Do men mind if their girlfriends have more education than their own?

Overview. Many of them have a macho mentality, and generally they want to be better than their other half's achievements, so what kind of psychology are they?

Analyse. In fact, many men will mind that their girlfriends have a higher education than themselves, but there are exceptions to everything. At the beginning, both parties may not pay much attention to this, but after a long time, due to the difference in income and concept caused by the difference in education, it will become the fuse of many contradictions.

But if the difference in education does not cause the difference in income and the difference in concept, it does not matter much. In the case of the former, the man may be extra tolerant and submissive to his girlfriend if he feels he is in a weak position, and the girlfriend may choose to lower herself to ease the relationship for the sake of the man's face. I think it would be very harmonious if men could abandon prejudices, take pride and motivation for their girlfriends' high education, and constantly push themselves to be stronger, and girls could be more tolerant and encouraging to their boyfriends.

Personal knowledge is shallow, and I wrote some immature opinions, so don't blame me if it's wrong.

Regardless of family background, when it comes to marriage, academic qualifications should take into account the possible social division of labor, wealth, and status that they specifically reflect. Narrowing down the sample to a highly educated population, a male judge, lawyer, prosecutor would probably be an LL.M., and his girlfriend would be a Ph.D. in Chinese. Do people think that the woman is underworthy of a master's degree?

No, it won't. Will others be sensitive to the fact that I am one level lower than my girlfriend? They will only say that a female doctor has found a judge.

In the same way, I, a judge and lawyer born with a master's degree, may find a female woman in one of the four major investment banks with a bachelor's degree from a prestigious university, and may not find it easy.

Summary. There are definitely problems, but I believe that there will always be a solution.

In contemporary society, the phenomenon of preference for sons over girls is almost no longer there, and girls have the same educational resources as boys, so there are many girls with higher education than boys.

There are those who mind, and there are those who don't. Look what she thinks.

The level of culture is more important, howeverAs long as you are capable, flexible, mature and steady, speak appropriately, be positive, and handle things properly, it's still okay.

The level of academic qualifications is only relative, and it cannot be simply said how much worse an undergraduate student can be than a graduate student, or how much better a college student can be than a high school student.

The ruler is long and the inch is shortFriendship or love is not a knowledge competition, nor is it a scientific experiment, it pays more attention to the character and mutual understanding, and the two feelings are happy enough Examples abound throughout the ages

Whether a man would mind if his girlfriend had a higher education than himself, I think it still depends on the specific situation. Generally speaking, most men will mind, or because of this situation, they will have some inferiority, so what do men who mind that their girlfriends are more educated than themselves think?

1: It is difficult to conquer a woman with a high degree of education.

Generally, men will psychologically feel that the other party has a high degree of education and is a scumbag, so they feel that they will be suppressed by the other party in their future life, or they will have to listen to each other.

2: Women with high education make more money.

Because the other party has a high education, the job he is looking for will be better, and the natural treatment will be better, and he is afraid that his long-term salary will be lower than that of his girlfriend in the future, so he will have a deeper sense of inferiority, and at the same time, he will not have financial control.

1: A higher education can lead to a better husband and children.

Because of high education, then generally high-quality, such a woman will make your family happier, in terms of investment and financial management, and in terms of educating children.

2: A woman with a high degree of education will make money.

A highly educated woman makes more money, so the pressure on the life of 2 people together will be much less, it is not a matter to buy a house and a car together, and if you have a good economic foundation, then everyone will live better, which is better than a poor life.

Speaking of falling in love, it is more necessary to look at the three views, whether they are comfortable together, and the overall feeling of two people, not just based on academic qualifications, nor just on appearance, so there is no need to care too much about the level of education, otherwise it is still matched with a single condition, which does not mean that there will be a better future.

Essentially, as long as I like this person, then I am willing to accept the culture, and people who are lower than me fall in love.

The level of education is only one degree of universal education. The level of education of your other half does not mean anything, but more importantly, it depends on the essence of this person. Many excellent people have not had a high degree of education, and there are many reasons, such as family economic problems and so on.

Moreover, the level of education can be caught up and made up for later.

If the communication is unhindered, the ideas have been the same, and the ideas are the same, what does it matter if you have a high level of education; On the contrary, if the other person is highly educated, but you can't communicate and communicate, then what's the use?

Of course, if you don't understand each other and have no emotional foundation, it's like choosing a mate in the form of blind dates. Then let's take a look at the academic qualifications of Liang Xufang, after all, the general view is that high education also represents high personal quality. In the absence of other hardware to compare and reference, it is better to choose a higher education or equivalent than yourself, so that you can have considerable topics and ideas, and there will not be too much gap.

One person reads books every day, and the other chases soap operas every day, and it is difficult for the two to have a common language.

On the contrary, if the two themselves know each other very well, the foundation of emotional acorn is also deep. Then it doesn't matter if the level of education or whether it is a match or not. It's good to love each other, and it's good to understand each other.

Although some people are not highly educated, they are very cultivated, very emotionally intelligent, and very considerate of each other, so such people are also very attractive and must be very likable.