Is love innately determined or acquired?

Do you know that you can get out of my field of vision, but you can never get out of my deep thoughts for you; You can stay away from my figure, but you can never stay away from my deep attachment to you.

Love is to be willing to give and sacrifice unconditionally for each other, you don't need any reason to love someone, you just want the other person to be happy forever, never worry about each other, be happy because the other person is happy, and feel happy because the other person is happy. We all know that love represents a kind of responsibility, love is a kind of unconditional giving and sacrifice, love is endless and never lost, love is not not to reciprocate, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party. And the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and you should be happy with her happiness and happiness with her.

People live nothing more than hope that they will live a happy and happy life. And being able to be with your beloved and being able to give for your loved ones is a great joy in life. When you love someone, you also want her to be happy and happy, and only if she is happy and happy, you are happy and happy.

So when you feel that you love her, you have already decided to give and even sacrifice for her unconditionally, and only when this kind of giving and sacrifice can bring her joy and happiness, your giving and sacrifice is meaningful, and the love you give can find a home. If your giving and sacrifice cannot bring joy and happiness to the other person, it means that you do not understand the other person at all, it means that you do not know how to love each other at all, it means that you are not suitable for being together at all, and when you change the way of giving and sacrificing (that is, the way of love) cannot make both parties happy and happy, it means that you are not suitable for love at all. At this point, all you can give each other is blessings to each other.

Because blessing is also a kind of love, when your love for her is only a blessing, that is the time for you to give up, then bless each other, let your last love continue, and let each of you find the love that truly belongs to you. There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you.

So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love. If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied. When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs?

Can you give her joy and happiness? Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love can be happy.

Luck decides!

Work hard, you will have luck! But it doesn't have to be lucky!

If you don't work hard, you won't have luck!

There are still many people who are a little smarter to succeed!

Work hard the day after tomorrow!

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Talent is determined by nature, and ability is cultivated.

No one is born stupid, and no one is born a genius. I remember someone said to me: "There is no so-called talent in this world, it is all earned by hard work, if you insist on saying that there is, then it is earned by hard work." ”

I remember that the teacher who taught me also said to me: "Natural attributes, to put it bluntly, are brought from the mother's womb, and they are born with it, which is called natural attributes." No one can talk and work as soon as they go out, and these skills are acquired.

Therefore, what is acquired and learned in society is called social attributes.

If the natural attributes are considered to be the nature of man, then there is no distinction between man and animal. Because both humans and animals have natural attributes. The essential attribute of human beings should be social attributes.

Eating, drinking, Lazar, birth, old age, sickness and death will happen to everyone, and so will puppies. Puppies know how to eat when they are hungry, and puppies will die when they are old. People are also animals, so this raises the bar, or distinguishes people from animals.

Puppies have no social attributes and social relationships, because only human society has society, and only human beings have society.

People have agency over society, rather than being completely controlled by society.

There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the boat is naturally straight to the bridge. Since people can be changed by their environment, etc., they may become weaker, but there will also be times when they become stronger. So work hard and strive for your ideals!

In the past, I always thought that people were perfect, but now I think that what the teacher said was right at the beginning, that people are not perfect, and each has its own advantages and disadvantages. It's just that I didn't find any shortcomings in myself. At the same time, I understand:

If you know your shortcomings, you have to make up for them, don't be too passive, and use the strengths of others to make up for your own shortcomings.

Social attributes are the fundamental attributes of human beings, and the essence of human beings is the sum total of all social relations, which are realistic, concrete, historical, and developing.

People are fickle and will be changed by the environment, what they lack is the support and help of others, but they are not strong enough because they can be shaken. But there are some people who can be strong and unshakable.

Each person is unique and irreplaceable, and living in the world is certainly valuable. I hope that everyone will also have the ability to self-regulate to adapt to changes in themselves and the external environment.

Innate genes (i.e., the timing of conception) determine the ceiling of IQ, and if the timing is at its best, it is the best in terms of IQ, physical condition, etc.; The acquired cultivation can only be within the ceiling range (i.e., the closer it is to the ceiling if it is cultivated well, and the farther away it is vice versa), but it cannot pass through the ceiling, otherwise it will collapse.

There are genetic factors, but the influence of the acquired environment is particularly important Therefore, a person's personality can be changed, of course, the sooner this is recognized, the better!

Positive and motivated personality will also change.

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Of course, the day after tomorrow will affect, and the impact will be significant.

The factors that determine character are both innate and acquired.

The environment also plays a very important role in people's shape, and if the people around you are very knowledgeable and talkative, you will definitely be affected.

There is also the education and cultivation of parents, which play a subtle role in people's character.

It is still mainly based on congenital factors. People often say that the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change, isn't this the truth? If a person encounters a major change in the day after tomorrow, his personality will also change.

The little girl you said loves to wear boys' clothes and dress up as a boy, which should be a congenital factor, and it is also related to the family factor you said.

