For the sake of comfort, continue to be together or choose to leave

It's a real problem.

What is it really for to be with someone?

Questions that everyone wants to know the answer to.

As for your situation, I think you already have the answer in your heart, otherwise it wouldn't be, unnatural, introspective.

Then follow your heart.

Otherwise, even if you are comfortable now, your heart is empty, and you will be unhappy after all.

I haven't had sex for so long, I think you're a soul-oriented person, not a materialistic person, I think break up, don't you think there's a big age gap? Secondly, due to cultural differences, there must be differences in the ideas of daily life, will the marriage be happy in the future? If you are away alone, I am worried about you, and it is recommended to break up In fact, as long as you feel uncomfortable in your heart, you are not forced, you can do anything.

First of all, you have to make sure that your status is how first of all, whether he is ready to marry you, if not, you are doomed, because enjoying high material pleasures will make you fall into such an abyss, a very real problem, so your so-called comfort is that people have more money, and they can make you live well, if you don't worship money, and you hate this kind of life, then it's good, let go of him, maybe you will live a better life.

Let's break up. Say thank you to him for making me happy, but you can't get what you want from me, find someone who can do those things, forgive me for being conservative.

Swallowing his anger and staying with a person who no longer loves you will only make your future days more painful, since he has shown that he is not in love with you, not in the importance of you, why do you still have to be in love with you, what about 29 years old, as long as you can find your true love, 30 years old and 40 years old, the so-called authorities are fascinated, bystanders are clear, you yourself stand in the third perspective to see if your love still needs to be maintained, since it can't be maintained, it is better to let go more openly, maybe, You can't be a lover, you can be a friend who keeps a certain distance.

Sometimes letting go is also a beauty.

Chicken ribs, discarded tasteless, it is a pity to throw away.

Give it up. If you miss one step, don't make a second mistake.

What happened upstairs deserves all of our sympathy...

It's a little sad, but it's okay. You move him with your actions. Maybe just one more minute of waiting could change everything.

There is a kind of love called letting go.

Since you don't want to leave, let's stay, he loses his temper because it doesn't go well, you don't quarrel with him, slowly solve his troubles, comfort him when he is unhappy, give him confidence, it's not easy for two people to be together, there will be such and such problems, it's easy to fall in love, it's hard to get along! Be more tolerant, be understanding, for his sake and for yourself! Don't leave lightly!

You feel that he has changed, he is not like him before This may be caused by some objective reasons, life or work reasons that make him unhappy. I believe that both of you are sincere to each other, and it is not easy to find true love these days, because you should get back to the feeling you used to have

When he loses his temper, don't run away because you don't want to see him like that, you have to take the initiative to comfort him, talk to him, let him say that he is unhappy, and share his courage with him, which may be useful. The most fearful thing for two people to be together is not understanding each other, and you have to figure out why he has become the way he is in order to solve the problem. This is a lifelong event, and you must deal with it calmly, otherwise you will regret it

I hope you can find the past and live a happy life.

Ay. It's not easy for the two of you to be together for three years. He has a bad temper, have you ever wondered why?

Find a time to sit down and have a good conversation. Since it's not aimed at you, it means that he still loves you. He should have his troubles, as his girlfriend, at this time he also hopes to get your understanding and care.

Help him. It's going to be fine. It's not easy to have a good relationship, you have to cherish it!

Why leave?Think about it, how many three years do you have before you re-manage a relationship? If two people have been together for a long time, they will slowly lose their patience.

Do you think about any of your shortcomings? Change yourself and don't let him lose his freshness to you!

Hehe. Say so much. Because I just fell out of love. Only when you lose it do you know how to cherish it

Find a job as soon as possible, and then work hard, men and women are the same, without a job, they can't reflect their social value, and they may be inferior to others!

Another point is that maybe his bad temper is caused by work, and it has nothing to do with you, and after the time, it will be fine!

Leave for a while, calm and calm, let him also have a temper,,, if he really cares about you and loves you, he will change for you

Agree with the friend upstairs, the first problem is to find a job first.

The two communicate well, if there is anything wrong with his work, try your best to enlighten and help him, this is the time to test your feelings!

Don't give up.

He really shouldn't.

If he is honest, you will not be able to communicate with him for anything.

He doesn't want to communicate with you. Doesn't it mean that others are not true?

But if it's an external reason, you have to take the initiative to care about him.

As long as you still love each other, don't be afraid of getting tired, as long as the other party still loves you, you should insist on it, in fact, two people have been together for a long time.

One: There can be no privacy on both sides. Say whatever you want.

Two: trust each other in a duel. No matter how others provoke it.

Three: Adapt to the other person's character. Don't-for-tat. That is not conducive to stability and unity.

If both sides do not hide mites, straightforward. Any idea is willing for you to share, and you will quickly see a person's character and character. Trusting each other allows you to be free from anyone, any misunderstanding.

Don't go head-to-head with the other party. It is inevitable that two people will stumble together. Love her "Him" just think about it from their point of view.

If it's not right, you can find time to talk. To put it bluntly. Some questions are easy to forgive.

But hiding can easily turn into hatred. Don't say it's not so evil. My girlfriend and I were able to hold on to our relationship for three years, and we are still so affectionate.

It proves that what I said should be correct.

Bless you all.

It's been like this for a long time, so let's wait and see what his attitude is.

