There are many kindergarten rules, and babies are reluctant to go

Sending children to kindergarten is a headache for many parents at first. Children are not used to the life of kindergarten and do not like the constraints of kindergarten, so whenever they say that they want to go to kindergarten, they always say that they are unwilling to go to kindergarten and do not go to kindergarten. What should parents do at this time?

Method steps.

There must be reasons why children are reluctant to go to kindergarten, and you can ask your child why he doesn't go to kindergarten. Analyze the reasons why children don't like to go to kindergarten from multiple perspectives.

If you go to kindergarten with other children, it is best if you can go to kindergarten with people in the same community or nearby and are in the same class. You can let them go to kindergarten together.

We can buy some things for the child that he likes, such as beautiful school bags, beautiful toys, etc., and then use these things to coax the child to kindergarten. This method is actually very risky, and many children will cry as if they buy something at the kindergarten gate.

Even if the child is crying, parents should not say that they will bring the child back and not let the child go to school. Going to kindergarten is going to kindergarten, and I won't let you go because of your crying.

Tell your child that there is one in kindergarten. Children can play together, and there are many fun toys, and the kindergarten teachers are also beautiful. Be able to play with a variety of rides in the kindergarten. And so on, these can attract babies to kindergarten.

It is normal for babies to be reluctant to go to kindergarten, and if they do not participate in early education classes, they will have to take about two weeks to adapt. Only when the baby slowly adapts. It's much easier to know what's going on in kindergarten.

Precautions. If the baby does not go to kindergarten, we must hold the child more and give the child enough security.

This is normal. But the baby still has to go to kindergarten, and it is impossible to go to elementary school without going to kindergarten. You can take the baby to know, how to do these rules well, how to play it fun, in telling him about these rules, I believe that the baby will definitely like the kindergarten.

In the process of children's growth, there will definitely be some rebellious psychology, learning is not active, and they are not willing to communicate with their parents, so at this time, parents should communicate more with their children, understand their children's ideas, and let their children change in a targeted manner.

1. The child is reluctant to leave his parents.

Before children enter kindergarten, they live with their parents, so at this stage, children who are not yet mentally mature have a very strong sense of dependence on their parents. For them, going to kindergarten is to leave their parents and their familiar environment, and naturally children will feel resistant.

2. Children feel that kindergarten is not fun.

Children at this stage are very curious, and in most cases, they are judging other things with their own subjective consciousness, for them, there is no understanding of kindergarten, so naturally, whether the kindergarten is fun has become the focus of their consideration, if the kindergarten can not bring happiness to the child, they will naturally begin to refuse.

3. The child is too lonely.

Some children have to go to kindergarten before they learn how to make friends with others, for some more introverted children, there is no one they are familiar with in the kindergarten, the child will feel very lonely, when they see other children playing together, although the child is young, but they will also feel lonely.

And the child's reluctance to go to kindergarten is actually not a big deal, parents can consider the child to be happy, originally at this age, it should not be crazy to learn knowledge. The greater role of the kindergarten should be to let the child get out of the safe haven that parents have built for the child, and the wild judge begins to contact the outside world. Compared with the knowledge learned, for children at this stage, it is more important to learn to get along with people other than their parents in kindergarten, and parents should not be too anxious.

If your child is out of place in kindergarten, likes to stay in the corner by himself, and doesn't like to play with other children, you need to be careful.

If the child does not cry or make trouble in kindergarten, parents must pay attention to it, and if there is emotional anxiety about the sensitive imitation of lifting the bridge, such as eating hands and being in a daze, etc., they must pay attention.

If the child goes to kindergarten without crying or making trouble, at this time, the family should pay more attention to whether the child's psychology is auspicious and normal, if the child has depression, there is this situation.

Treat it right. Parents should set rules at home and let the baby talk about the rules. For example, toys should be sorted out after playing, and meals and sleep should be punctual.

Parents must not be too kind and let their children feel that the rules can be changed directly. Parents should also teach by example, keep their promises, keep their word, and give their children a positive example.

Tell me in advance. The standard must be discussed with the child, and his ideas must be valued so that he can accept them. If you can't limit it with a fixed rule, you can free up the part that is flexible and negotiable.

After setting the standard, the trailer in advance is also very important, after all, the child's self-control is relatively limited. "Advance warning information" is of course easier than "addressing adverse effects".

Rewards and punishments are valid. After setting the rules, the main performance of moderately motivating children is an effective way to let children recognize right from wrong. When children are motivated to excel, it naturally reinforces the positive practical meaning of the rules.

Naturally, although children should also be punished when they make mistakes, they should not be too big, and parents should focus on their children's good behavior, and children will be very good at the main performance.

Parents should consciously teach their babies to learn some civilized words, "please", "hello", "really sorry" and "thank you", so that the baby can generously greet and greet people. When the baby interacts with the child, parents should not always point fingers on the side, there are interpersonal conflicts among the children, and even disputes and crying and trouble, as long as there is no radical behavior, parents had better not interfere, let themselves learn to solve. In that way, the baby will slowly learn to get along with others and find a lot of special friends.

