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The true meaning of affection lies in not seeking.
Loving someone is not about getting any benefit from them, you love someone and want to be good to them because you feel happy.
That's why we criticize this as a ruthless time, because everyone is doing business while giving their feelings.
When we love someone, we like to make sure that he loves me first, and if he doesn't love me, I don't want to love him.
But the other party will also think like this, so the two have to wait for the good days to slip by.
Affection is a kind of giving, not a kind of getting, too.
Don't care how much the other person can give you, because you have nothing.
You can also sacrifice for love, but this sacrifice must be made willingly, not aggrieved, reluctantly, and then ask the other party to repay you.
Some people say: Great love should stand the test, but since the relationship is so precious, it should be carefully cared for, rather than being tested if there is nothing to do.
It's like holding an egg in your hand, you should take care of it, not throw it on the ground and wonder how it can break!
Don't test love, but don't be afraid of the test, and don't be afraid that the test will fail.
Of course, we all hope that love can be talked about ordinarily and smoothly, and there will be no problems in a lifetime.
But if love has to suffer some twists and turns, some blows, and some injuries, we can also stand up and accept it. If we do lose it, it is only superficial or formal, but we can have it forever in life.
It. (In the process of love, it cannot be denied, it allows us to learn many things, regardless of the result of love.)
In this day and age, on the one hand, we should not overestimate love, because love cannot allow us to overcome everything and get everything
It's not entirely good, either;
On the other hand, don't underestimate love, because love is a talent that everyone has, and don't be reluctant to give.
When you meet someone who is right for you and who loves you.
Choose what you love, love what you choose!
Try to maintain your feelings well.
But how do you measure whether love can last?
There may be a criterion: you are more happy than bitter in love, and it makes you more motivated than you fall.
It makes you more satisfied than you want.
If there is no fame, wealth, and power in life, it is still possible to be happy.
If there is no love in life, the chances of happiness are slim.
It is good to be brave enough to welcome the love you have received, and try our best to enjoy the beauty of love, so as to avoid the pain and harm it will bring us.
Look at it from an open-minded perspective.
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That should show their charm, the girl's appearance is attractive but not everyone can be attracted, I think personality is the most important, a girl should have a good personality or the kind that is likable, pay attention to it. In this way, you can attract the people you like, and you must constantly improve your personality, so that the boy you like will always like you, and that is called success!! Come on
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Feelings are two-sided, you can't force it, you just need to show yourself, if you like him and he doesn't like you, even if in the end no matter what method you use, in the end you get him, if he doesn't love you, you only get his person, not his heart, think about your life in the future! Maybe it's just a spur of the moment that you like him now, think about it, and it's better to know what he means to you first. If he likes you too, then you can boldly move forward.
Good luck!
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If you're a girl, you really shouldn't be too direct. Because it's really bad, you can observe what he says and does to you. You can also know how he feels about you ... Maybe you really care about him, but you have to keep your ladylike image ...
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The two Scriptures upstairs said everything I wanted to say. I wish you happiness every day. To be able to love your loved ones for 99 years.
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Are you charismatic? If you are attractive, go for it.
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Emotions are a strange thing, and the more you can't get something, the more precious it is.
I think what you said about thinking about him, it should be emotionally missing, maybe you have a very good past, as long as you think about it, you can't help but fall into the whirlpool of longing, once the sea is difficult to water, except Wushan is not a cloud. This kind of lovesickness really makes people unable to extricate themselves.
But the reality is often cruel, and as you say, you can't be together.
What to do, I think you can only solve your lovesickness from the following aspects:
1. Divert your attention, learn something you usually want to learn, and do something you want to do.
2. Call him directly, or go directly to him, now the traffic is very developed, and no matter how far it is, it will be there soon. Let the feelings make decisions for you, and if you still can't let go of him, then go with the flow and talk to him more; If you go, he is married, has children, and has a happy family, which completely dispels the idea of thinking about him. There is a saying that there is a way to let love live, and you should give your own love a way to live.
3. The best way:) Find the love that really belongs to you, since you can't love, give up, when you fall in love yourself, I think the whole world will become beautiful, try to find it, believe in yourself.
Happy finally!
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1.Cut through the mess with a quick knife and separate immediately. Find something else to do to distract yourself, or try to like another person.
2.Obsessive, maintain such. Contact every day or once a month you visit him and the next month he comes to see you.
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It's better to divert your attention, and since it's impossible, don't delay your other things because of these things
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Nothing lasts forever No matter how loving lovers and friends are separated one day, we are still thinking about others, because we are still alive, we can miss each other, bless each other, and that's enough, continue to live your own life, use the future as a sustenance, and the person you miss Then continue to miss it, and know that you feel tired, and then it's time to gradually forget.
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If you really love, go to him, even if you can't be together and love each other, he will feel your love.
There are many reasons why we can't be together again.
There's really no reason to be together, so let's write a journal, cook with friends, drink, and say whatever you want. ‘
It takes time for people to learn to forget.
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I'll be looking for you on the weekend. Don't be embarrassed.
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If you want to go to him, tell him what you think, see what he says, and then make a decision, the problem will always be solved.
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There are always too many regrets in life, but because of this, we will remember them. When love is tested by reality, and we can't change it, then let this love become the best memory in our hearts.
