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As far as personal experience is concerned, it masksIt's really helpful to me that I'm not tall. He coveredCovered most of my shortcomingsIt can even be mistaken that it would be perfect if I grew another ten centimeters tall. But only you know that your real problem is more serious than that.
Confidence is a feeling that really shouldn't be compared. The amount of responsibility you have done and the amount of responsibility you have taken on will be as steady as you stand on this earth. A person will only know how capable he is after he has experienced the wind and rain.
When a person is strong on the inside, he doesn't care about his height. You can increase your confidence by learning more and making yourself better. There are so many people who are so powerful that they have ignored his height.
For example, Chaplin, such as Huang Bo, and so on. You just remember Comrade Xiaoping's words: When the sky falls, the tall man will hold it up.
When you really know how to appreciate loneliness and live with it, you will become confident. Because deep loneliness will make you understand that away from the eyes of others, your happiness is not less, and there is no sadness at all, you will know, oh, your world is only you, no matter what label you have, it will not change the person with whom you have a relationship, and other than that, everyone else is a passerby, and there is no difference between your relationship and the air that you occasionally breathe in and out immediately, and then self-confidence will come naturally.
Others say that you are not an eagle, so you dare not fly. But only you know how eager you are to fly. And in the lonely world, you finally can't help it, and you spread your wings and fly quietly.
You know that the sky also belongs to you. What does it matter if you fly high or not
Inner beauty is true beauty. Now that the height is fixed, thinking more will only bring more burden to one's mind. What we can improve is our quality. If we improve ourselves, we will increase our self-confidence.
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In fact, whether you are high or not has nothing to do with people's self-confidence, elegant manners, and decent conversation will naturally not be said to you, but if you are sloppy and sloppy, you will yell and yell, and naturally others will not have a particularly good impression of you.
In fact, a person is not confident in looking at himself, but many people have not figured out this problem, they have always attached too much importance to the views of others, others say that you are good, it is natural, once others look at you a little wrong, you are there suspicious and feel that you are not doing well, rest assured. Maybe it's not you at all, or the sand is lost in their eyes.
People live for themselves, don't pay too much attention to the views of others, you may feel that this statement is problematic, feel that other people's views are very important, after all, human social interaction is also a very important section, you feel that it is necessary to do a good job in this link, you think so naturally understandable, but although people are group animals, they also attach importance to individual survival. There's no need for everyone to praise you. Everyone's perspective on the problem is different, and the natural results are also different, so there is nothing to say that you are short, you can just be yourself.
It's not your fault that you're short, this kind of thing has been set since birth, so it's useless for you to compete in this area, improve your self-cultivation, and master the aspects of dealing with people will surely allow you to communicate better with others, and naturally you will become more and more confident.
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"The past is not the future! ”
Believe in yourself and be sure to be your ideal self, and when you make up your mind to do it, you will find that everything changes.
I suggest you read "Yourself Are a Treasure".
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The beginning of the bai is always sweet.
Du later had boredom, zhi habits, and dao
Betrayal, loneliness, hopelessness, guilt and sneering.
Once thirsty. I hope to stay with someone for a long time, and later, how glad I left?
Once upon a time, for a short period of time, we thought we were deeply in love with someone.
Later, we learned that it was not love, it was just lying to ourselves.
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