How can you get rid of your indecisiveness?

I think there should be a lot of people who are indecisive and can't make a choice in the face of multiple choices, but in the face of all things can't make a decision, and can't make up their minds, it's really annoying, and sometimes I hate myself like this.

Going back to its roots, indecisive people are afraid of losing, afraid of taking responsibility for their choices, and cannot afford to lose. But if you want to make a perfect plan, you don't make a choice, stay where you are, and end up with nothing.

Start with the small things in life, such as what to eat, what clothes to wear, what shoes to wear, etc., don't have too many entanglements, for what you want to eat for both, just eat this today and that tomorrow.

Do things, don't always seek the approval of others, others cannot be responsible for your life. And if you ask everyone you know, you won't necessarily be able to make a choice, especially if most people don't agree with your choice.

For example, when I used to buy clothes, I always asked my friends which ones looked good. Because I think they all look good, but I just want to buy one, and I want to pick out the best one. But I forgot that everyone's aesthetic vision is different, and everyone's style is different.

Since it's all good, then I'll just go one by one.

Only by going through it over and over again, and by trial and error, can you better understand what choice is good in the future choice. Therefore, we need to read more books, make more friends with cows, see more of the outside world, and try more.

We may be weak at first, but we can grow and become strong through hard work. Believe that you are making the right choice, even if you are wrong, it is an experience. When you believe in yourself, there is a good chance that things will go in the direction you want because you will work towards that direction unconsciously.

Fitness is a great thing to do to get some exercise and boost your willpower and self-confidence. When you hold on to something for a long time, your learned helplessness will slowly wane because you can feel that you are in control of how things are unfolding.

I particularly like the saying: if you take fewer detours, you will miss the scenery. Every time I encounter a setback, I comfort myself like this and send it to everyone, hoping that you can choose in time, choose boldly, and grab what you want.

Motivate yourself by telling yourself to act immediately if you have an idea, encouraging yourself, and letting yourself see what you can bring when you are decisive. And you can't be too aggressive, you have to take your time and change step by step.

To get rid of the indecisive character, you can use the following three methods: 1. Have a clear goal and have your own mental discrimination. 2. Resist external factors and not be affected by other factors. 3. Be brave and firm, regardless of regret and self-blame for what has happened, and continue to move forward bravely.

It is fundamental to eliminate confusion and irritability, relieve psychological pressure, establish a life path, and establish good living habits and attitudes.

1. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easier to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.

2. Maintain inner peace to feel relaxed--- content, indifferent to fame and fortune, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.

3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.

4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life.

In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village in front of you", which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.

No matter how much it changes. Your essence cannot be changed. So don't waste your energy.