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Obviously, it is a bit extreme, and the "kindness" of people who have no ability is not necessarily true, or it may be an accident; People who have the ability to be unkind can only mean that they have no "real skills", people say that the two most difficult things in people's lives are "understanding people and being understood", you have more talent, there are more talented than you, but you don't know how to be a person, that is to say, if you don't treat others kindly, it can only mean that you are a disabled person, not a person with real ability.

Kindness and ability are not opposites, and many people who are very capable are very kind. People who have no ability look at what kind of person they are, if they are really honest and honest, they are also kind-hearted, if they are impetuous and unrealistic, they are also unkind.

This sentence also has its truth, but it is not absolute, and many people are kind.

It varies from person to person! Everyone in the world will have a different personality, and the decisions they make will be different, and the people who say such things may also be incapable.

Those who have the ability are not kind, and those who have no ability are kind. This sentence indicates that the phenomenon is not true.

Social fact: There are a few people who have no ability to be kind, and most of the people who have ability are kind.

Part of the truth, the term "kindness" is not suitable for most people, and people become kind-hearted and are driven by interests.

I think most people are not kind at first, and when they seize power or money, they become so-called kind (just for others to see), and the real kindness starts from the test of power and money.

Kindness is kindness.

Great wisdom is foolishness, great ingenuity is clumsy.

As long as the hoe swings well. How can there be a corner that can't be dug down?

Hehe, work hard to win is yours.

It's hard to chase someone else if they have a boyfriend, and a good girl won't give up her boyfriend easily. You should be friends with her first, but you must show that you like her, but you don't say it, learn more about her situation, help her solve some problems, talk to her, if you have done this, invite her to dinner, go to the park to play, you don't have to confess, she understands it in her heart. Give her some hints and see how she responds.

Nothing. Love just confess to her.

Nothing. Love is love.

Happiness is something to strive for.

That's it. It depends on how they relate.

You can't just say that it's not good, and you can't even be a friend.

If you like her, just say it!

What's the big deal!

There's nothing wrong with liking someone!

Even if it is rejected at that time.

It's also an explanation for yourself.

It's better than watching her with someone else like this all day.

I'm sticking with you. Go ahead!

Everybody's helping you.

You should be brave and give it a try. Maybe she likes you too. Isn't it a double win to help her find true love?

Fair play, isn't she still married, so it's not bound by law.

Ability refers to a person's ability, not that people think they have the ability, but the more they have no ability. On the contrary, feeling that you are capable is a kind of self-confidence, and modern society needs this kind of self-confidence.

The blogger doesn't know, the knower doesn't know the personal opinion is not the Bo is not the fight, I personally think that the Boer doesn't know should mean that if a person dabbles in a wide range of knowledge, I don't know and will not know something deeply. Those who know are not knowledgeable, and it is obvious that they have a specialization in the same industry.

There is a saying that mature ears of wheat are all bowed, that is to say, if people have great talent, they often hide themselves, so that others and themselves seem very mediocre, and some people will often be open-minded, a little talent will be revealed, and then feel that others think he is omnipotent. In fact, the more he shows something, the more it shows that he doesn't have anything of himself.

Those who know are not knowledgeable, and those who are knowledgeable do not know. —The Book of Virtues, Chapter 81

Those who are truly knowledgeable do not pretend, and those who pretend that they know more are not really knowledgeable.

We often hear colloquialisms about low-key things, such as, "A bucket of water does not make a sound, half a bucket of water jingles", "A full ear of wheat always bows its head, and a withered ear of wheat looks up", etc. These sayings are all warning us to be low-key, the more capable people are, the more they know how to hide, and the more capable people are, the more they like to show off and show off.

Lao Tzu also combined the common phenomena of nature and human beings, and understood the relationship between the strength and weakness of things, so he came to the wisdom of "those who know are not knowledgeable, and those who are knowledgeable do not know": people who really have the ability do not like to show off, and people who like to show off often have no ability.

Self-confidence is not something you say with your mouth, you prove it by your actions.

Not so! In fact, people have succeeded, you see. When people don't succeed! No matter how hard people work, we can't describe how bad they are!

Have the ability to prove that people work hard to be recognized by others, not to become bad!

Depending on how you understand the word "be a human being", if you think that this word means a person who sees people and talks about people, and talks nonsense when he sees ghosts, and has many eyes. This sentence is not true, if you think that being a person means being a good person, this sentence is not true.

Fart, no one is perfect, some people just like to show off some skills, and the really powerful people are very low-key and bland.

1. Jealousy, deliberately making others uncomfortable.

People who have no ability generally do not reflect on the root of their inability, and always like to complain about others, others are better than me, and others have taken crooked ways. I don't disdain to be in the same stream, so I don't mix well. Someone who mixes better than me doesn't have a good thing, so he hates others.

I always think that I am so bad, why should I make others comfortable, and I have to do something to make everyone uncomfortable under jealousy. Others are uncomfortable, he feels comfortable, a barefoot mentality that is not afraid to wear shoes, everyone is uncomfortable, and it is best to roll pigs in the mud. People who don't have the ability to do it are deliberately making others uncomfortable.

