I moved from my own department to someone else s dormitory, and after spending some time with them

Oh my God, it's the first time I've heard of it, and that's a bit too much.

I'm not a major in our dormitory, but we're all in the automotive department, because we have 7 hungry girls in our major, and the other 6 live in a dormitory together, and I live in the dormitory next door. You must be a girl, I think, only girls will have small conflicts, boys are generally not like this. Girls are born to be that, although I am a girl myself, but I never like to play with girls, I can't stand the intrigue life of women.

To be honest, I also don't have a good relationship with the dormitory, so I moved out and lived by myself, I rented a room in the dormitory area of our school, where the doctoral students lived, and now I live alone, which is quite free, read books when I read, I don't want to read the Internet, listen to songs, sleep and sleep, it really belongs to my own personal space. I'm a junior now, and I wanted to move out when I was a sophomore, but I didn't find a good house at that time, so I didn't move out until my junior year, which was really not easy.

It's just me, the environment in the dormitory will be depressed and die When you sleep, people don't care about singing, and when you get up early in the morning, you say that you are noisy with her. With this kind of dormitory, I can only accept my fate, alas, this kind of person is really tragic, and I am speechless

It is recommended that you consider living on your own, you have reached this level with them like this, and there will definitely be no peaceful days. It's okay to find someone to share a house, just find a similar one near the school, it's good to read by yourself, it's quiet, the most important thing is to be clean, away from those who don't want to face it every day, out of sight, out of mind, just live your own life. There's no need to pay attention to them, what's the point of entangling with them?

Isn't it a waste of your feelings and a waste of your time? There are so many meaningful things to do in college. There's no need to waste precious time on boring things for these boring people, it's boring.

Moving out, reading your books well, sleeping well, going to graduate school well, and passing the university every day, this is what I yearn for

You're supposed to be in college, and relationships in college dorms are especially important because you're likely to spend most of your time in dorms, so since your relationship has broken down to the point where it's still something, my advice is to move out and we won't be guilty of that. Otherwise, you can also be positive, sit down and have a good talk, resolve the conflict, and life has to go on Come on, the landlord!!

Do you have permission from the Registrar's Office? If so, then there is no need to be angry with them, since you have paid the accommodation fee, you have the right to live in the dormitory arranged by the school, if not, leave as soon as possible, out of sight!

Summary. Actually, we can't like everyone, and we can't make everyone like you. In addition to them taking the initiative to invite you, you also need to find some opportunities to take the initiative to invite them and take the initiative to express your goodwill to make friends with them.

As for the dormitory, you don't think the whole atmosphere is particularly open, but it is actually very harmonious, and we can respect each other. You can talk selectively, for example, at home, and with your parents, you can't say whatever you want. But you definitely still have some topics of mutual interest to talk about.

In this way, among the roommates, find something that suits each other's interests.

When the roommates want to go out together, and when they finally leave, they remember to call you, and I feel that the dormitory relationship is getting weaker and weaker, and it is difficult for the new class to fit in.

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From your writing, it seems that you will have some habitual passive communication habits in interpersonal communication, but you are a particularly delicate and sensitive person, am I right?

It's that the interaction with people is relatively slow, and the more contact you have, the better the relationship will naturally be, but after changing majors, there is very little intersection with your roommate's courses, you can't go to class together, you have fewer topics to participate in, and you rarely have intersections with your classmates, except for classes and class activities. Mainly in the dormitory psychological experience is very bad, let me feel very uncomfortable, the dormitory has a harmonious relationship, never even quarreled with each other, too calm, in the dormitory everyone speaks very politely, people always feel estranged.

Do you have any classmates with whom you are relatively close? Or are you a classmate you prefer to spend time with?

I feel that college life is free.,The personality is relatively slow.,There are some classmates I know.,But the relationship isn't good enough to be a friend.,But some words will talk to them endlessly, but I can't talk to my roommate.。

Actually, we can't like everyone, and we can't make everyone like you. In addition to them taking the initiative to invite you, you also need to find some opportunities to take the initiative to invite them and take the initiative to express your goodwill to make friends with them. As for the dormitory, you don't think the whole atmosphere is particularly open, but it is actually very harmonious, and we can respect each other.

You can talk selectively, for example, at home, and with your parents, you can't say whatever you want. But you definitely still have some topics of mutual interest to talk about. In this way, among the roommates, find something that suits each other's interests.

For example, you can talk about career planning after graduation, school cafeterias, libraries, and other topics suitable for mass students. If it's easier, let's talk about school gossip or something.

Oh, sorry, I just saw that the system says you can't send messages anymore. If you still want to go further**, you can buy follow-up**, and I will definitely be able to help you sort out a specific idea and plan.

To make good friends, you must first be sincere to people and things.

Secondly, love friends more than yourself, and finally, you can have the kind of friends who can be happy and sad with you, and do not care about gains and losses.

Understand these points:

First; Understand the importance of trust for friends, as the old saying goes, "Those who believe in others will always believe in them." It means that if you want to deal with the relationship between friends, if you want friends to trust you, you must first believe in friends, and the real "sincerity" is the foundation of getting along with friends;

Second: to be generous, especially when getting along with friends, we must be generous, as the so-called "people are not sages, who can do nothing" friends are also people, he will also make mistakes, we can not always grasp the mistakes and shortcomings of friends, to really do strict self-discipline, lenient to others, in order to really get along with friends, but also to make real good friends;

Third: in the midst of adversity, we can see the truth, the friendship between friends is not maintained by sweet words, the real friendship is able to withstand the test of time and environment, usually only the flesh and numb touting, the friendship that is coming to the end of the catastrophe but flying separately is what we should spurn, the friend who can give us a practical support at the critical moment is the real friend, the person who pushes you to the fire pit at the critical time is a false friend, a real villain, and the person who can persuade you to rein in the precipice is a true friend, a true gentleman;

Fourth: friendship should be maintained by feelings, not by money, gifts to maintain, as the so-called "thousands of miles to send goose feathers, light friendship and friendship" can send you a simple blessing when you are happy, can give you a light greeting when you are troubled, such friends are friends!

Try to open your heart and you will find that the world is actually very big.