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Jealousy is human nature, everyone wants to live well, and they also like to compare themselves with others involuntarily. Especially since you and your friends are a starting line.
To put it bluntly, most of you become good friends at the same level of your own strength, but the variable is: people will improve. If one day your friends improve and surpass you in terms of ability, economic ability, social status, etc., some of them will think that we were all starting points at the beginning, why are you better than me now, better than me, that is, we often say, you don't want to progress, and at the same time do not allow others to progress is such a reason.
The most serious manifestation of human jealousy is that people who are on the same level suddenly become very powerful, or you think that he cannot be as powerful as you and finally surpasses you, so the sense of loss in this situation can only be filled by this thing called "jealousy".
In other words, it is normal to encounter this kind of problem, just be normal, if it is a true good friend, seeing you soaring, it should bless you and be happy for you. As a friend, you should have the bearing to accept the success of others, and at the same time, you should turn jealousy into the strength of struggle to strive to improve yourself and lean towards your friends. To put it mildly, you should be very happy to have a friend who is a cow*, and you have another good material to brag about others, isn't it?
Secondly, if you were once the same strength, he can become better through hard work, which also shows that you also have the potential to become a successful person, doesn't it? Hahaha.
Everyone will have this kind of psychology of jealousy, it is good to say that it is envy, the important thing is to adjust their mentality, be clear about their goals, do less to increase their happiness, and at the same time help others when they are at a low point, and others bless him when they succeed are a rare bearing, as well as the pattern that people should have.
ps: Jealousy is normal, just treat it with a normal heart, and strive to do your own thing is the king, sincerely wish others success to show your bearing, and may you be a lovely person with grace. Refills
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If others are jealous of you, then maybe some of your behaviors or abilities. Better than him, it makes him jealous. Of course, there are some people who may not be used to your speech and behavior, of course, if only a few people are not used to you, then it may be their own problems, if everyone has an opinion on you, then you should still find the reason in yourself.
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Hello, this kind of person who is jealous of others, don't pay attention to him, it's not worth making friends, the pattern in your heart is too small, it's difficult to get things done, you're very good, give full play to your talents, make him jealous of you, and let him be angry with himself.
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The more he is like this, the more he thinks you are better than him, and the best way to do that is to ignore him, because he is nothing in your mind. The more you care about him, the more he feels that his plot will succeed, and the more angry you will be, which will not outweigh the losses!
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It's because you perform better than them or have the ability to them, but you are afraid that you will steal his position or power, so they will find fault with you at every turn and want to drive you away.
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This is normal, some people may indeed have talents, but the most important thing is that there is a famous saying that there are two kinds of people in the world who are worth being sad about, the first is to treat others as weaker than themselves, and the second is to think that they are the most powerful people.
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Some people are jealous, which means that they are doing very well, and some people can't stand it.
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You should be better at being undisturbed.
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At this point, I deeply regretted digging the cave too big, and opened a door where the wall and the rock meet. After much deliberation, I decided to build a semicircular fortification just outside the walls, where I planted two rows of trees twelve years ago, where the only existence in the universe is an infinite entity (nature), with countless movements. The trees were already very densely planted, so now they only need to make the trunks very close together by making some stakes between them.
I quickly put the wall up.
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Everyone has jealousy, and those who don't have it are abnormal people. It's just that some people are jealous, and some people are weaker. Some people are jealous and show attitudes such as "nothing is a big deal", "I will do those skills too" and so on.
Some people are jealous and show attitudes such as "nothing is a big deal", "I will do those skills too" and so on.
Some people are jealous, and they will secretly frame the object of their jealousy, which is vicious enough, and this kind of person is often smarter and more scheming.
Some people are jealous, and they will directly verbally or physically attack the person who is jealous (there are many verbal attacks).
Some people are jealous because they are particularly unconfident, so they will deliberately avoid some scenes related to the envied person. The motive is unknown.
Some people are jealous, and they must make a look that is nobler than the envied and stronger than the envied. It's very arrogant.
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If you are good, he will say bad things about you, and if you are bad, he will mock you.
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Hello, he said bad things about you. You're terrible, he taunts you.
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Actually, you don't have to worry about it.
Why should she be jealous of you for Zheng Jian?
Because you do a better job than her, you have to make others jealous of your pants.
Who would be jealous of a good-for-nothing person?
But at the same time, you're not doing well enough. Because most people are only jealous of those who they think should be like themselves, but who are actually a little better than themselves.
They look for those shortcomings, problems, just to prove to themselves that they are better and stronger.
That's why she hurts your thoughts like this.
I think you can try to do better and not think about what other people say and how to do it. They say theirs, you do yours. They are not you, and they can't influence you for the rest of your life.
And, think about it from another angle, aren't your weaknesses exactly where you can get rid of them and improve yourself?
You should be glad that someone helped you find it!
Change them, perfect them, and you will be perfect so that no one can say anything?
If you are easily swayed by others, then you have failed.
What's wrong with not looking good? It's nothing!
Who hasn't found a bad time?
What went wrong with the problem?
We could just laugh and forget about it!
They don't forget that it's their brain cells that are wasted, but if you don't forget, you're hurting yourself!
Well. That's pretty much it.
To sum up in one sentence.
Go your own way and let others say go.
One more sentence. No one will trouble the saints.
Complete! I hope you want to open it! ^^
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A sentence for someone who is jealous of you.
1. It is far better to be jealous than to be pitied.
2. The jealous person often seeks troubles for himself, which is the enemy of his ego.
3. I thought there were some people who would never be jealous because Qin Qi was too arrogant.
4. Jealousy is born where talent and will are lacking.
5. The proud man is jealous, and he is jealous of the one who is most praised for his virtues.
6. Anyone can become vicious, as long as you have tried what jealousy is, you will become as vicious as them.
7. Jealousy makes you unrecognizable.
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Hello, this situation is because everyone's physique is different, so there will be such a situation!
He is also cloudy-eyed, thinking that you are a bully, domineering, and showing his superiority. Ignore him and take care of yourself. I wish you happiness and happiness.