2. Rebellious psychology and deliberately attracting attention.

A person who has no ability will not think of taking care of the overall situation in the first place, because he is always a person who is left out by the group. In order to brush up on their presence, they will deliberately make some movements to attract attention. For example, in a team, the most incompetent person is often the one with the most temper. The most irascible people.

Others accommodate him because they are afraid that he will stir up the situation, and he always looks like everyone else is afraid of him, making himself superior. People who don't have the ability always do something that makes people very uncomfortable, for example, when everyone discusses things, they have to say cool things, deliberately drag their feet in doing things, etc., so that everyone knows that he is amazing, and he will not do good things, and he will not do bad things for others.

3. Always self-centered, love to talk big and brush up on the sense of existence.

Especially at the wine table, many people who have no ability always like to be self-centered, only talk endlessly, do not take into account the feelings of others at all, and especially love to brag, exaggerating their past achievements, social status, etc., which makes people feel particularly uncomfortable, but he has always been proud, and he has been talking non-stop, how beautiful and triumphant he used to be. And when others questioned it, they began to scare others.

Because a person with ability, quality, and cultivation, he has to think carefully about everything he does? Generally, he will not hurt people casually, nor will he offend people casually, but a person with no quality, no cultivation, he will only think of himself and will not think of others, so whether he does things or speaks, she doesn't think about whether others can accept it at all? So the easier it is to offend people, the more uncomfortable it is.

You can't do anything, people look down on you, how can you make people comfortable, some people have no ability and are arrogant, and use arrogance to cover up their incompetence This kind of person is even more annoying.

Except for people who are born fools and have no ability, the vast majority of people are ordinary people who rely on mental or physical strength to eat, that is, people who do not have the ability to have great scenery, 'there are many people who carry sedan chairs, and few people sit in sedan chairs'. People in this kind of crowd will make people uncomfortable for a while, but they are calm and comfortable for a lifetime. The more beautiful the scenery, the more capable people will make people comfortable for a while, but they will fall into the abyss and suffer for a lifetime.

Don't believe me.

This is personal cultivation, the more incapable the quality and cultivation of the person is, the worse the quality and cultivation, he talks and does a lot of things that are not comfortable, because he will not empathize, so we must be people and do things with cultivation and quality

Because you don't have a common topic, and someone who doesn't have the ability is of no use to you, even if you make friends with him, it will do you no good.

People who have the ability can control their emotions and facial expressions well, they often have a clear purpose, and they will not waste more time on useless people.

Because emotional intelligence is also a skill.

Many people who have little career achievements are comfortable, but they have high emotional intelligence.

Many capable people can also make people uncomfortable, maybe because of high IQ and low emotional intelligence, but the grades make up for this, and everyone can forgive him.

And a person who has neither ability nor emotional intelligence is uncomfortable because he has no emotional intelligence, and he has no grades, which cannot make up for his shortcoming.

The more incapable people are, the more uncomfortable they will be, so it's too absolute. Personally, you think that people don't have a common language, they don't understand each other, they have different opinions, and they are prone to quarrels when they speak, so you think that they are incompetent. As the old saying goes:

I was born to be useful." Each person has his own value.

Why do you have to have a kind name, you don't want to pay for a kind name, a little bit of that!

In fact, everyone has a selfish heart, of course, this is not innate, and the changes in the heart are not controllable. Under the influence of the mind, there will be a sense of possessiveness and jealousy. Possessiveness makes you want other people's things, and jealousy makes you hate and hate if you don't get it.

Such as Lugao.

I think there's something wrong with this sentence, why don't you share it and say it to others, I think it's really unreasonable.

People who are willing to share with their friends are indeed kind. However, most of the people who are truly kind and kind are both compassionate and wise, and they are willing to give but do not morally kidnap others. If you can't do it yourself but want others to do it, it's greed and jealousy.

There is no connection between kindness and non-sharing, because it has something to do with itself, and some people are good, but they just won't share.

I think there is a deviation in this sentence itself, kindness and sharing are two different things, and they should not be confused.

A kind-hearted person, in the unit, may not get an important smiling sedan chair, and the stars will not rise to the moon. However, kind-hearted people have their own circle of praise. Most people will have a sense of closeness to kind-hearted people. But that doesn't mean you know how to share.

Of course, we must be kind, but this kindness is not a good person, not good or bad, not going with the flow, kindness is the essence of life, the existence of a person's values, and the foundation of a person's foothold in society. Sharing is a kind of self, if Wanqing doesn't want to say it, he won't say it, and he has nothing to do with others.

I think ah, this sentence is the hatred of the rich, a typical hatred of the rich, so there is nothing to look at and evaluate.

Friends should be kind. When interacting with friends, the most important thing is to talk about the "heart" and the "heart" to communicate, and kindness is to compare the heart with the heart and be open-minded.