What should I do, I still miss him, I m really mentally unbalanced 20

First of all, miss, I'm a man. You said that you had a miscarriage, and he was still happy with others, and I felt sorry for you. Then he really doesn't deserve you. Such a man forgot about it as soon as possible.

You say, "I'll find you to solve his needs." He's using you as his tool to vent his desires. The more you accommodate him, the more proud he becomes, and he may think that "Lao Tzu's charm is great, and it can make a woman's heart fall to the ground."

The more you care about him, the more dismissive he is for you. This is a common problem among men. Opinionated.

I used to be self-righteous, too. So I understand his psychology.

I can tell that you are committed to your relationship. You're a good girl. There are many people who are worthy of you.

It's painful to forget a relationship, especially if it's left a deep mark on your heart. But you have to forget. It's a wishful thinking relationship with no ending.

Forget it, forget it. I've been in a relationship like this too. It's really hard to forget, but the paragraph is a paragraph.

Be decisive. Stop whine, he won't care. Ha ha.

Love is what it is, you can try to start the next relationship.

Maybe it can be better.

It's normal for you to be in this situation, so you're a little unwilling.

I feel that I have paid for nothing.

Hey, let time figure it out.

You have to think about it, stay in the green mountains and don't be afraid of no firewood, although the words are very old, but the reason is very true.

Use the power of hatred to change everything, and don't regret falling in the end.

Oh, smug and indifferent, frustrated and calm, fight for its inevitability, go with the flow, the sunrise in the east and the rain in the west, but it is ruthless and sunny, endure humiliation and gentleness, and be forgiving and forgiving.

Go see those who are worse than you.

Confident women are more beautiful. Lack of self-confidence can make people look weak and go crazy. Show your demeanor.

Reading between the lines, I feel like you're not just an ordinary girl. Believe in yourself. One more point.

Maybe he flirted with her on purpose? Isn't it that you are usually cold and high-profile towards him? Hehe.

You're jealous.

To change this mentality, you must first cheer yourself up, don't always think about who is better than you and how you are inferior to him, but say to yourself "I can do it too", and determine the direction of your efforts, and take action to change where you are inferior to others.

At the same time, you must also make yourself understand that "no one is perfect". No one is perfect, don't just see what others have and ignore what you have; What you don't have doesn't mean you will never get it.

If someone else is better than me, I won't be happy in my heart, but I will try my best to be better than others, of course, if it's not something I like, I won't be jealous of others, if it's immutable (such as height), then I will also learn to accept the reality, after all, I can't change it.

Life itself is a journey of pain and joy. It is also normal to have a psychological imbalance, if it is really uncomfortable, then think more about people who are worse than you, and the psychological balance will not be balanced.

Less than the above, more than the bottom. People ride horses, we ride donkeys. In this way, the mind is balanced.

Hello, you don't have to blame yourself for this, because it's normal that you like him and be possessive of him. At the same time, people want their lives to be perfect, and they want their other half to choose themselves first and for the first time. But it feels contradictory to think about it, because he and the first time have been separated.

If you were the ex, you might have already broken up.

However, in fact, modern communication technology is developing too fast, and people in the past would not have had such and such anxieties. Because the circle of people is limited, since the development of communication technology, there are more and more circles, more and more impetuous, more and more people are at a loss, everything is so convenient, and everything seems very casual.

Therefore, I want to say that it is better for people to be simple, sometimes, it is rare to be confused is also a rare and valuable spirit, if you like him, then give him a chance, if you can't tolerate some of his behavior, then it is better to separate as soon as possible, and you don't have to make yourself uncomfortable.

If you love him, you will definitely care about everything about him, and this kind of psychology is very normal, and you love him, so you care.