What is the reason if a person doesn t even have friends?

If a person doesn't even have friends, it could be the next five reasons. The first one, once deceived by a friend, once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of the well rope! The second type is independent and prefers a quiet life.

I like to be alone in life, I don't like to disturb others, and I don't want to be disturbed by others! The third type is high-ranking and unwilling to make friends with others. They understand that there are only eternal interests and no eternal friends.

As long as they need it, they have countless "friends", but no one else needs it! The so-called high places are not cold.

Fourth, people with poor personal ability. This kind of thin mud that can't hold up the wall will only become a hind leg for friends, who wants to be with it? The fifth type is a person with a violent personality and an open mouth.

This kind of person is avoided, how can they make friends with it? You don't need to have many friends, you have one or two confidants in your life! On the other hand, in order to form a gang and make friends, some people usually get together every three days, and they have a brother when they go out, and a sister when they enter the door, but when they are in trouble, there is no one around to help, except for sadness is cold, what is the meaning of such "friends". ‍‍

It may be that the personality is too eccentric. I can't communicate with anyone, and I can't stand it. In the eyes of others, it seems to be a monster, as if it is an alien, as if it is a strange thing.

Or too selfish, self-centered. Never put others in your eyes, friends and you will get more or less hurt and indifferent, so after a long time, friends will naturally be lost. It may also be that the temper is too strong and too violent, and they quarrel and quarrel when they disagree, and they don't know how to be flexible.

A straight personality is a good thing, but it is necessary to respect others and respect their different opinions and feelings. If you are too contentious, your words are too choking, and it is reasonable to lose friends. ‍‍

There are several kinds of passive: one is treacherous, the second is forgetful for profit, the third is greedy for the interests of friends, the fourth is not enough to take advantage of, and they are stingy, the fifth is to play with right and wrong, let friends hide and go, the sixth is to make friends with profit, snobbery, seven is not sincere to others, deceive friends, dishonest, punctual and disrespectful to others, eight is people become broad-faced, look down on friends, and finally friends stay away collectively. ‍‍

I don't have a friend, because I'm poor, I don't have the ability, I can't help others, and because I'm very upright, I don't know how to please others, I don't know how to be tactful, interpersonal relationships are equivalent exchanges, I don't have anything to exchange, so I don't have any friends, I just stay at home and stay at home every day except for work.

Personality reasons. Some people are born with social phobia, they don't socialize, they don't socialize, they don't socialize with people. I'd rather close myself off than deal with people.

This could be a personality factor or a mental illness. Some people are lonely to death, isn't there news that some people died in the house, and no one knows how many years? Because he does not dare to socialize, does not dare to make friends, prefers to be alone, afraid of crowds. ‍‍

Some people devote themselves to their careers, have partners, but may not have friends, have a clear distinction between public and private, and do not recognize their relatives. They don't make friends at all, they only talk about interests, there are no permanent friends only permanent interests, he may not have friends around him, but he doesn't regard them as friends, he clearly knows that friends are unreliable, or the most reliable cooperation of interests. Making friends, tired by friendships, can't focus on careers.

For example, some workaholics, some artists, some technologists, they focus on their careers and don't make friends. ‍‍

There is a category of people who have nothing wrong with themselves. But I just don't like to make friends generally, at most I have two or three confidants, and I don't get together often. Then others don't see it and think that he doesn't have any friends, and it's almost none anyway.

Mainly online contact, normal people, a little bit of a problem, a little advantage or something, there will always be a few friends. Whether it's a respected person or something else, there will always be a few friends by your side.

I don't think it's my problem to be alone without friends, I think people who are used to being alone fall in love with loneliness. Being alone does not mean that there is a problem.

While longing for loneliness, and envying others to have friends, this is not the reason why you have no friends, I think I am quite sociable, as long as I want, I can always make friends with people in different places. But this world is too big, and this experience has been going on for almost 20 years. The people I used to talk to end up being strangers who I knew but no longer met.

Being alone is an ability and a maturity.

There is a saying that no one can share your joys and sorrows, and in the end it is all alone. Some people like to be alone in life, no matter what they do, they like to be alone, do not disturb others, and it is best for others not to disturb him, so that they can feel fulfilled and satisfied in solitude, and people who have reached this state have often experienced a lot of things, seen through a lot of things, and have a high level of cognition.

Some may have had the most trusted friends, and then betrayed by friends, they no longer make friends easily, and began to be keen on solitude, cutting off contact with the outside world, then, this kind of solitude is not recommended, you know, people are social animals, everyone can not do without worries to leave, so, solitude needs to be both internal and external, not only one side.

If you don't have friends, it may be your own problem, or it may be that you didn't have the heart to look for it and didn't find the right one, so don't feel sorry for yourself, and don't worry about it.

Why don't you have a friend? You should think about whether you don't get along well with others. Are you always self-centered, or do you always put your feelings first?