I m really stingy with feelings, why are people emotionally stingy

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Hehe, this is normal.

    Don't think so much, your feelings are first cherished.

    Don't let this kind of thinking affect your relationship, this is the most important thing!!

    Since you like him, chase him, and get together, don't care too much about his past, you know, once he was kind to that woman because he should be affectionate to him, isn't such a man very good?

    Besides, he wasn't with you at the time, give the other party some space, not to mention those Chen sesame rotten grains that are just in the past, hehe, women, it's not a big deal once in a while, the main control is good.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't be so stingy.

    As long as he truly loves you in the future, it will be fine.

    What's the matter with what he did before?

    Besides, what happened before can't be changed now.

    It's better not to think about it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Should you want to open a point, people? Who doesn't have a past? Right!

    Haven't you ever had a boyfriend before? Even if you haven't paid it, can you still like someone? There's always one!

    As long as he is single-minded with you now, isn't it? Right?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you are jealous, it means that you love him very much, the important thing is not the past but the present, and he is good to you now. If you keep thinking about the past, you won't be happy, so let it pass, and you'll be happy

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I know I can't stand that anger, so why bother.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because most people are emotionally driven by a psychology, that is, monopoly! Feelings are selfish, not selfless, too much about the other party, just want to get everything from the other party, afraid of losing the other party, and even may be because the other party has a subtle and unintentional action to other members of the opposite sex, a word, and let yourself have too aggressive behavior, is too concerned about the other party, and another point is not to believe in the other party, afraid that the other party will betray you, so you always stare at each other tightly, this is also a kind of stingy performance, and finally jealousy, I don't think you should be too close to other people of the opposite sex! So, there are three reasons why the other party is stingy with you in a relationship, he cares about you too much, he or she doesn't believe you, and he or she has to be jealous (jealousy is because he or she has no confidence in himself) understand, right?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Emotionally everyone is stingy, it's not surprising, you're stingy because you care about him, love him, you're afraid of losing him, you get angry when you see him in contact with other girls, and you're afraid, you're afraid that he'll fall in love with other girls and not love you, so you don't want him to be in contact with other girls, but you're afraid that you're going to be angry if you're doing this, saying you're careful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Category: Annoyances >> in love.

    Problem Description: I have a boyfriend. I like him a lot, and he said he likes me. He is a Taurus. And I'm a Leo. I've cried for him a few times, and he's very attentive.

    When he's unhappy, I'm unhappy too; When I'm not happy, he can act like no one.

    When he is sad, I will do everything I can to comfort him and enlighten him; When I'm unhappy, he may not even know.

    I've tried my best to keep my distance from other boys for him, but he can praise other girls for being beautiful in front of me, and talk and laugh loudly with them without caring about my feelings!

    It's a habit to hit him every day, but he may even forget my ** ......

    I don't ask too much, I just hope that when I'm unhappy, he can be the first to know, the first to appear in front of me, the first to coax me and comfort me; If something goes wrong, don't always talk to him, he can take the initiative to talk to me; Don't admit his mistake every time I talk to him and say I'm angry and explain why.

    I once thought about separating myself with him, and I talked to him, but when I heard his voice, I couldn't bear it, I really liked him, and I would miss him very much when he wasn't there. I gave up the pride and dignity of a Leo for the sake of him, what else does he want from me?!! He always said that I was too stingy and couldn't communicate with me.

    What can I do to get him to be nice to me other than to break up with Chiyuan?

    Help me. Analysis:

    If you really love him that much, then don't give up and communicate with him more, maybe you are like this because of a lack of communication. Hope you guys have a good outcome!

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