Want to know, how many people will have three children?

Hello, the world is so big, everyone has it, so there must be people who want to have three children.

But most people will consider it on the premise of having energy, economy, and time, just imagine a person who works all day, has a meager income, and needs to take care of his own children, how to raise them? Can you take it to the unit and raise it while going to work?

Therefore, there must be people who will give birth to life, and there must be people who will not give birth. I won't give birth, after all, I don't have so much energy and money to raise.

Most of the middle-aged couples who want to have three children are middle-aged couples with relatively strong economic backgrounds, and they will normally want to have three children if the first two children are of the same gender.

Hello, because China's current population is seriously aging, the country has opened the three-child policy, and there will be subsidies for the three-child policy, and now many people have implemented the three-child policy.

I feel that many wealthy families can have three children, and they don't care about the subsidy because they have that kind of financial strength.

Nowadays, many people are afraid to have three children, mainly because.

The first point is that the burden is too great, and having a child is not only expensive, but also a heavy psychological burden. In a highly competitive society, it takes a lot of effort and money to have a child, such as nursery, school fees and other child support costs, which require a lot of investment and not all parents can afford it.

The second point is the difference in concepts, firstly, late marriage has become the norm, rather than getting married as soon as you graduate, and secondly, the new generation pays more attention to the quality of personal life, and the traditional concept of raising children is no longer the mainstream.

And now people have higher and higher requirements for the quality of life, housing loans, car loans may be a big expense for them, families with one child also have to earn milk powder money for their children, buy toys, provide them with school, and have another child, this burden is definitely unwilling for them to carry; And those families who do not have children, in the face of the pressure of having children, may choose to retreat, if two people happen to be still unwanted, then there is no need for another one.

Fourth, people nowadays attach great importance to teaching and breeding, and they will not be like the people of the past, just forget about being born, as for whether to read or not, it is not in their consideration at all, and they will even think that if they don't study, it is just right, they can come out early to work and earn money. It is precisely because of this gap that people nowadays do not want to have children.

Therefore, the current Shanghainese are not keen on having children.

However, whether to have children or not is their own choice, and others do not have the right to criticize, but both husband and wife must communicate well with their parents, and strive to gain their understanding and trust. But don't choose to retreat because of the fear of those economic pressures, after all, children are the continuation of two lives, two people love each other all the way to the proof, people after death left in the world is too little, and with children, there will not be so afraid of death, will not be in old age, feel that there is nothing left, feel that their life is so empty.

The general family does not want to have three children, mainly for the following reasons.

The cost of having a child is too high. After giving birth to a child, you need to have someone to serve the child, and in fact, in the face of the two children who have not grown up before, the two of them are already tired of coping, and now they have to face the third one who is about to be born, which is really more than enough and not enough. How can another person's income not support the total expenses of the family?

Therefore, this reason is in the first place.

The idea of having children is reduced. With the increase of age, many couples are not willing to have so many envious children, too many children, which is tantamount to reducing the quality of life, more pressure has to be concentrated on one person, and then there are two parents who need to support, emotional pressure, and conflicts between husband and wife, which need to be dealt with, so the idea of childbearing will be reduced.

3.The problem of children's education also makes many people afraid to have three children. Parents in modern society attach great importance to the education of their children, if they give birth to a third child, then all the children's education problems will appear widowed education, are borne by one person, the other person will be exhausted, so two people dare not have a third child, once born, his education is a big problem.

In short, from the cost of childbirth and the idea of childbirth, coupled with the pressure of education, people have some resistance to the idea of having a third child, but those who have the ability can still give birth.

And families with three children now dare to have three children, which is related to the subsidy, because the state implements policy subsidies to help young families bear the costs associated with multiple births. Families also need to consider factors such as life pressure and career development, and decide whether to give birth to a child according to the individual's financial situation and family situation.

What kind of family dares to have three children now: first, the first two children are boys or girls. People, they all lack what they think, those who don't have daughters want to have a daughter, and they think that their daughters are intimate; Those who don't have a son want to have a son, and they feel that the son is the one who relies on the elderly.

The second category is people whose families are not short of money. The cost of raising a child is really not low now. In the first two years of birth, I bought milk powder diapers, learned my specialties after going to kindergarten, had to make up classes after school, and had to worry about work and marriage after graduation.

It costs at least hundreds of thousands to raise a child, and this is still when the child is not sick or sick. So the average family really can't afford to raise three children. After all, it is no longer the time to give your children food.

The third category is that there are people in the family who can take care of the children full-time. The first three years of the child's birth are inseparable from people, and they must pick up and drop off on time when they go to school, prepare lunch, one child is fine, and the three children must not be unified in time, and the logistics of the family are really too busy without special macroscopic logistics.

The fourth category is those who like children, can enjoy the process of raising children, and enjoy it. A child goes from ignorance to babbling, and then gradually grows up to be sensible, and the bitterness and joy can only be experienced by those who have experienced it. If you are willing to repeat this process over and over again, you must really like children.

Thinking about his own family, he has neither money nor idlers, and in order to raise this only child, he is already anxious, and he can only be discouraged by the second and third children. In addition, those who have three children don't care about the subsidy.

The third child is open, and not many people are willing to have a third child or even a second child. It is important to have children and grandchildren, but the young parents of the post-80s and 90s generation are under a lot of pressure. There are three reasons for this.

Pregnancy begins to need money for prenatal checkups, money for giving birth to a baby, education funds, daily life, there is no place to leave money, and the price is much higher than wages, even the daily life of a family can not be guaranteed, many families in rural areas are not even satisfied with the place to live, a family of three is crammed into a room of less than 30 square meters, there are still many such families in rural areas. The proportion of rural areas is relatively high.

2.Having more children will affect the relationship between husband and wife. 3 children, then Xunji must be the mother who resigned to take care of the children, and the father only worked alone.

Every day, two adults are like a war, they can't understand each other, and the mother wants the father to take a look at the child, and the father says that he is very tired after a day of work; leads to quarrels every day, so children are destined to not grow up healthily in such an environment, and they are easy to divorce, compared to the current divorce rate, there are few people who want to get married.

3.There is no freedom at all. 3 children, it's okay to go around the child every day, go out, no, the child looks for his mother; Eat a meal, I haven't had a good meal since I had a child; Take a bath, the child cries, and the family says you wash for so long.

These 3 former Changxiang reasons are enough to break the heart of the third child, and many Huibo postpartum depression comes little by little! Unless the child is born, there is no need to worry about the cost of childbirth, and there is no need for the mother to bring it herself. In short, it is to have money, then everything is not a problem.