People who are jealous of you still love to imitate you, how to treat them?

Being jealous of you proves that you have a shining point, at least you have characteristics that he doesn't have, which is why he wants to imitate you, imitation sometimes causes you discomfort, and you always feel that there is a pair of inexplicable eyes staring at you all the time, but you have to believe that there are some things that cannot be imitated, such as imitating Liu Wen.

Will the eldest cousin be like her when she dresses up, the kind of temperament that exudes from the inside out is something that no one can imitate. So don't worry, you just need to understand that because you are good, she will imitate you, and you can even think of him treating you as a role model and treating you as a model, isn't that good? Look at the point!

Faced with this situation, the following ways can be taken:

1.Maintain self-confidence and a sense of self-worth: Don't let the jealous person's behavior affect your self-esteem and self-confidence. Everyone is unique, and your value is not determined by others, but by you to discover and create it yourself.

2.Connect with others: If possible, try to connect with these people on a deeper level. Understand the reason behind their behavior, perhaps a lack of self-confidence or something else. If you can, try to offer some help or support.

3.Show your uniqueness: Show your uniqueness and strengths as much as possible. Be yourself, play your strengths and passions, make yourself better, and make it impossible for the jealous to imitate.

4.Seek support: If these people's behaviour has seriously affected your life and work, seek help from a professional, such as a counsellor or relationship specialist.

In general, stay calm, don't let the jealous person's behavior affect your mood and life, and seek appropriate ways to deal with the problem.

Summary. Imitating others is actually because of jealousy, and at this time he will begin to imitate you, whether intentionally or unintentionally, in his subconscious is to replace you and have everything you have, and when someone says that he imitates you, he will also be very angry, speak fiercely, and feel that he is being bullied, in fact, this performance is because of jealousy of you.

The person who imitates you is not jealous.

Imitating others is actually because of jealousy, and at this time he will begin to imitate you, whether intentionally or unintentionally, in his subconscious is to replace you and have everything you have, and when someone says that he imitates you, he will also be very angry, speak fiercely, and feel that he is being bullied, in fact, this performance is because of jealousy of you.

Once a jealous person treats him badly, he goes straight to get along with others, and he is usually quite greedy for this person.

Hello, this kind of person belongs to the wall grass.

Pour on both sides. It's not a wall-to-wall either.

I don't know how to say it.

It's that this person is very jealous, and once he doesn't treat him well, he ignores me and goes with another friend.

Kind of speechless about this.

Hello, this kind of person, don't hand it over.

Hello! It's not jealousy, I think they're appreciating you! All living beings, 3,000 worlds!

There are others who appreciate you, and I have to say, you are very charismatic! Come to think of it, life is a little more fun! Man is the highest animal of society!

We humans also have "five bird plays" that imitate animals, such as: the tiger's lazy waist stretch, which can exercise your waist muscles; The limbs of the deer are firm and look left and right, the spine and viscera function exercise of bears, the left and right movement of apes and cardiopulmonary function exercises, and the joint function exercises of cranes. Could it be that we humans are jealous and fond of them? No, we're admiring the good side of them, don't you?

When you find that others are imitating you, I think you may have a judgment of your own in your own mind when facing such a person. Because for me, if I find that some people can imitate me, I will first be sure of what kind of impression I have, what kind of impression I had of him before this happened, and then I will also make an analysis of what he will do next based on a part of the impression to judge what kind of mentality he has.

In fact, sometimes it's like fans of celebrities, they like to imitate the people they like, so at this time you will find that some people who are famous in school and people who are famous in their own living space will have some people deliberately imitate them, and these times are not for any other reason, just because they are simply very envious and like them. But if you don't know another person, you find that he starts to imitate silentlyAt this time, I think you should first have a clearer understanding of him, and then judge a thing. But not everyone can see through it at a glance.

If you feel that someone is imitating you because you are jealous, I think it is actually more obvious, because he will definitely show his own dissatisfaction with you in other aspects. So first of all, you have to analyze what kind of relationship you have with that personI also want to see if my own place is worth his imitation. Because I once found out that there was a person in our school, he would imitate him a lot, and to be honest, I didn't know what kind of mentality he was at the time, but then we became very good friends.

So my suspicion at that time, because we developed into good friends at that time, gradually alleviated, such an unhappy feeling. Later, I found out that he was not deliberately imitating at that time, I just found that we were very similar in many places, and I misunderstood it at the time, meaning that I must first understand the situation and then judge one thing.