In fact, this is very normal, if the two have been together for a long time, they will not be as close as they are in love, and if you are not together, it will be difficult to say, do you feel happy with him? Ask yourself from the bottom of your heart, if you are unhappy and have no happiness, give up, love without happiness is very uncomfortable, if you think he is a good person, then don't complain about these little things, haha, life is like this.

The biggest test of love is to be able to withstand a life of ordinary talk.

Think for yourself.

Time is the best medicine. Fate is hard-won, give him some time to see what kind of attitude he has. In fact, love will fade after a long time, but how to keep it fresh depends on yourself.

Everything is mutual. When you are calm, think more about the problems that exist between you. Find yourself.

I'm sure it will be solved soon! Finally, I wish you to solve the knot in your heart as soon as possible and be happy and happy forever!

They are all right, the current social pressure is getting bigger and bigger, in addition to the emotional aspect, he has to think about this way to survive better. Men and women will be like this if they spend a long time together.

I think it depends on how you feel, whether you love him or not, whether he is considerate to you or not, as long as you can be sure that you love him very much, then go ahead or you have to give up quickly, because you will get hurt, and your friends will get hurt.

If a girl on his phone sends him a message shouting: Husband! Will you be happy?

Don't take everything for granted. Sometimes it's too late to lose. Start by asking yourself:

Do you really love him? Or are you used to his thoughtfulness and care! Did you give him anything?

Calm down and think about it, okay?

First of all, if you love him, you will be a good choice, the Internet is not very fun, especially chatting online, he loves you, you love him, why can't you talk to him? Unless you really want to find someone better than him.

What I said upstairs is very right, there are many things to think about from the other side's point of view.

Compare your heart to your heart.

Time, action can prove everything to you.

Just want to ask, do you want to be a caged bird or a free-flying eagle!

I think love is trust.

If there is no trusting love, then what is it?

Hello, friend, give up! Really, I think the most important thing for two people to be together is to be considerate of each other, and the reason why you can't let go of him is because you have been talking for too long and have a certain relationship! Besides, you can treat his family well, relatives, then why can't he treat your family well, they are about to become a family, your parents are equal to his parents, if a person can't even respect the elderly, then what else is this man worthy of your life?

He loves you, treats you well, and should be, you are his girlfriend, wife, and the person who accompanies him for a lifetime, but you can't just look at one side, even if it is good for you, but won't you go with your family in the future? Do you think about how easy it was for your parents to raise you so big? Your family is more difficult now, so as a man next to you, you shouldn't do that!

I have to be considerate of you! But for the sake of showing you and your family, it means that this man has no connotation, and you can tell you in private if you are dissatisfied, doing so is disrespecting you and your family. Money is not brought in life, death is not brought, as long as people live, they will not earn enough money, then again, money is spent on your family, what is there to worry about, remember, a man can't even respect people at the very least, what else will he do, even if they are together in the future, will you be happy?

Would you like to see the grievances in your family's heart?

Since you know that there will be no happiness in the future, why do you continue this fruitless relationship!!

The more you get to it, the more you can't let it go. If you really can't let go, change it, change it for him, or let him change it for you.

Do you love him? If you love you, you have to be tolerant, considerate, have problems with each other, can teach by word and deed, and be humble and correct.

If it's perfect. So you watch the movie, the kind of movie that everybody is happy with. Movies with happy endings are more inclusive.

Multi-action. Mutual influence goes back to what you originally wanted. And then let's live together, obviously, this is marriage.

It's true that marriage is the grave of love, but I think that's an inappropriate explanation.

If only each other could do it. Respect each other as a guest, then you will be good for a hundred years, do your duty, let him think for himself. I have time to find a quiet place that is more wasteful.

Really communicate with each other. Don't get angry when you don't agree with three sentences. Be patient.

Modest. At the same time, it is necessary to have thorough analytical skills. Don't give a decisive verdict on a vague matter.

Nowadays, many young people open their mouths, and their wives and husbands call as if they were real.

They don't know whose wife or husband this is, and they don't know what it really means, and their dreams need to be fulfilled by themselves.

You're here to ask questions. In fact, the most correct answer has already been available.

The fate of this life needs to be in the same boat 500 years ago.

It is rare for people to come together in this life, so cherish it.

Ever heard the saying about the Seven Year Itch? No matter how affectionate two people are before marriage, they will still quarrel because of personality differences after marriage! Or even break up!

This is the run-in period of feelings! I don't think you have reached the point where you have to be inseparable, don't use love and dislove as an excuse to force yourself to choose to leave, since you choose to marry, what is the meaning of love and not love? At the same time, imagine that if you marry someone else in the future, will it be the same life as you expected?

What are you supposed to do then? Find a piece of paper and write the reason why you married him in the first place, and then write the reason why you want to leave him now, and then ask him to write it too, and see the result, maybe you will have a different view on life! Women also learn to live wisely, not to give up.

In fact, love is not directly managed, it becomes family affection after a long time, as for your him or his you, you are used to each other, if you separate, do you have the courage? After so many years of relationship, do you give up when you say you give up? A happy family needs the members here to struggle to pay, this is happiness, if you don't know how to do it now, try to leave for a while, not break up, let each other be quiet, have their own space, think about it, I think the answer will soon know, I hope you are happy!

You think about a few questions:

1.Do you love him? What is it about him that you love? Write it down on a blank piece of paper.

2.Imagine what you'd be like five years from now.

3.If I choose to leave, how will it be good or bad for me?

You have to be logical in doing things, let alone this kind of big thing. Think carefully.

Good luck!