Some children ask me, Why can t children fall in love? Why!!

It is very unwise to choose to fall in love when everyone is not yet mentally mature, because in love, everyone has a purpose or something they need, and the other party is not able to give it, which will doom the lovers to a tragic end.

Early love is really harmful to some students, they have poor self-control and don't realize that their main task is to study, so they forget to take love as the most important part of their lives, delay learning, waste time, and academic performance will inevitably decline

For wise and intelligent students, early love is not a bad thing, because they clearly understand that their task is to study, and falling in love is a matter of study, and they may study harder for future love, even if they can't guarantee that the two people can be together in the future For these smart children, no one wants to lag behind anyone when they are together, and the two people compare their grades, and there is a kind of strength that you fight me to catch up

Therefore, there is no good or bad in puppy love, it depends on what kind of person it is for

Uh··· This... Children are not so mature and can't see many things thoroughly, so it should be!! Khan...

Because the child's love is too simple, if it is hurt, it will affect the future, and he can distinguish between love and liking and still have a good feeling.

Tell him: "If you can't say it, you can do it!" ”

Children should focus on learning and growth.

Five-year-old children went to the park and met several pairs of people in love, the children were very curious and asked a number of questions, excerpts from Cong Ling are as follows:

Q: Why did that aunt sit on her uncle's lap?

Answer: Because my aunt was very hygienic and the stool was not clean, my aunt was afraid of getting her pants dirty, so she had to sit on her uncle's lap.

Q: Why did my uncle kiss that aunt?

A: My uncle said that he brushed his teeth twice a day, and my aunt sniffed it carefully to check if my uncle was lying.

Q: Why did that uncle carry his aunt away?

Answer: Auntie must have twisted her feet when she wears such high heels, how dangerous it is to wear high heels!

Q: How did that aunt twist her uncle's leg?

A: That aunt is a doctor, and he's checking my uncle's body!

Q: Can I check the health of the children in our class?

A: No, you cannot! Everyone has a lot of bacteria on their body, and if they get close, they will be infected, they will get sick, and they will have to take injections and medicines, so you must keep your distance from others!

Q: Why can uncles and aunts do it?

A: Because they are in love with Wang Pei. If you talk about it, you can get married, and if you get married, you will be a family, and if the family gets used to each other, it will not be contagious. But it should not be done in a public place, impolite!

Q: What is the purpose of falling in love?

Answer: Before getting married, check each other to see if each other has stinky feet, whether they sleep or not, whether they can earn enough money to buy a house, eat McDonald's, take care of their children, etc.

Q: Why should I get married to have children?

A: Because raising a child is expensive and laborious, one person can't be busy, so two people need to work together.

Q: The two children in our class are still kissing, are they in love?

Answer: (Khan) Nonsense! You have to buy tickets to watch movies, you have to have an education to find a job, and you have to be qualified to fall in love, do the children in your class cook by themselves?

Can you earn money to buy a house for yourself? If you don't know anything, you will kiss each other, how can it be called falling in love? That's called unhygienic!

Don't guess what a child thinks... There are all kinds of messy horses.

How to get his attention?

If he is really a child, then what he needs to do now is to study.

Learn knowledge to expand your knowledge, learn the principles of life and learn to be a person.

is also because of his young age, his thinking is not mature enough, he is relatively superficial in his treatment of feelings, and his thinking is not comprehensive enough.

It is also because the relationship in the eyes of parents is responsible, and children do not have the ability to live independently and cannot bear the burden of starting a family.

However, I think that no matter how old or young you are, your children will always be like children in the eyes of parents.

If you are mature enough and capable enough to cope with study and love, then you can talk to your parents and let him loosen his bonds.

In short, parents don't let their children fall in love, they think about the problem from the child's point of view, and it is for the good of the child, which should be understood as a child.

Before the age of falling in love, children still don't know what true love is, not to mention children, even adults are difficult to figure out what real love is! The main thing at this age is to study!

It's like a chick can't protect himself, how to protect his love partner. There's a sense of responsibility in that

If you were a parent, would you agree with your child's puppy love?

Because one heart cannot be used for two purposes, he wants you to study hard and let you give you a good future.

Because children are not capable of forming independent families, everything depends on their parents!

Because it affects learning, it is still mainly about learning, and there are opportunities after falling in love.

Because they are afraid that their children will go astray.

Because children cannot understand true love. Moreover, the definition of love says that love is based on sex, and children are not yet well developed. There are a lot of things to consider when it comes to falling in love, and there are responsibilities that need to be taken on. Falling in love requires a material foundation.

Early love will make learning regress, divert the attention of learning, and make children's hearts not pure. In the early days, I didn't understand what love was, it was a hazy feeling that could cause harm.

Children have too little experience and too little to see the world, and they are not qualified to fall in love.

Because it is too small, it does not take responsibility for things, and it does not give the subject material capital.

Do children understand what love is? Don't think that two people together are called love, this is too superficial, love is to be responsible for each other, love is to dare to take responsibility, children study hard, no one will want no culture.

Feelings are not something that children can bear, wait until you understand true love.

Stage, high school, crack down, persuade or pretend not to know;

University, first ask about the family situation, there should be no hope for the family if it is not good, many parents are realistic, if you are in love, the family is not far from the same should be hopeful.

However, the most important thing is to make yourself better.

Remember not to have a head-on confrontation with your child over this matter, which is tantamount to pushing your child towards the object of his early love.

You can observe silently first, grasp the situation first, if it is not very serious, there is no big impact, and do not strongly prevent the two from dating. If it is already more serious, let the child find out the shortcomings of the other party, and be sure to tell the child that you do not object to their relationship, but it does not mean support, do not let the child be wary of you, not to guard against you, it is good for you to grasp their dynamics.

In fact, children are in early love, parents are worried about nothing more than learning, parents can guide their children to work each other's learning, set goals for them, and always guide them in the right direction, their relationship will slowly become normal, quarrels, persecution, and blindly preventing it is often counterproductive.

With the development of the times, today's children are becoming more and more precocious. This is something that parents have no choice but have to accept. Once the child is in early love, as a parent, you should first try to get close to the child's psychological mentality, don't refuse, and have a stiff attitude, so that the child will only be rebellious.

This way, your child will be willing to communicate with you and share with you. You've succeeded, remember, don't reject your child in everything, after all, you are their closest people.

How old is the child, boy or girl? In this love, you must be heart-to-heart with your child, and you must ask your child to understand the attitude of the parents, analyze it well, and let the child be responsible for his own behavior, and as a parent, you must not be in a hurry, otherwise it will have the opposite effect.

Pay attention to guidance, love is a sign of a child's growth.