It can be looked at in several ways:

1. Imitate your behavior, is it something you like? If some of your behaviors are liked by many people and recognized by others, then the imitation of the other party should be a kind of liking, or envy, hoping to be recognized. On the contrary, if you don't like it and are ridiculed by others, it is a kind of jealousy, or it is deliberately trying to tarnish your image.

2. If the other party imitates you in order to be ridiculed by others, or when others ridicule you, he will be very happy, that is a kind of jealousy, or malicious behavior. On the contrary, if you want others to approve you, when others approve you, you will be very happy, and it is a kind of liking.

3. If you can explain your imitation of you when you are with you, and can hope that you can teach, etc., it is a kind of recognition of you and a liking. Especially when you can feel a little happier.

For example, if you buy a new dress, or when you wear a dress, you are praised by others many times, and the person who imitates you also buys one that is exactly the same as you, it means that he is jealous of you.

This kind of imitation depends on the motives of the other person, and you need to judge from the perception that jealousy will make you feel malicious, and liking will make you feel comfortable.

Someone imitates you to show that you are very successful, indicating that the other party recognizes you, otherwise they will not follow you and generally like you.

Just look at his attitude towards himself, if he has a particularly good attitude towards himself, it must be like his performance.

Judging from the look in his eyes, if he likes himself, his eyes will look at him with a bright eye.

In Li Ling**, the girl's voice was slightly hoarse, and she couldn't hide her anger: "I don't know, why are they jealous of me?" "The girl who hit ** is named Lin Qianqian, and she is in junior high school in a key middle school.

She's always been at the top of her grades, but she's not happy because she's easily envied. For example, Lin Qianqian won the first place in the essay competition, and when she returned to the class, everyone did not send her congratulations as she imagined, but someone said something sarcastic in a weird way. Recently, several classmates spontaneously organized an outing, and Lin Qianqian originally wanted to go, but no one informed her.

She took the initiative to ask a classmate, who was reluctant to tell her. Lin Qianqian was very sad, she couldn't figure it out, her achievements were earned by hard work, why was she always jealous? Lin Qianqian's pain can be understood.

In fact, each of us has a need to be recognized and accepted, and if this need is met, what we feel is security and happiness. On the contrary, if this need is not met, we will feel uneasy and sad. Lin Qianqian has established an inevitable connection between her excellence and being jealous, but this is not the case.

A lot of good people, they are respected and admired, but they are not envied. Why is that? How do you be admired and not envied?

The most important thing is to have a sense of cooperation with your classmates. When you see others as mere competitors, they put you on the opposite side. At this point, it's hard to talk about what blesses you and rejoices in your success.

Therefore, no matter how good we are, no matter how many specialties we have, we must have a ruler in our hearts, and we must always measure it - what can my excellence bring to others? If the measurement is only "comparing others", it will be difficult for you to get the sincere blessings and appreciation of others; On the other hand, if the measurement is "I have inspired others" or "I have helped others", then it is only natural that you will be popular. Because your goodness brings more benefits to others, everyone will hope that you will be better in their hearts, and everyone will naturally bless you for the progress you have made.

Suddenly I remembered a song, which sang - "No one shares no matter how many achievements are not complete", in this case, let's keep excellent at the same time, but also give others a little more enthusiasm! At that time, you will find that there are fewer and fewer people who are jealous of you, and more and more people who really cheer for you.

There could be many reasons for this. For example, if you are beautiful, you have good grades, or there are many people who agree with you. And the family conditions too.

You're just going to have a good life, pissing people off that useless trash.

There are several possible reasons why you are always jealous of others:

It comes from not being strong enough (low self-esteem). Vanity plays the hawk. Many people are jealous of others, just because they are not strong enough, their ability is not strong enough, and when they see that others are better than themselves, their hearts are unbalanced, or they are inferior to others for a long time, which leads to a gap in their hearts and an inferiority complex.

When I was working in the company, there was an old colleague in the same group who had been working for almost 10 years, he had worked longer than us, and he was experienced enough, but it may be because of his ability that his work was not as good as a college graduate who had just joined the company for more than a year, and when the leader praised the college student, his expression was very strange, and he usually complained that some places were unfair, and he was the most sensitive when chatting, I think this is a sign of jealousy, He is jealous that a new employee is better than him, but in reality he should look for problems in himself, not in others.

As the saying goes, no desire is just, and some people are not jealous of others on the merits of their work, but the vanity in life that arises from this piece of jealousy of others, for example, they can't afford a bag, but their colleagues around them have bought, this is normal, everyone's life and family conditions are different, you can't be jealous of others because others can afford something, this situation is only to put your own mentality, as long as you don't have the desire to buy luxury goods, you will naturally not be jealous of others.