How to be a grateful middle school student

I once saw a book with a preface that said: In a village, a family gathered around the table, waiting for the delicious meal cooked by the mother, but the mother brought a pot of straw. The whole family was very strange and didn't know what was going on.

Mother said, "I have cooked for you all my life, and you have never said a word of thanks, what is the difference between this and eating straw?" ”

A "thank you" is just two words, but it's actually very simple. A "thank you" will bring happiness, relief, and warmth!

Oh, yes! It's really like this, many middle school students nowadays live a life of "clothes to stretch out their hands, food to open their mouths" under the care of their grandparents, not to mention words of thanks, when their parents come home, they close the door, and don't even shout to their parents, playing with themselves. And the care and love of Mom and Dad are everything that should be in their eyes.

In fact, life is not only full of busyness, he is also a beautiful song, with gratitude as the lyrics. As long as you are grateful, everyone is a flower. When you open the window in the morning, thank God for giving you bright sunshine; When night comes, be grateful for the stars that dot the wonderful starry sky.

I am grateful that spring melts the ice and snow, and I am grateful that the earth has nurtured the living beings. Life is glorious because it has a grateful heart in its arms. Because only when we are grateful, the distance between people will get closer and closer; Because only we are grateful, the world has become an ocean of love!

Gratitude is the comfort of those who have helped you. Be grateful for every help from others, even if it is helping you when you get in the car. Be grateful to your parents, teachers, friends, thank you for meeting everyone, thank others for their respect, thank those who give silently, thank you for every opportunity, thank God for giving us life, let us love the world with gratitude!

Let children learn to be grateful and don't become a "white-eyed wolf"!

Let the students see Mr. Zou's touching campus speech "Let Life Be Full of Love", and they will have an understanding.

Let students ** "Education of Love", read stories about gratitude to students, imperceptibly.

1. Filial piety and respect for teachers, gratitude to parents for their hard work, and teachers for their earnest education.

2. Cherish public property, be grateful to those who have worked hard to create public property for our convenience and enjoyment, and be grateful to taxpayers for purchasing public property.

3. Cherish time, be grateful to my parents for giving me life, life is limited, cherish time.

4. Cherish food, be grateful to farmers, material resources are difficult, and grain is hard.

5. Cherish paper and love books, be grateful to nature, the wood of papermaking is limited, and the production of paper is the hard work of many people. Books are the result of the wisdom of our predecessors, and we are grateful for the difficulty of our predecessors in discovering the truth.

6. Love classmates, 7. Care for the environment, 8. Do not damage plants, 9. Love animals.

Explain it yourself, and you should be grateful for everything.

Any experience goes both ways. The key is how to turn people's hearts. If you do it well, you think the world is always educating you, and you don't complain. Always grateful.

How can children learn to be grateful?

The topic of this is interesting, very realistic, first, let the students recall the bits and pieces that their parents and teachers have done for him, second, let them do more things on their own, know the hard work of their parents, third, hold a class meeting on gratitude, let them say something about what they have done for their parents, fourth, write an essay on gratitude, the purpose is to make them think about it, fifth, make a blackboard newspaper of gratitude, sixth, propose a speech contest of "gratitude", how to teach children to be grateful? First of all, we must understand the connotation of gratitude, so that we can talk about how to educate, what is gratitude? First, what I give is what the other person needs.

Second, it is important not to ask for a return.

1) Let's talk about "giving" first, parents have problems in the form of "giving". Our parents always think so, what they pay is what the child should accept, in fact, this is not the case, sometimes what the parents pay is not necessarily what the child needs, or even what the child hates, once their own contribution is not reciprocated, the parent will show disappointment: "We have paid so much for him, but the child does not appreciate it."

It is worth thinking about whether we have solicited the child's opinion in the process of paying for the child, "what I want to give him, how to give", and in the process of soliciting opinions, the child will realize that the parents are attentive to him. Parents should know his needs and respect his needs, and from this point of view, the child and his parents should be friends.

2) In addition to understanding the child's needs, let him understand that the parents do not want to ask the child for anything in return. Parents often say in front of their children: "Mom and Dad work so hard for you!"

On the surface, it is hoped that through this method, it will reinforce the parents' more giving, but in fact, on the contrary, it creates a psychological burden on the child, it implies that "I give you, you have to repay", so that the child will not be sincere even if he reciprocates, and the child will be grateful for the "form to form".

3) Talk about the "receiving" side again, feel the other party's intentions for you, and the receiving party should know how to cherish it. What parents can do is to give their children some "suffering" when necessary, this suffering is not too eager to meet him, only when he is in need to give, but unfortunately our parents are the opposite, the child has not yet made a request, has been "thoughtful" for him in advance. There is never something missing, and the child does not know the difference between "have" and "not", and if it is too easy to get, he will not cherish it.

Because we are alive, we should be grateful, and if we are not grateful, living is equivalent to dying. We must live in gratitude, be grateful to our parents who give us life, grateful to the teachers who give us knowledge, grateful to the enterprises that provide self-realization of self-worth, grateful to those who help, care and love us, grateful to our motherland, grateful to the ...... natureLive with gratitude and you will realize how beautiful the world is.

I'm afraid it's hard, and I don't know what to say about the children nowadays. Don't count on them.

How can children learn to be grateful?

Organize to watch some good thanksgiving educational films, and you can also buy some books to teach.