The determinant of personality is a combination of innate and acquired. Innate factors (inherited from parents or elders) play a dominant role. Acquired (living environment, people and things in contact) play a decisive role.

For example, if a person is born very tough, he can do whatever he wants, regardless of the surrounding conditions or people's reactions, and is too subjective, so that after several setbacks and lessons, a person may have a coup d'état character, listen to the opinions (or suggestions) of the majority of people when encountering problems, and deal with problems in a comprehensive manner based on various situations in front of him. Or if he comes into contact with the people around him, he speaks and behaves without prejudice or subjectivity (hard), and his personality will change.

There is some truth in what you said, both innate and acquired factors coexist.

Some are innately formed, and some are acquired.

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The day after tomorrow, I am a southerner and don't like spicy food. It wasn't until I arrived in Chongqing that I realized that the world is so beautiful

The level of IQ is determined by nature, but people's abilities can be acquired and developed through acquired learning. Some people may have an average IQ, but they are willing to learn, and their abilities, such as learning ability, communication ability, financial management ability, survival ability, life ability, work ability, etc., can be stronger than the average person. On the other hand, some people with high IQs, if they don't go to Pikai to study, their abilities may be average.

However, no matter how hard a person of average intelligence is, no matter how hard he works, he will not be able to have top-notch, extremely good, outstanding abilities.

For example, a person with an average IQ can obtain and develop his ability to take exams through his own hard work in a good external environment, and be admitted to a college, but no matter how hard he works, he will not be admitted to the world's top universities, including Tsinghua University and Peking University. Therefore, IQ is equivalent to an innate mine, and how much ore this mine produces still needs to be excavated the day after tomorrow.

But if this mine contains less ore, it will produce so much ore with all the effort of excavation.

Innate factors determine the upper limit of your IQ, and acquired cultivation determines the lower limit of your IQ.

Pure IQ or innate factors play a decisive role.

It should be said that there are all of them, the foundation has been laid by innate factors, and the acquired cultivation is slowly changing.

In fact, I think that happiness can be determined by both nature and nurture.

Happiness is not a general term, everyone has their own unique views on happiness, everyone has their own happiness at different stages, you may not feel happiness in childhood, but when you met her in your youth, this is not a kind of happiness. I was born in a very warm family, my parents created a good family atmosphere, they never quarreled, they tried their best to meet my various requests from childhood to adulthood, I thought it was the happiness that my relatives brought me. Later, when I grew up and entered college, I met a boy, not handsome but good enough for me, I cherish the time with him, I thank him for every companionship he gave me in my loneliness, so this is the happiness that love brings me, from the beginning of our birth, it seems that our appearance and our family are fixed, this seems to be an arrangement in the dark, there are some people who are born at the pinnacle of life, even if they don't have to put in any effort, they can also harvest much more material wealth than others, This may be the so-called innately determined happiness. Although some girls born in poor families do not have unique advantages, they can also create a beautiful life of their own through their own efforts.

So don't envy other people's lives, everyone has their own happiness at every stage, everyone has the right to create their own happiness, whether it is innately determined happiness or acquired happiness, as long as you live your own life is the most important.

I feel like happiness is both.

With innate advantages, birth is happy.

If you don't have an innate advantage, you can also make yourself happy if you work hard the day after tomorrow, but you have a congenital advantage, and then if you don't work hard, your life will be a mess, and there is no way to talk about happiness.

Both innate and acquired have a certain influence, but I think the acquired factor is relatively large. A person's family environment may affect a person's development, but personal development depends more on oneself. A person's quality has a great impact on the happiness of life, and there is a world of difference between whether to choose to escape or bravely face difficulties when faced with difficulties.

Many of these things add up to determine whether a person's life is happy or not.

I think both congenital and acquired have an impact, innate happiness is innate, but if you want to be happy all the time, you need to work hard, after all, no one is born smooth sailing, happiness still needs to be fought for by yourself, there is no smooth flow for no reason, so relatively speaking, the acquired influence is larger, and the innate influence is smaller.

Whether you live a happy life or not, I think the most important thing depends on the day after tomorrow. Although it is said that our economic situation is determined by nature, economic situation is not the only condition for happiness. If we learn to be satisfied, we can feel happiness despite our innate conditions.

Besides, happiness needs to be worked hard and strived for, so that the happiness obtained will last for a long time, so I think happiness still depends on the day after tomorrow.

I think the innate determines a part, more or acquired efforts, a person from birth, his family of origin will affect his happiness index, then the impact of parents' family education on the child will definitely determine his character direction, and how to live after that, is the result of his acquired efforts, his expectations for himself will increase after reaching the happiness index.

This may all have an impact! First of all, people's definition of happiness is different, and some people feel very happy even if they have a lot of tea, which has something to do with their own personality. Of course, if you work hard in life and achieve a certain level of achievement, you think that having achievement is happiness, then such happiness is acquired by hard work, so it has something to do with both.