In addition, parents can also communicate with kindergarten teachers, ask teachers to care about the baby's personal behavior, and ask teachers to "give advice" for the baby, find some children who can get along with each other to play together, and gradually assist the baby to grasp the professional skills of getting along with others, so that the baby can get along with others.

Three-year-olds can already realize that everyone has their own ideas and personalities, and these people already know to be humble and cooperate with each other when playing games with children. When there is a competition with their friends, they can take turns to play or swap toys to resolve the conflict; When you want something, you can respectfully and clearly ask for it.

Naturally, when you don't know how to vent your anger and sense of loss, there may be some cognitions of pushing, inviting, biting, and hitting people. When such a thing happens, first of all, to prevent hurting the other person, if he can't calm down quickly, take him away from the other children. Be careful not to accuse them of their actions at the first time, but to listen to what he has to say, to let him know that you understand her feelings, but you must be precise with him, and you must not express your dissatisfaction in the form of aggression against others.

If the child does not follow the rules in the kindergarten and often conflicts with others, parents must educate them correctly. Let the child establish the right concept. Learn to manage your emotions wisely.

If the child does not follow the rules, as parents, we must first understand the child's thoughts and guide him step by step; If the child does not play with the children, it is mostly because the child is more introverted, as parents, we usually have to play with the child, go to more crowded places, so that the child can slowly adapt to the place with more people.

If he doesn't follow the rules of the kindergarten, then the teacher will also educate him, and you must not indulge your child. At the same time, educate children in the future and play with other children, so that they will have friends in the future.

Parents should guide correctly in advanceBefore going to kindergarten, parents should set rules at home and let the baby talk about the rules. For example, after playing, toys should be cleaned up by yourself, and meals and sleeps should be on time. Parents must not be too soft-hearted and let their children feel that the rules can be changed at will.

Parents should also lead by example, do what they say, and give their children a positive example.

Inform us in advanceThe rules must be discussed with the child, respect his ideas, and make them acceptable. If it is not possible to qualify with fixed rules, you can leave a flexible and negotiable part. After setting the rules, it is also important to give advance notice, after all, children's self-control is limited.

It is certainly easier to "warn" in advance than to "deal with the consequences".

Rewards and punishments are reasonableAfter setting the rules, encouraging your child's correct behavior at the right time is the best way to let your child recognize right from wrong. When children are encouraged to behave well, it naturally reinforces the positive meaning of the rules. Of course, when children make mistakes, they should also be punished, but they should not be too magnified, and parents will be more willing to show if they focus on their children's good behavior.

Limited optionsThe method of limited choice is very effective for the child's rule development. Boundless choices can push young children outside of rules they can't control. If "are we reading a book, or drawing" instead of "don't run around, think about what we should do", in fact, what the baby has to do (quiet down) is set as a rule, and the child is given several optional directions (reading or drawing) within this range, so that no matter what the child chooses, his behavior is within the rules, so that he naturally accepts the rules.

Cooperate with the teacherParents can slowly guide the child and tell him to pay attention to the teacher's words in kindergarten and know what to do and what not to do, so that he can gradually understand the rules of the kindergarten sedan chair kindergarten. In addition, parents should also communicate more with the teacher, tell the teacher about the child's situation, and do not let the teacher reprimand the child in public, so as to prevent the child from being frustrated. Encourage your child and work with the teacher to help him integrate into the kindergarten community.

As a parent. In the kids.

I haven't entered kindergarten yet.

Before that, it is necessary to exercise the independence of the child. Familiarize the children with the environment in advance. The child will obediently change to enter the kindergarten.

Parents should not care too much about their children, do not be overly cautious and spoiling their children, and do not show a worried demeanor, so that the children will enter the kindergarten obediently.

Children don't want to go to kindergarten, most of them are afraid of being exposed to the unfamiliar environment, parents can communicate with their children more and guide their children to contact the new environment of the dust stool. It allows children to adapt as soon as possible.

You can reward your child, or you can encourage your child to pretend to be a lead. Don't rely on your child all the time, don't hold your grandson's hand and don't buy too many snacks for your child.

Parents can reward their children and make three chapters of the Dharma with their children. In this way, the child can follow the rules. You can manage your child, please let your child understand yourself, and also talk to your child more reason, help your child more, let your child understand your painstaking efforts, and buy some gifts for your child.

You can consciously cultivate children's concentration ability, usually to instill some correct concepts in children, to help them establish the correct three views, usually to gradually cultivate their interest in kindergarten, you can change the way the teacher lectures, to attract their attention.

Parents must establish a good value for their children, tell their children to abide by the rules in the kindergarten, tell their children to listen to the teacher, and set up some reward and punishment systems for their children.