Do unmarried leftover women need to be sympathized? What do you think about unmarried leftover women

<> I was surprised because I always thought I was incapable of managing a marriage, and I believed him because he saw my strengths and weaknesses very thoroughly.

As he said, a leftover woman who can live a very comfortable life, she is self-reliant, she can pay for others, and she has the ability to create happiness with others, the key to moving from a happy leftover woman to a happy woman is that she has the will, is willing to love a man, is willing to pay for a man and a family, and is willing to make a person's comfort a family's happiness.

Leftover women do not mean how bad they are, how much they fail, they may be better than many women in marriage, and they are more suitable for marriage.

If you understand her and can learn to appreciate her, you go close to her, and if you don't understand her, ignore her.

Don't self-righteously impose the crime of "living a miserable life" on leftover women in order to find confidence in your bad love life, and beg to sympathize with these women who live more elegantly than you and worry about life far less than you.

In fact, not every woman who marries out is something to envy, as George Bernard Shaw said:

If you want to get married, get married, if you want to be single, go single, and you'll all regret it in the end anyway.

Life is wrong, not whether to marry or not, whether a woman deserves sympathy, whether she is doing well, not whether she can get married.

<> is relatively free physically, mentally and psychologically, you don't have to take into account the joys and sorrows of the other party, you don't have to talk about love words across the screen, you have to question the truth of your words when you are alone, you can have many male gods in your mind, you can appreciate many handsome guys unscrupulously, and you can go out and put on makeup every day just to be happy for yourself!

Do whatever you want.

Being single is the most free, you don't have to be controlled by others, you can do whatever you want suddenly, you don't need to be agreed by others, you occasionally want to wear a little ** dress, you don't need to hear the voice of broken thoughts, before making a decision, you don't have to worry about another person's thoughts and moods, you can be your true self.

There is no need to worry about one person's gains and losses.

People who are trapped in love often stage a small inner theater, and as long as there is any unhappiness with the other half, they may lose control of their emotions. If you quarrel with each other, you will even be unable to sleep at night, crying in pain, this kind of emotion born because of care is difficult to endure, and it will also affect your mood, and the advantage of being single is that you don't have to have this emotion.

When falling in love, it is inevitable that you will put your heart and soul on each other, ignore other people around you, and forget the excitement of making new friends, and the social circle of life will become more and more narrow. When you are single, you can freely meet new people and enrich your circle of friends.

Stronger and more independent than before.

When two people are involved, it is inevitable to rely too much on each other, thinking that when they encounter difficulties, the rescue will come immediately. When you're single, you'll find that you can accomplish a lot of things, no longer feel scared and lonely when you're alone at night, and learn to be stronger and more independent.

Sympathize with Mao, people are much better off than most of our men, and you don't feel comfortable sympathizing with others.

I don't know which master deducted the leftover woman to the unmarried woman, leftover, a word has the feeling of objectifying women, like an item that has been picked up. Wake up, it's the 21st century. <>

Many people think that girls who have passed the age of 28 are left and no one wants, this idea is still stuck in the feudal era, when women could not show their heads, could not engage in the work they wanted to do, and the greatest luck and achievement was to find a good family to marry and have children. Therefore, at that time, the greatest value of women was considered to be to carry on the family lineage, take care of the housework, and take care of the family. The best age for women to have children is around 24 years old, and people at that time probably thought that it was 16-18 years old, so early marriage was popular at that time, and some girls who did not marry at the so-called best age would be subjected to all kinds of malice and ridicule.

But are they happy? There are definitely those who are happy, but only a small part of them, and even fewer who are happy for life. Even many people have been abused to death by their husbands, and they dare not divorce even if they are unhappy.

Even the person who does not love the orders of his parents does not dare to resist. Modern women, like men, can engage in a variety of jobs, can have their own ideals in life without necessarily confined themselves to a small family, women's freedom of choice is to illustrate the progress of the times, and these freedoms are hard fought for by predecessors. <>

So what do you think about single women? Just treat it as an ordinary person, there is no need to wear colored glasses, but she can still live her life under pressure and various eyes, isn't it worthy of praise and admiration?

To love or not to love is one's own business, not to others. Moreover, whether to tie the knot or not is also your own business, and it has nothing to do with others. First of all, thinking about this matter is the most important, then other people's thoughts or opinions or cold eyes are secondary, such as people drink water and know that they are warm and cold, I have the right to choose, and I will not compromise because of age.

Be responsible for marriage, what is marriage, understand its weight and responsibility. Only on the premise of understanding your own needs can you find your own relationship and marriage. Of course, we still have to face marriage positively, because that is also a kind of growth, just don't blindly grow for the sake of your surroundings.