Although reality separates each other, love does not have to be Sauvignon Blanc, as long as they have each other, their hearts will be firmly together, even if the reality is cruel, they can't separate each other.
There is a distance to be beautiful. When we fall in love, we always fantasize that the other person is the most perfect. But it is impossible for people to be without shortcomings, and it is precisely because of the distance that perfection will be left in our hearts.
So don't complain about why people who love each other can't be together, because with distance, the people we love will leave perfection in our hearts. This incomplete, perfect love will be unforgettable and become the best memory in our hearts.
If you accept the reality and choose to make memories, which are always unaccustomed at first, you can cultivate more interests in other areas to divert your attention and start a new life. Take good care of yourself so that your loved ones don't take care of it. Because only your happiness is his greatest happiness.
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1.Either give up your job and go to her, or ask her to come to you, and you raise her;
2.If you can't do the first one, you will break up;
3.It's as simple as that, and it's as practical as that.
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Are you online dating? Or was it together before, and now separated? If it's an online dating, a word of advice:
Better a finger off than always aching! If it's a long-distance relationship, you can do it yourself. It's hard to say about feelings, some people can forget, some people may remember for a lifetime, if you are very determined to wait for him, want to live with him for a lifetime, mobile phones, text messages, voice ** means are many!
If it's just for now, on a whim, and he's not very keen on you, then you'd better not bother him! Good to him! Good for yourself!
Some people say how true love is, how deep the hurt is. Savor the pain of this feeling, you can also find something to do, don't stay at home, go out for a walk. Hope it helps!
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Turn your thoughts into motivation to find something you're interested in doing, or travel to places you've always wanted to go and meet new people. Since we can't be together, we still have to live life, so why let ourselves fall into the quagmire of longing and can't extricate ourselves, forget him, and be a passerby in life.
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I have so many things to think about, I can only think about it, and life has to go on. Forget about those and get on with your life.
A person's thoughts can not be stopped for a moment, a thought is not extinguished, a thought is born, I think he is just a slightly bigger thought, just think about it. Don't dwell on it, maybe you'll have a new idea tomorrow morning.
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The question is does he want you?? If he wants to, you can discuss going to a place to develop. If he doesn't want you, it's okay, divert your attention, or you'll be the one who will be uncomfortable.
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Tasting loneliness, loneliness is also a kind of beauty.
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What do you think of him?
If there is a condition to fly around, if it is something else, try to substitute it.
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The best thing to do is to start the next relationship.
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I miss her too
I don't know what to do
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It is possible to write to him.
I hope you can help you.
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Twins - I love him.
Lyrics: He Qihong.
Composer: JJ Lin.
sa) Sky It's raining.
His umbrella is by your side.
g) But I'm not happy.
Because seeing the smile on his face was very reluctant.
sa) I want to love him, but the eyes are lying.
It's easier to conceal it.
lest the feelings become complicated.
g) I want to love him, but reason fights.
Can you get out of the way?
Who can give me a good one.
sa) Love is vague.
It's a pity that there is no courage to choose.
g) If you are reluctant.
If this continues, each of us is a victim.
sa) I want to love him, but the eyes are lying.
It's easier to conceal it.
lest the feelings become complicated.
g) I want to love him, but reason fights.
Can you get out of the way?
Who can give me a good one.
sa) When love is on the brink of danger.
g) Whether they will all be scarred.
Together) will be miserable.
sa) I want to love him, but the eyes are lying.
It's easier to conceal it.
lest the feelings become complicated.
g) I want to love him, but reason fights.
Can you get out of the way?
Who can give me a good one.
sa) I want to love him, but the eyes are lying.
It's easier to conceal it.
lest the feelings become complicated.
g) I want to love him, but reason fights.
Can you get out of the way?
Who can give me a good one.
Love, we can't let go.
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It's raining in the sky.
His umbrella. Be by your side.
But I'm not happy.
Because I see. The smile on his face.
It's very reluctant.
I love him so much.
But the eyes are lying.
It's easier to conceal it.
lest feelings become complicated.
I love him so much.
But reason is arguing.
Is it possible to get out of the way?
Who can give me a good one.
If you can't bear it anymore.
If this continues, each of us is a victim.
I love him so much.
But the eyes are lying.
It's easier to conceal it.
lest feelings become complicated.
I love him so much.
But reason is arguing.
Can you get out of the way?
Who can give me a good one.
When love is on the brink of danger.
Whether they will all be scarred.
Will it be miserable?
I love him so much.
But the eyes are lying.
It's easier to conceal it.
lest feelings become complicated.
I love him so much.
But reason is arguing.
Can you get out of the way?
Who can give me a good one.
Love teaches us that we can't let go.
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ti: I love him so much].
al: Eighty pieces around the world].
Twins - I love him.
sa) Sky It's raining.
His umbrella is by your side.
g) But I'm not happy.
Because seeing the smile on his face was very reluctant.
Sa) I love him.
But the eyes are lying.
It's easier to conceal it.
lest the feelings become complicated.
I love him so much, but reason fights.
Can you get out of the way?
Who can give me a good one.
sa) Love is vague.
It's a pity that there is no courage to choose.
If you can't bear it anymore.
And so on. Each and every one of us is a victim.
Sa) I love him.
But the eyes are lying.
It's easier to conceal it.
lest the feelings become complicated.
I love him so much, but reason fights.
Can you get out of the way?
Who can give me a good one.
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