What are the signs of jealousy of your relatives?

Jealousy is a manifestation of a bad relationship between people, and it is also one of the manifestations of human feelings.

The most terrible thing about human beings is not that they are jealous, but that they do not have self-knowledge when jealousy is extremely serious, so when their relatives and friends around them are doing better, they will feel very lost, and they long in their hearts that everyone can be unlucky and get closer to themselves, rather than reaching the same height as those relatives and friends who are better than themselves through hard work.

In reality, those relatives who want you to have a bad life are usually very incompetent, and the family conditions and state are also full of negative energy, this kind of relatives don't have to be too serious with them, and try not to show their excellent side in front of them.

No one asks about the poor in the city, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains." There are so many relatives who will divide people into several classes, and they will only associate more with those relatives who are financially good, but they will refuse to stay away from those relatives who are not in good condition.

In general, the manifestations of relatives jealous of you are usually divided into the following: what you have, he also has. If any of your relatives are red-eyed, he will also try his best to get it, so as to prove that he is not worse than you; And they will also feel uncomfortable or jealous of your success, people who are really proud of you can share the joy of success with you, those relatives who are jealous of you, will not be able to laugh when you are successful, can only smirk, and have a lot of worries, since learning the news, the relationship with you is not as good as before, you can obviously feel that your relationship is gradually strange.

Relatives are jealous of others, who often compare themselves to others, who belittle you and elevate their children, and who speak ill of you in front of other relatives.

Relatives are jealous, and when you behave like you don't want your income to be higher than theirs, and if you buy a car and a house first, they will be sour and picky.

If you don't look at it rightly, you will speak with thorns, and then you will slander this person's goodness in front of outsiders, and some of you will ignore it or be duplicitous, and some of you will talk nonsense and spread it everywhere.

Speak in a weird way, always compare you to those who are super powerful, and your eyes will reveal jealousy when you speak.

Hello, it seems to praise you coldly, but it is actually mocking you.

I think that in front of outsiders, slandering this person's goodness and dividing people, some of them are ignorant or duplicitous, and some of them are more vicious and talk nonsense.

What you have, he will have too. If any of your relatives are red-eyed, he will also try his best to get it, so as to prove that he is not worse than you; And they will feel bad or jealous of your success.

It's possible that it's just sour, saying bad things about you.

1. What you have, he also has to have When a person is deeply jealous of you, he will naturally continue to imitate you to shorten the distance between you. However, there are qualities that he does not possess and can only imitate you in external material.

2. Feel uncomfortable about your success (weak jealousy behavior) People who are truly proud of you can share the joy of your success and regard your success as their own, such as your parents. And those who are secretly jealous of you often have a lot of self-esteem, so when you are successful, they will unconsciously choose to leave, and they do not want to be overshadowed by your side.

What you have to do is not to lower your posture and try to fit in with them, but to be calm, to have a high profile, so that they can't reach them, and ignore them, jealousy will not reinforce their boring behavior when it doesn't have the effect they expected.

Cherish those who have truly treated you and helped you, because they are like the sun coming out of the west. And most people just can't see the good of others. Looking down on and bullying those who are worse than themselves, and jealousy and exclusion of those who are better than themselves, this is the normal state of all sentient beings.

Relatives, who used to give people the impression that they were reasonable, could take care of each other, and did things with them very smoothly. However, the impression of relatives is different now. Today's relatives always want to compare with you with something, and there is another phenomenon, that is, the more estranged your relatives are, the more they compare themselves with you, and the more jealous they are.

Competitive, strong, and aggressive are their characteristics, they can't tolerate people better than him, and they will see your achievements as their biggest threat. In front of you, they will do whatever it takes to destroy your reputation and status and embarrass you. This kind of jealousy will make them more likely to lose their minds and even do things you don't expect.

Relatives are very jealous of you, the manifestation is that when they see the good parts of your house, they will speak very prickly, with irony, as if they can't see you well, and always say right and wrong in front of others.

They will deliberately distance themselves from you, when they meet you while walking, if they can avoid you, they will try to avoid you, in case they can't avoid it, if you don't take the initiative to call first, they will not want to call, even if they do, it is very reluctant, awkward, and unnatural.

Sometimes they get entangled in talking about your "no", and some of them will look embarrassed if you suspect that when you glance at them.

。Personally, I think that relatives are jealous of you: they think of your success as their own, such as your parents. And those who are secretly jealous of you tend to have a lot of self-esteem, so when you are successful, they will unconsciously choose to leave.

If a person is jealous of you, then whenever you have contact with this person, when you talk to you, the tone of this person's tone is always weird. When he sees that you are happy, the person mocks you. Seeing that you are depressed, this person feels very happy.

He will be particularly red-eyed, and he can't see or tolerate the good life of others, which is also a manifestation of his bad nature. It is said that peers are enemies, but they don't know that relatives and friends may also be enemies. So be sure to pay attention to the maintenance of the relationship.

People living in this world cannot be smooth sailing, or encounter difficulties, or encounter setbacks, or encounter changes, or encounter people and things that do not go well, these are normal phenomena in the progress of life. However, when some people encounter these phenomena, they are either upset, or miserable, or depressed, or pessimistic and disappointed, and even lose the courage to face life It is undeniable

I often wonder why people are not as happy as they used to be. The tools we use are getting more and more advanced, but there are more and more troubles; We work hard to live, but life becomes more and more unhappy; Our housing is bigger, but the space for movement is getting smaller; We have more knowledge, but we have worse judgment. Medicine is becoming more and more developed, but there are more and more human diseases;

Relatives are jealous of your success, which is a show of the surface and a set of backs, and they say these innocuous words, such expressions are all manifestations of jealousy.

There are also all kinds of different people among relatives, so there are people who are jealous of others, and these things are not strange, so when you encounter them, they are treated as if they do not exist, so why be sad because of these things.

Yin and Yang are weird, secretly provoking the relationship between you and your relatives, and he will interfere with everything you do.

You may say that I am too sad, too sad. But it's better to say it, you don't need anyone's sympathy, you just want to simply relax yourself. Maybe everyone will have a period of confusion and can't see the end of the road.

So what does it matter? It's enough to live every day. There is no need to interfere with yourself today because of yesterday's events, and there is no need to affect yourself for tomorrow's unknowns.

Dante once said, "Life is passing by at an incredible speed, we are running through space at 19 miles per second, but today is the most cherished period for us, and the only time we can truly grasp it." "Don't think I'm despairing, I just want to shine in despair. I can, and so can you.