I sometimes feel lonely at school

In fact, you know that those feelings are just psychological misunderstandings... I've also had it, I always feel that I can't fit into the big group of the class, and on occasions like class gatherings, I always feel too awkward, too awkward, and I always want to hide in a corner where no one is around, and spend it quietly... But the consequence of this is more and more sadness and loneliness.

When I plucked up the courage to take the initiative to talk, play games, and joke with everyone. I realized that it was not that they were turning a cold eye on me, nor that they were gradually moving away from me, but that I myself had unconsciously deviated from my original track and gradually detached from this large collective. Thankfully I corrected it ...

Actually, I think you should learn to be gregarious, the topics they like may be caused by you don't like it, in fact, it doesn't matter, you can try your best, learn to like the things they like, when I first entered junior high school, I didn't have anything to say to my classmates, but then I found out that they also have the same hobby as me: singing, and gradually you can play with them.

The first thing is to learn to smile, no one will get angry with a smiling expression. Then, usually help the classmates around you and show your friendliness in small things.

Thinking too much, right?! You guys communicate more! Integrate into the collective, of course, the good collective mentioned here. The so-called red one who is close to Zhu, and black one who is close to ink!

Think about why, did you hurt them? Or do you not want to talk to them?

You can try to reach out to your classmates.

Go out, participate in more sports, such as playing ball and the like, cultivate your hobbies more, of course, learning must first do a good job, the most important thing for students is to learn, their own excellence, naturally more friends, don't care too much about others, in a word: life is a mirror, the same is true in **.

Don't think like this, life is lonely, a person comes and goes alone, don't think too much, sometimes there are many friends, in fact, there are few real friends who can really become friends, that is, when you are in trouble, people around you are real friends!

At the same time, when you meet like-minded people, you should have the courage to express them. But you don't need to deliberately change yourself. Heaven has given us many shortcomings, and I believe that it is to select people who truly understand you.

I am also a student at school. It used to be lonely too. Later, I tried to find my true self and began to learn painting, piano, calligraphy ......I was enriched, and at the same time, I found my own circle and had close friends.

You can too

If you are a college student who has just entered the university and feels lonely when you come to a strange city, you can try to get along with your roommates in the dormitory first, after all, the roommates in the dormitory are destined to get together together, and you can also participate in some clubs of interest and find classmates with the same interests as you in the club.

If you have been in school for a year or two, it is normal to feel lonely, maybe you have a different lifestyle and learning style from some of your classmates, at this time you should stick to your own path, study more, read more books, learn a technology, and make your university full.

If you are about to graduate, it is normal to feel lonely, because everyone has their own ideas, and you have to face the job search alone and adapt to the workplace environment. The most important thing to adapt to the workplace environment is that you have the ability to support yourself with your ability, and when you have the ability, you will naturally have more friends.

This is the main task at this stage.

Others go with the flow, and don't have to deliberately pursue too many friends.

As long as it doesn't affect your studies and life.

Don't take it too seriously.

This is a psychology that everyone will have, but don't worry, no one will always be with you, as long as you are good enough and have good qualities, someone will naturally be friends with you. But you yourself also have to become a ray of sunshine in other people's lives, if you look hard, you will find that in fact, many people around you are the same as you, you have nothing to worry about, you have to be optimistic and positive to accept others, talk and chat with the people around you more, and let others understand that you are also very easy to get along with. Go for it!

I would like to give you my answer, and I would like to forgive me if there is any inappropriateness. Read more books to strengthen your heart. When your cultural temperament and heritage have a certain realm, you will definitely have self-confidence and talk and laugh freely in the crowd, and you will naturally make good friends.

If you feel lonely, you can try to participate in some sports, such as playing badminton, table tennis, etc., make more friends, whether they are of the same sex or the opposite sex, force yourself to attend more parties, and read more books. That's all.

Some people are born lonely, and some people are lonely. Some people like solitude, some people fear solitude, and some people enjoy solitude. There is a garden in the heart, and it is in the spring.

You should take the initiative to chat with them You can't wait for others to chat with you You can't wait for others so you take the initiative for others Others will be willing to play with you Slowly get familiar with you You have friends Life is lonely No one can accompany you to the ends of the earth Only you can always accompany yourself Backers will fall Relying on friends and friends will lose Parents can't always accompany us for a lifetime So we must be independent Learn to solve things by ourselves Have self-confidence Believe in yourself Come on