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Cultivate through tea and spread Zen tea culture.
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There are many ways to deal with emotions, but keeping an eye on them is the most important and crucial. Most people are confused and miserable because they are unaware, they can't see themselves clearly, they can't understand others, so they are confused and uneasy.
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You can try the method:
1. Put yourself in a relatively quiet space where no one else but yourself, such as in the wild, in the mountains, or at home.
Or look at the flowers, or fish, or walk, or listen, or read a book.
2. Take a warm bath and let your body relax first. Then look at something green or blue, like greenery, a blue sky.
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It's better to go with the flow, because pushing yourself too hard is counterproductive.
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Distract yourself. You can go exercising, shopping, listening to songs or something, I think listening to those gentle ** can calm your mind or find a very good friend, talk to him, you can also solve the problem.
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Find someone who can talk to you for a long time, talk about the troubles and depression that you suppress, it will be much easier, and the heart-to-heart communication will help you analyze yourself, let yourself have a clearer understanding of yourself, and slowly, the heart will be quiet! Also, it would be much better for friends to listen to songs, take a walk, and stay in a quiet place. In addition, yoga is also a very good method, but it takes time and patience to persevere!
o(∩_o !Sincere wishes friends! May you always be happy!
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Friends, we all understand that mentality can determine everything, if the mentality is not correct, how can you do well in your industry. Now that your tired mentality has appeared, the easiest way to adjust is to exercise, such as running, aerobics, and yoga (although it is difficult, it is very helpful to dredge your muscles and bones). You can also make the object of diverted attention, such as talking to a good friend, confiding in your dissatisfaction, you will be much more relaxed, and listen to more light and wonderful **, appropriate sweets are also very helpful to your mood, you can go to a quiet, elegant place to relax yourself, such as:
There are mountains and rivers, suburbs and so on. You can treat yourself to a big meal, or buy something you usually want to buy but don't dare to buy. I sincerely wish you the best of luck as soon as possible.
But in the end, it is up to you to constantly adjust your mentality, and combined with exercise, exercise can relax your body muscles and brain, which is very helpful for reducing the psychological burden! Give yourself confidence. At this time, you need to relax willfully, go, go crazy to the holidays, go to play, play tired, sleep a full night, your energy and mind will come back to work I hope it can help you.
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Stillness can give birth to wisdom, and wisdom has a heart. When your heart is calm, your life can be sublimated and baptized. So, how do we calm our minds? Let's listen to the meditation voice guidance of the female voice teacher Ye Zi of Zhengzhou Metro.
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Find a plate of ice water and pour it down, and get goosebumps.
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Staring at an object, taking a deep breath and distracting yourself.
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Believe me, after more experience, the heart will naturally calm down, and there is no other way.
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Learning to meditate is very useful
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Take a few more deep breaths and don't think about anything.
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1.Don't be too yourself: Some people are demanding perfection in their work, and they are almost nitpicky about their own requirements, and they often blame themselves for small flaws, and the victim is themselves.
In order to avoid frustration, you should set your goals and requirements within your ability, and know how to appreciate what you have achieved, and you will naturally feel happy. 2.Don't expect too much from others:
Many people put their hopes in others and are disappointed if they don't meet their expectations. In fact, everyone has his thoughts, strengths and weaknesses, so why ask others to cater to their own requirements? 3.
Channel your anger: When we are angry, we do a lot of wrong things or gaffes. Rather than regretting it afterwards, it is better to be lenient and exercise self-control beforehand.
Transferring anger to another side, such as playing ball and singing, develops a kind of Ah Q spirit. 4.Chance also to give in:
A person who does big things is looking at the big picture, and only some uninformed people will drill into the small place, so as long as the big premise is not affected, sometimes there is no need to insist too much on the small place, so as to reduce their troubles. 5.Escape for the time being:
When you have a setback in your life, you should put aside your worries for a while and go to do things you enjoy, such as exercising, sleeping, and reading. When the mood is balanced, he will face his problems again. 6.
Find someone to talk to about your troubles: Burying all your depression in the bottom of your heart will only make you depressed. If you tell your inner troubles to your close friends or teachers, you will feel comfortable.
7.Do something for others: Helping others is the foundation of happiness, helping others not only makes you forget your troubles, but also determines the value of your own existence, and you can get precious friendships, why not?
8.Do only one thing in a period of time: Dr. Qiao Qi, an American psychological counseling expert, found that the main reason for the causes of anxiety, mental breakdowns and other diseases is that patients are faced with a lot of things that need to be dealt with urgently, and mental pressure is too much to cause mental illness.
