How to avoid jealousy in love?

Every couple or couple actually has itJealousyPsychology, how to put it, just say that you may be born because of some trivial things in lifeJealousy。For example: if a boyfriend treats his friend too well, you will produceJealousyFeel that he should not be better to others than you.

Or hersMale girlfriendsThat is, male friends, the man will generally mind very much, if you are comparing the relationship with the other party too muchcloselyThen the man may be veryJealousyAnd will be very angry with your relationship. Of course, because both parties care more about other people's affairs and things than you do, then you will also have themJealousyPsychology. This jealousy is also the enemy in love.

So how can you avoid it?

There are things and ideas that two people must do effectivelyCommunication, because only communication can solve the problem. Like, a lot of couples are hereIn loveI always have such a problem when going out to eatBoyfriendFriends ask you what you want to eat or what you like to eat, youWhatever。When he really chooses randomly, you say no, I don'tLikeEat this, don't like that, etc.

This kind of just startedIn loveIt's okay, but after a long time, everyone will get tired. Every day, just guessing the other person's mind will break down. Therefore, when you encounter something or something you feel uncomfortable with, you must go to it in a timely mannerCommunicationIt's better, because it's an effective way to avoid both of youFriction, and it can also make your love a little sweeter.

Be sure to have your own independenceThoughts, enrich yourself and enhance your own value, so that you don't have so much time to be suspicious, thoughFeelingsis essential, but sometimes this oneFeelingsBeing too heavy can also cause stress and arguments to the other party.

It's better to spend more timeElevateBuild your own within, build your ownSelf-confidenceLet the other person love you more. Therefore, both boys and girls need to have a certain sense of proportion when they are in loveDistance

If you want to avoid jealousy, you need to be strong yourself, and generally being jealous of others is admitting that you are not good enough.

If you want to be excellent and affirm yourself, you can ask your friends and relatives to name 100 of your strengths, and you can also find out your own 100 advantages;

Keep a success diary and record what you think is successful every day, and you will find that you will become better and better.

You should have a particularly good attitude, if you have something unhappy, you should take the initiative to ask the other party, so as to get a good explanation, there should be no jealousy, if the other party cares about yourself, you will not leave yourself.

Sit down with the subject and talk to them about your concerns. Two people often open ** or go out to play to enhance the sense of trust between each other. Read some books on love and read each other's hearts.

Then you should see the shortcomings of the other party and find the shining points in yourself at the same time.

Is there any way to eliminate jealousy when in love? People have seven emotions and six desires, and in our emotional life, we will inevitably be jealous of others. Jealousy can turn a person beyond recognition.

And if we are jealous in a relationship, it will greatly affect the relationship between us and our partner, so we must do the following to eliminate jealousy.

1.Both parties in a relationship should be completely equal. In love, the first thing to do is to treat your lover with an equal attitude, respect his individuality and freedom, and prevent yourself from being too possessive.

Excessive jealousy is useless, it will only make your mood worse and worse, and even affect the relationship with your partner. Therefore, both parties in love should treat their feelings with an equal attitude, respect and understand each other, and do not excessively engage in meaningless comparisons. Because everyone is different and everyone should be treated equally.

2.Abandon the idea of selfishness in love. In love, if your jealousy is crazy, it means that you are selfish.

The more you want to treat the other person as your own mediocrity, the more you will show jealousy. Therefore, on the basis of emotional respect, we should abandon our own selfish concepts, do not be self-centered, and discover more of the strengths of the other half, rather than magnifying his shortcomings.

3.Defeat sensibility with reason. An irrational woman will gradually turn selfishness into jealousy and lose the ability to control her emotions.

Therefore, if a woman wants to overcome serious jealousy, she must learn to deal with her feelings rationally. Look at each other rationally, and also look at yourself rationally.

4.Trust each other and believe in yourself. In love, you must give each other enough free space, and you must not treat each other as a private accessory.

At the same time, you must be confident in yourself and give full play to your strengths. Enhance your own charm, give the other person a better living environment, and make yourself friendly, honest, optimistic, tolerant, and cheerful, these excellent qualities are conducive to building a more harmonious relationship with the other person.

When in love, these methods can eliminate jealousy:1To accept that both parties in love should be completely equal, respecting each other's personality and freedom; 2.

Abandoning the concept of selfishness in love and correctly viewing love is exclusive and single-minded; 3.Use reason to overcome people with strong emotional reason, even if they are suspicious because of jealousy, they can analyze it calmly.

Tell yourself that people are different, each has its own good, what he has I don't have, but he doesn't have what I don't have, why be jealous.

I think I should improve my ability, I should also correct my mentality, I should have a good attitude towards love, I should respect each other more, and I should be more tolerant of each other.

We will find that there is a small group of people who will always say this sentence, always thinking that other people's love is more romantic and sweeter, and their own love is always in trouble.

In fact, this is a vicious circle, you always can't pay attention to your own emotions, or you are always unwilling to be willing to the love in front of you or the current object, and keep envying other couples, envying other people's boyfriends and girlfriends, which leads to your love becoming more and more bland until it is broken, and you have to keep emphasizing that it is not your own problem, that your object is not as good as someone else's object, and then look for a new goal to establish a relationship, and repeat the above process, and never get happiness.

