Why do blind date women ask for a house in the city?

Almost all women will have this requirement! Because only a woman with a house will feel safe! As for the urban house you mentioned, maybe you want to live in a more lively and comfortable place!

I think with the development of society, women are becoming more and more materialistic and practical, and I don't think they can be blamed on the one hand, they are also adapting to the progress of society. Because the current society is like this, if you don't even get married, you don't even have a house and a car, then you don't have anything to protect my life. Do I still work with you, and I am with you to eliminate my worries for the mortgage every day, although it feels very practical now, since you are all on a blind date, then you go to the purpose of marriage, and you don't want anything at all.

So why am I with you? That's why I think it's like this now, first bread, then love.

The women who will go on a blind date are not young, and what they need is no longer love, but a bread with a material foundation that can bring security in the future.

Recently, a post-90s girl was scolded by a man on a blind date, because she dared to open this condition at the age of 32, and she was so scared that she cried. I can't help but ask, can't girls be on a blind date after 30? And why should we allow ourselves to lower our standards to please others?

Blind date is a free choice, and you should not be forced to choose someone you don't want to. In addition, what I want to say is: blind date is not for the sake of ignorance, nor is it for comparison, let alone age, car, or house.

It is through talking and getting along with each other to find people who respect each other, recognize each other, understand each other, tolerate each other and support each other.

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1. Blind dates do not necessarily require a confirmed relationship.

Blind date is a process in which two people get to know and communicate with each other, but it does not mean that they must enter a relationship. It's normal for some people to just want to find the right friends or people to talk to, or to expand their network.

Blind dates are produced because of the introduction of family members or friends, and because both parties know that there is an introducer, so the introduction of each other's background, hobbies, personalities, etc. is more accurate and comprehensive. In the process of mutual communication, the two sides can talk about some common topics in a more targeted manner, and establish a better tacit understanding and emotional foundation.

3. Blind dates can expand the love circle more actively.

Modern social styles are becoming more and more diverse, and not everyone is comfortable fitting in a variety of social situations. Blind date is a natural way to make friends, and there will not be too much shyness and pressure, making it easier for people to take the initiative to expand their love circle.

4. Blind date is a good way to get to know someone.

Blind dates allow both parties to get to know each other more deeply and establish a deeper interpersonal relationship. If two people feel that they are suitable for each other, they can continue to deepen the relationship and try whether they can further develop and maintain. If both parties don't have much feelings or thoughts about each other, it's okay, after all, blind dates are not a mandatory love activity.

In modern society, women's concept of marriage has changed greatly, and more and more women choose to seek self-worth affirmation in their careers. But in blind dates, when women get older and older, they are often scolded "can't you open conditions?" "This shows that discrimination and unfair treatment of women requires us to seriously think about and address.

First of all, we should recognize the impact and harm of this discrimination on women. The increasing age and development of women in the workplace should not be a reason for unequal treatment and discrimination. Women and men of all ages should be treated with equal respect and treatment, and women should not be made to pay more.

Secondly, we should also reflect on the real intentions of these "conditional" women. Whether it is simply to meet one's material needs, or to seek better luck and long-term stability in a relationship and family life. If it is the latter, we cannot easily attribute the "opening conditions" of these women to power and material desires, but look at this phenomenon more rationally.

At the same time, I have also experienced the scene of being angry in a blind date. At that time, I, like many other women, was devastated and hurt by unfair judgment and discrimination. But I didn't give up, I chose to balance my career with love, and found a partner who really loved and supported me.

To address this phenomenon, we should also encourage women to pursue their careers and dreams and respect their choices and decisions. If a woman has additional needs or ideas, we can try to understand and communicate instead of easily doubting and blaming. Ultimately, what we should do is to eliminate gender discrimination and pressure, and to create an equal and free marriage environment where everyone can enjoy equality and respect.

Blind date is to get married, not the kind of love and fun, it is normal for girls to mention the house on a blind date, after all, if two people get along, they will live together in the future, and the house is a necessity.

It's a bit early to mention the house when you first meet, first communicate to understand the other party's character, and when you intend to continue to develop, talk about marriage and then mention the house. I think most men will prepare a house, and they will not leave the couple with nowhere to live.

Since it is a blind date, there is no need to mention the house, by the way, you can talk about it, don't deliberately mention this kind of thing, it is best to understand the other party's situation first, and then go on a blind date, so as not to have worries.

Of course it can be mentioned.

I believe in love.

When it comes to true love, you can be desperate.

The premise is to have a discerning eye and be able to identify scumbags.

Otherwise, it's too normal to have some substances.

It can definitely be mentioned that food, clothing, housing and transportation are the basic ways of survival, and these should be understood clearly before marriage.

If you want to know if he has a house, you can ask: do you live with your parents or by yourself.

Do not mention the house when the two parties have just met and do not know each other, unless they are dissatisfied with the man and deliberately want to scare the other party away.

Third, the conditions for girls who have a house to choose a mate will also be higher. In the process of blind date, the economic level is one of the important conditions to measure the other party, but girls who can afford to buy a house on their own can also have a certain financial ability. In all respects, the conditions will not be too bad, and then in the face of such girls, their mate selection standards will be higher, so when asking girls to have a house, they also need to check whether their actual situation meets the other party's mate selection standards.

As a boy, if he feels that he has the ability, he can meet the woman's standards, and he can put forward the condition that the girl should also have a house.

The girl on a blind date also has a suite, and it turns out that she lives in hers, and you live in yours, and that's the result of your request.

If you're serious, you can ask for that. However, in China's marriage and love market, having a house and a car is a mandatory requirement for girls to boys, and if boys use this requirement to choose girls, there must be very few eligible girls.

I don't think it's okay to ask the girl on the blind date to have a room, it's very rude, and it will make others think that you look down on her, and then you will be on the blind date blacklist.