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People who are jealous of you may not tell you to your face, but there will be some behaviors that make you uncomfortable。The details often don't lie. If someone around you is jealous of you, you may feel the following:
One: There are always people who can't see you living so well. People who are jealous of you don't want you to live well from the bottom of their hearts, and even hope that you don't live as well as him.
If you have some joy and happiness to share with everyone, the people who are really happy for you and those who are ostensibly happy for you look very different. 2.There are always people behind your back who are sour and say bad things about you.
Out of jealousy, they denigrate, sarcastic, and speak ill of those who have real talents. In fact, this also exposes his own cowardice.
There will always be people who laugh at you, but imitate you everywhere. Everyone has a class flower when they are students. There will be good female characters around after work.
What they all have in common is that they have become the lives that many girls want. She is beautiful, she can dress up, she works hard, she works very hard, and she will never fail in everything. As a result, they will attract a lot of criticism from jealous people.
Almost half of the flowers were maliciously slandered, and some groundless rumors were spread about the company's best women. Those jealous girls will tell others that half-flowered clothes are particularly ugly, while imitating other people's dressing styles; Jealous of the best people in the company, they will gossip about other people's private lives.
Malicious speculation. Whether their work achievements have been obtained in some bad way.
But they deliberately imitate other people's way of doing things, or the way they speak and do things, in an attempt to make themselves some good shadows of others. These examples are not uncommon。No one likes to be imitated, especially if you've carefully matched an outfit and the next day you'll find someone wearing exactly the same outfit as you.
It's a really bad feeling. But think about it from another angle, jealousy is the greatest compliment to a person, and it is also a manifestation of one's own incompetence. If a person always imitates you and always slanders you behind her back, it means that you are the best person in her heart.
People only care about people who are taller than themselves. How can anyone care about someone worse than themselves? So, she thinks you are strong and will be jealous of you.
In fact, jealousy is a very complex psychology, and it is not only rightSomeone else's lifeNot satisfied。It's not so much about dissatisfaction with those who are good, but about feeling bored with one's inferiority complex, and even resenting oneself. You can't change the status quo.
People who are always jealous of others are actually unhappy in their hearts, and their lives are often messed up. If you see that others are better and you want to have what others have, you may have a sense of comparison. Proper comparisons will spark your own desire and self-motivation.
This is a normal emotion and is desirable. However, excessive comparisons can turn into jealousy and uncontrollably slander others, which is undesirable. I hope that everyone can put their minds right and strive to approach excellence, instead of pursuing excellence or even wanting to extinguish the light of others.
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You will feel that you are constantly stared at, and you will feel uncomfortable in certain circumstances, and you will also feel that the way others speak is particularly yin and yang, and you will also feel very uncomfortable with people who are jealous of you.
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There will always be people who speak ill of themselves, there will always be people who ridicule you, but they will also imitate you, and they will always see that you are doing well, and so on, these feelings are all manifestations of jealousy, indicating that there are other people who are jealous of you.
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They will often sarcastically and sarcastically mock you, and they will always have different opinions from you on some things, and they will not get the approval of the other party no matter what, which is a sign that this person is jealous of you.
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It is normal and common for everyone to feel jealous. When you find that you are not as good as others, or when others are in a similar condition and state to yourself, but because of opportunities, connections or other external factors, your heart is in a state of strong contrast and imbalance, and you will also be jealous.
After the psychology of jealousy appears, we need to look at it objectively and rationally. Jealousy is a normal human psychology. However, jealousy that lasts too long can be physically and mentally detrimental and cause emotional distress.
The first suggestion is to improve one's personal competitiveness, the second is to correctly evaluate opponents, and the third is to release one's emotions through legitimate channels, such as recruiting people to confide, getting family support, listening to others' suggestions, etc. If you can't get relief for a long time, you can consult with a psychological counselor (normally and sometimes you need psychological counseling) to learn to adjust your emotions reasonably.
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Jealousy is caused by the improper positioning of desires and people. A beggar will be jealous of the rich, first of all, he has a yearning (desire) for a rich life, and secondly, he thinks that I am a human being, he is a human being, and we are the same (not properly positioned, not the same at all). He has, and I don't, creating the unfairness of the contrast, which leads to jealousy.
When you think you're better than others, it's just what you think. Others are better in objective things, so others have what you don't have. Only by finding your desires and anchors can you understand jealousy and thus be free from the nameless control of jealousy.
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There are no mortals, no jealousy, they may be immortals!
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Because he has a heart of comparison and does not want to be worse than others, jealousy is derived!
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Generally envy.
Then there is the hatred that oneself is not as good as others.
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Some people are jealous and show attitudes such as "nothing is a big deal", "I will do those skills too" and so on.
Some people are jealous, and they will secretly frame the object of their jealousy, which is vicious enough, and this kind of person is often smarter and more scheming.
Some people are jealous, and they will directly verbally or physically attack the person who is jealous (there are many verbal attacks).
Some people are jealous because they are particularly unconfident, so they will deliberately avoid some scenes related to the envied person. The motive is unknown.
Some people are jealous, and they must make a look that is nobler than the envied and stronger than the envied. It's very arrogant.
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Speak ill of you behind your back and verbally attack.
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