So how do you break this habit?

First of all, you have to want to solve this problem spontaneously from the bottom of your heart, and clearly realize that the problem is yourself.

Second, you need to understand that change doesn't happen overnight, it takes a process.

Then, you need to understand that there is no perfect love, the couple you envy may also envy you, the person you envy just shows you the best part of him, and the information is one-sided.

When you have established a good understanding and are really ready to start acting, you can take a hard look at the people you envy, how they communicate, how they get along, and their view of love.

What is different from your own view of love, what can be borrowed, and what things must be abandoned.

Sometimes I envy myself when I see others happy, but sometimes I tell myself that I would rather lack than overuse, and talk about a real relationship, but the person who is right with me has never appeared. Don't think too much, you have to live happily alone, two people have bad times together, there will be troubles, do what you want to do while you are still single, and you will be accompanied by your partner for decades in the future, are you still afraid of temporary loneliness now? Besides, you're not the only one who is single, but also me, and many others.

If you are envious or jealous of other people's love in love, then you should also take the initiative to meet the conditions of other people's love. If you don't change yourself, you will never be able to achieve the feeling of happiness for others.

This situation shows that you want your love to improve. But you don't need to be too envious of others, what suits you is the most important, adjust your mentality, and just communicate with each other with your heart.

Ten years of life and death, without thinking, unforgettable. Thousands of miles of lonely graves, nowhere to talk about desolation. Even if you don't know each other, your face is dusty, and your temples are like frost.

At night, I suddenly returned to my hometown, and I was dressing up in the small window. There are no words for each other, only a thousand tears. It is expected that the intestines will be broken every year, the bright moon night, and the short Matsuoka.

You are wrong in this idea, you should instead focus on yourself and find yourself a new happy life.

If you envy someone, then you don't have to stay with him.

When you are jealous and envious of others, others are also jealous and envious of you.

That's because you haven't found the people you love and the people who love you.

Give yourself more confidence, work hard to improve yourself, find something to do for yourself, give yourself a sense of security, and don't care too much about what others do.

If you encounter such a thing in your relationship, you should give yourself certain psychological hints, maintain a normal state of mind, don't be occupied by your negative emotions, and be sure to control your emotions, so that you can eliminate your jealousy, keep yourself in a normal state of mind, and help your own growth.

You should communicate with each other as an equal in the relationship, and you should also appreciate each other's strengths, learn to understand each other, and tolerate some of each other's shortcomings, so as to eliminate jealousy.

In the relationship, you can communicate more with the other party, and you should warn yourself that the other party also has their own circle of friends, and they should also develop their own hobbies, which can eliminate jealousy.

To ensure your independence, you can gather with friends more, divert your attention, calm your mind, strive to improve yourself, and don't care about what others are doing, etc.

You must correct your attitude, you must be a confident person, don't always suffer from gains and losses, believe that you are the best and the best, and don't always be jealous of others.

In a relationship, no matter how good the other person is, we will always be jealous of others, because someone is doing better than our boyfriend. But we must know that there is no perfect person in the world, and there is no perfect thing, so we should not always compare our boyfriend to others. Because everyone's mind is different, and everyone's economic strength is also different, this comparison will only make the relationship between two people worse and worse.

Jealousy must exist, and when we feel that other girls have something that we don't have, we will be very jealous of others. But we must know that it may be because this girl is better than us in the first place, so these girls also deserve better things. If we always ask for our boyfriend with a high vision, we may lose even what we have now.

People who don't know how to be satisfied will maintain a jealous heart anywhere, and this jealousy will also make your life more and more irritable. Many people will compare their boyfriends and girlfriends with others, but this comparison will only destroy the relationship between two people. If we are not satisfied at this time, it will make the other party feel that there is no need to persist in this relationship, and the two of them are about to come to an end.

Every time we are jealous of others, we should think about itThe other party is trying to do the best he can to meet our needs, for example, your boyfriend is still in school, but he is willing to spend dozens of dollars to buy you a lipstick. This is already the best thing he can do, and if you want your boyfriend who is going to school to take you to eat all the delicacies of the mountains and seas, it is absolutely impossible. Therefore, people must learn to be content, and when we fall in love, we are looking for a partner, not a big sum.

If you really know that you are satisfied, you will not be jealous of others at all, but if your boyfriend doesn't even give you the most basic love, then, I think, there is no need to continue this relationship, because he can't give you material things, and life can't give you love, then being together will only make you tired.

In a relationship, my partner made me jealous like this: every time he came home, his parents would cook his favorite food for him, and seeing that they were very warm, I was really jealous in my heart, because my parents were no longer there.

My partner is sometimes close to the opposite sex, and I have a lot of friends of the opposite sex that make me very jealous.

My object only makes me feel the pressure of competition, and I am not jealous.

Feelings are a two-way thing for two people.

Only when two people become better at each other can they fall in love for a long time.

It's just that when I need him, he is always busy, and there is no way to appear by my side in time, and he doesn't give me enough security and companionship.

Yes, even when you quarrel, you can't get a result, no one will pay attention to anyone, he won't take the initiative to pay attention to you, he won't apologize to you, and he wants you to say good things to him.

In the process of falling in love, my partner will usually tell me what girls like him. to arouse my jealousy.