Why am I so pessimistic? Why be pessimistic

Pessimism comes from not being strong enough! When you see that others are rich and working, you will be pessimistic, but what if you have tens of millions? Will you be pessimistic? Seeing others dancing is handsome.

I won't, I'm pessimistic, what if you're the king of dance? Striving to improve yourself is the king! If you really can't be strong, let yourself be calm and don't fight for everything.

The root of a person's pessimism may be due to low self-esteem. The most important thing is to improve your abilities. Ability to change one's situation through practical actions.

Let yourself slowly become confident. When you are confident, you will be able to do whatever you want. The mentality is slowly starting to get better.

All things will be clear to you. But your heart is too good. Not so pessimistic.

Things will also go smoothly slowly.

What is your outlook on life? Who do you live for? What can you bring to others?

Think about these three questions. I'll tell you my answer: people are happy only when they think about others, and people who have only their own in their hearts are always miserable.

Forget your own pain and help those less fortunate than you, and you will know what it means to be "alive". Send you a paragraph:

You can't change the length of life, but you can expand its breadth.

You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood.

You can't change your look, but you can show your smile.

You can't influence others, but you can enrich yourself.

You can't predict tomorrow, but you can be kind to today.

You can't do everything, but you can do everything.

You can't be as good as you want, but you can have no regrets.

As long as your blood is not enough, love one, you are inexperienced. This pessimistic mood of yours is caused by a lack of blood and energy, which means that you do not have a lot of courage. Lack of experience means that your social experience is not good, and I am afraid that you will make mistakes, and the two add up to your current situation.

I think you are so pessimistic, of course, because you feel that life is meaningless and you have not found a purpose in life, so you are so at a loss.

It is recommended to pay attention to proper relaxation, don't put too much psychological pressure on yourself, learn to self-regulate, communicate more, and communicate better.

The reasons for the pessimism are as follows:

1. Most pessimistic people are sensitive by nature.

They are more likely than others to perceive changes in everything or things around them, or potential changes that others are not easily aware of. Sensitive people are prone to pain, to be precise, they feel pain, like a tiny thorn.

Some people live as usual without realizing it, but some people can feel this thorn in detail, feel the process of it penetrating into the ** little by little, and feel the taste of pain. When there is more and more pain in the face of what others don't think you are, then the pain turns into pessimism.

2. Pessimistic people seem to be very smart.

For example, in the face of love, they can tell the real reason why two people are together, either because they are lonely, or because they are urged to marry at home, or they feel that since they are not disgusted, they should at least try it first.

Other reasons:

Because there is no way, you have to live after all, and you can't be completely self-consistent after all, and the fact that you can't change is to have all kinds of connections with everything around you. Therefore, we can only choose to live happily and healthily, after all, the process of life is a fragment of wasted time.

After all, from the perspective of pessimists, a healthy life is the biggest compromise to this world.

I think pessimists are needed in this era, and pessimists are needed in any era, because they are more calm, more niche, and more difficult to be accepted by the public, and the progress of society is too fast, and people can't wait to keep up, so that they lose the ability to judge the right and wrong steps.