If a person doesn t have a goal, what should he do if he has an ideal? 50

Be a person with ideals.

When I was a child, we talked about my ideals the most, writing essays, teachers asking questions, classmates asking each other, parents and friends would use this to test whether you were a good child, at that time most of us had big ambitions: scientists, doctors, astronauts, ......And I almost believe that these goals are not too far away from me, anyway, as long as I study hard, these things will definitely fall from the sky like pies, so learning is the only goal of all children in China, and the only means to achieve all ideals.

When we finally graduated from college one day, we found that the ideal and the reality were so far away, and it turned out that studying hard could basically guarantee food and clothing, and as for the lofty ideals we once had, it hardly had much to do with them, so people who only needed to hone in society for a few years have never mentioned their ideals anymore, even if they are people with ideals, they are embarrassed to say, afraid that they will be ridiculed, afraid that people will say that they are so ambitious.

The teacher told a very interesting thing in class, one of his female students asked him for advice, she has three suitors, one is a very smart person, one is a person with a good family background, and the other is not a person who does not have the first two conditions, but is a very ideal, vital person, she doesn't know who she should choose. The teacher told her to choose the ideal one. If she chooses the first two, maybe she will be very rich in her life, but it is more likely that she will feel bored all her life, but with the third person, she will feel that even if she jumps off the building with him, she will have no regrets in her life.

Maybe it's an exaggeration, but if a person doesn't have ideals, then he will not always think of constantly adjusting and changing himself, and constantly working hard to get closer to his ideals, so his life is likely to be step-by-step, the reason is very simple, because he doesn't know why he wants to change, people with ideals may always look unstable, and may never be able to achieve their ideals, but we often find that people with ideals always make people feel a kind of respect, because his life has a goal, His life will be full of life because of this ideal.

The French writer Le Nong said: "Don't be anxious! The road we are walking is a winding mountain road, with many twists and turns, many circles, and often we feel as if we are facing away from the goal, but in fact, we are always getting closer and closer to the goal. To all those who have ideals!

Without goals and ideals, people will feel bored and empty! You may even feel that the future is bleak!

Find something to do and let you have some psychological sustenance! It won't be boring!

If you have time to play ** for your family, go play ball in the afternoon!

Life will not be smooth sailing, there will always be unsatisfactory times, be hopeful for yourself and your future!

I want to open it, laugh a little, and pass, and worry about it, why not choose the former if you have to choose?

Good luck!

Plan boldly for the future, if you can't think of anything, first work hard to learn knowledge, and pay attention to the person you admire in your life, and aim for him.

Let's go sightseeing in the slums!

I am also a person very similar to you, in fact, there are so many people in the world, not everyone must be self-motivated, everyone has their own way of life, as long as they are happy, no regrets, others have goals, what about ideals, they are all for fame and profit! Only you are a rare person, a person who can be exempt from vulgarity.