality, then even if he shows off his might in front of others, in essence, deep down he still hides his most unwilling shortcomings, how can he be truly frank and confident? Therefore, true self-confidence lies in self-acceptance. This kind of acceptance is not only a conceptual understanding, but also a kind of emotional freedom, a person begins to dare to love and hate, and can properly express emotions.

He will be able to enjoy the emotions of others more fully. This requires us to not only face up to our own shortcomings, but also to trust our relationships.

Therefore, just like flowers, it is not necessary to cut peonies or roses to be called self-confidence, any flower, as long as it can grow happily and bloom freely, even dandelions and daisies are the most beautiful and vital way to live.

The simple understanding is to be yourself, to know yourself correctly, and to dare to accept your imperfect self, which is the foundation of self-confidence!

As long as people have a correct understanding of themselves and can look at others and themselves holistically, they will feel that they are not so bad, but they may feel that they are not in the best state or care too much about the opinions or ideas of others. And other people's opinions or ideas are often one-sided, causing you to have an unnecessary sense of inferiority. As long as you do the bad things and repeat them a few more times, you will gradually become familiar with them, things can be done well, give yourself more encouragement, and believe that you can do it well!

People can't retreat when they encounter difficulties, they must face them bravely! And resolutely correct! And a little more optimistic!

Smile a little more! Believe in these and you will be fine! will be more confident.