9.Don't compete with others at every turn: Some people are psychologically unbalanced simply because they are too competitive and keep themselves in a constant state of tension.
In fact, when people get along, harmony should be precious. 10.Show kindness to people:
We are often ostracized because people are wary of us. If you show your kindness at the right time, make more friends and make fewer enemies, your mood will naturally become calm. 11.
Entertainment: This is the best way to eliminate psychological stress. It's not so much about how you entertain, it's about feeling good.
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What hobbies do you have, focus on one thing and let yourself have no time to think about anything else, so that you can reduce your irritability.
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This question is more esoteric, do more things you like to relax.
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When you reach a certain age, you should learn to be quiet and see everything lightly. I am in my forties this year, and I have experienced almost all the storms, and I have survived the poorest and hardest times like this. Now that I suddenly look back, the suffering brought by the outside world is not real suffering.
The anxiety and fear that comes from the heart are the real pain. Now I gradually understand that the best state of life is abundant quiet. You must let your heart be empty, not bound by desires, put aside prejudice, and keep the coolness of your heart, so that you can enjoy an ordinary and comfortable life.
May everyone be able to live their best selves!
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1. To choose a good learning environment, you must first calm yourself down and choose a quiet environment.
2. Cultivate your interest in learning, interest is the best teacher, read more, read more, write more.
3. Encourage yourself a lot, learn a problem, memorize a few formulas, and have a sense of success. That's what makes you interested. When I'm the happiest, I use it to talk about my biggest headache.
Fourth, arrange the time reasonably. Learn to regulate and use your own biological clock to get more results with less.
Fifth, pay more attention to rest, we must first ensure rest time, and do not engage in fatigue tactics. If you have time, you can do more exercise, such as playing basketball, badminton, running, walking, etc., to make yourself in good health, and at the same time, you can also improve your learning efficiency.
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As a student, what I want to do quietly is to study, and I also have my own way to calm myself down quickly.
Start by taking a deep breath. Do it for a minute or two, close your eyes, don't think about anything, just think about inhaling and exhaling. We have Chinese and English posters issued by the school, and we have to practice one every day, so I take them out and practice until I feel calm enough, and then go to study.
If I'm in a messy environment, I'll put on my headphones and put some light **.
That's my method, it works for me, I don't know about others.
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** Ways to get upset.
1. Target transfer method.
If you're feeling irritated and unable to concentrate because of something or someone, don't push yourself. At this time, the most important thing to do is to relax, do something to pass the time without consuming your brain power, you might as well listen to **, watch TV. Only when your mood is relieved and relaxed, will you have the energy to do what you should do and want to do.
2. Cry appropriately.
Crying when you're grief-stricken can calm your emotions. Crying is a great way to relieve tension, annoyance, and pain. American psychologist Waferley believes that tears can expel certain toxins produced by the organism during the stress response.
From this point of view, holding back and not crying when you encounter something that should be cried means chronic poisoning.
3. Chat online.
A large number of men and women with excess feelings have gathered in the chat room all the time, take a "tearful girl" and go in, whoa, immediately there are so many ids of all kinds hugging up, shouting and asking for warmth, soft words of comfort, or sending roses, or telling jokes, whether it is true or false, trying to make you happy. You type quickly, coax these people long and short sentences, immersed in the happy bubble of the Internet, and the unpleasantness has long been avoided.
In society, it is inevitable to suffer some grievances, setbacks, or being reprimanded by leaders in the unit, or misunderstandings between friends, or falling into the black tricks of competitors. All sorts of troubles and unhappiness are like assassins hiding in the shadows, jumping out and slashing at you when you are not looking. At first, I was distraught and emaciated by these bad emotions, but then I gained experience and slowly summarized a set of effective ways to deal with bad emotions.
4. Learn to self-debug.
Relax yourself in time and maintain psychological balance and tranquility In view of the long-term high mental tension, white-collar workers should learn to self-adjust and relax themselves in time. Such as participating in various sports activities; Soak in a hot bath after work and chat with family and friends; Saturday and Sunday outings; You can also use various ways to vent your suppressed emotions and so on.
In addition, you can also relax at work, such as listening while working**; Chat with colleagues and talk about jokes; Walking back and forth in the office, stretching your waist; Open the window, look out from the window, take a deep breath, etc. At the same time, in the complex and intense work, we should maintain psychological balance and tranquility, as the saying goes, "the heart is calm and naturally cool". This requires white-collar workers to develop good personalities such as cheerfulness, optimism, and generosity, and to be steady, tolerant, accepting, and detached.
Relax yourself appropriately.
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