Well, I m confused and don t know what to do。。。。。

Communicate with your parents to let them know your thoughts, express your point of view, if you really don't want to, you can propose to your parents another way out that they can accept, so that they can rest assured, it really doesn't work, they really think about you, only agree, going abroad is not a bad thing, maybe you can also exercise and exercise you.

First of all, I'd like to ask: if you're not going abroad, what are you going to do? Do you have a clear plan for your future?

It can be said that not everyone has the opportunity to go abroad. This is a great opportunity to study abroad not only for knowledge, but also to broaden your horizons.

Actually, if it weren't for the fact that I was involved, I would have had the opportunity to go abroad, and it would be a lie to say that I don't envy those who can go abroad. If I had this opportunity, I would have tried my best to take IELTS. You don't want to go abroad?

How about you give me this opportunity? I think it's a godsend, would you? I don't need you to say that I know you definitely don't want to, this is a good opportunity, if you don't have any good goals, then go abroad to feel it, maybe you can feel something.

I also want to tell you that this society is highly competitive, and it needs to be armed with knowledge all the time, and people who are not good at learning are easily eliminated. I don't know how much you understand this society, or you can work in the society for a while, and it will teach you a lot.

I'm about to step into society, and I now have a strong sense of the importance of knowledge. (Finally: the decision is still to be done by yourself after all, but don't regret it anyway, not everyone has the opportunity to go abroad, and it's not good to miss it).

I used to think that I was a bad reader, but reading also requires enlightenment.

Now you don't like to study, and you can't calm down, naturally it is difficult to pass the exam, coupled with the pressure from your parents, and the tough attitude of your parents, I can understand your feelings.

But what to do? You and your parents, one of the two forces must always retreat, so that the situation can move forward instead of standing still.

First of all, parents will not harm their children, they are for your own good, so even if they force the cow to drink water, you should not be very resistant, think about the problem from their point of view, and your heart will be better.

There is also studying abroad is one aspect, and it is more of a practice of one's ability to live and communicate with others. So life is not just about learning, it's a part, and you need to complete it.

I think what you lack is just a heart that calms down and clarifies your future direction.

Finally, I would like to give you a passage of Mr. Cai Kangyong's words: "At the age of 15, I felt that it was difficult to swim, so I gave up swimming, and at the age of 18, I met someone you liked and asked you to go swimming, and you had to say "I can't". At the age of 18, I felt that English was difficult and gave up English, and at the age of 28, there was a great job that required you to know English, and you had to say "I can't do it". The more troublesome you are in the early stage of life, the more lazy you are to study, and the more likely you are to miss the people and things that make you tempted, and miss the new scenery.

Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society".

I don't know if I can help you, but I want to be happy for a day, and pain for a day, maybe when you settle down and accept it calmly, you won't have such tangled emotions. Escaping doesn't solve the problem, and it's not scary to face it

You and your parents haven't agreed yet, so it's hard for you to get into the groove.

Both parents want their only son to succeed in his studies, but it is difficult for them to consider their only son's interests and hobbies.

People like you should learn a skill in China. In the future, it is easy to find a job or get a high salary.

If you fulfill your parents, you won't be able to learn at all, and you'll have to hold on for a few years.

In a foreign country, everything depends on yourself, and no matter how rich your family is, you have to pay for your loneliness.

Of course, exercising is a good thing, but it's true that you don't have hobbies.

The key is to talk to your parents and talk to them about your true thoughts without annoying them, so that the whole family can agree.

The children in my neighborhood have a similar situation, but I think the parents do it for your good, hope that you will have a good future, and be able to live happily in the future, if you really don't want to do this, you can talk to your parents about it, there is no need to hold it in your heart, otherwise you will definitely not be able to stand it!

You have this awareness and it is already the beginning of success.

The biggest advantage now is youth.

The first thing to learn is to be able to calm down alone.

Then think carefully about what to learn or do, according to your own situation and conditions.

Is it a man? Marry an 80-year-old rich woman and wait for her to die! Hell, it's a girl, oh. Marry me!

You can consider learning a technology at a technical school.

For example, cooking, repairs, and so on.

If you are particularly interested in computers, you can also choose to study computer technology.

Hello, I hope the following information is helpful to you and represents only personal opinions.

Love is not just a theory, but a practical action, from the heart.

Love is selfless, and that's how it is.

It is recommended that you watch flash "Are you willing to sacrifice for him like this"

Be honest, tolerant, understanding, and caring for your lover. It is recommended that you watch flash "Wait a minute", hoping to find out their shortcomings and shortcomings, and may this kind of vulnerability not be reborn on itself. And absorb their merits.

Love needs to be 100% pure, and nothing can be mixed with it, not even one thousandth, one thousandth.

Love involves responsibilities and obligations. If you love someone, don't give him, she makes excessive demands: 1. If your mother falls into the water at the same time as herself, which one to save first, I can only tell you that it is very foolish to ask this question, and my answer is, of course, to save the person closest to me.

2. If I want the beautiful Tianshan Snow Lotus on the cliff, can you help me get it? (There are 3 results: 1. Maybe he will tell you wisely that no matter what any result will be, he doesn't want to hurt you, he just wants to bring you happiness.)

2. Maybe he, she didn't take it and left you.

3. Perhaps, one of them left you forever in order to get that flower, leaving you with pain for the rest of your life, spending it in regret, self-blame, remorse, and sadness.

This is just my speculation, and it is recommended to do less and try not to do things that harm others.

Wouldn't it be great if two people were happy, so why bother that one flower? If it were me, I would never pick that flower, no matter who loses the other person in order to pick that flower, it may bring a lifetime of pain to the other person, why bother. If you love each other deeply, you should give him, she will bring happiness, will not give him, she will bring pain, and use the limited time to take care of, care, and love him as much as possible, her.

So be cautious when doing this kind of thing. If you love someone, you should be happy with him and her! When he, she suffers, you share it with him, with her!

Blessings are shared, and difficulties are shared).

If you're in a relationship, I wish you the three-quarters of your life soon!

If you are married now, I wish you all the same! Happily married!

The meaning expressed in the two verses is the only one.

Since he said that Canghai is you, it means that you are the only one in his heart, and it has not changed from before to now.

This poem was written by Yuan Zhen to his deceased wife, because his wife was the only one in his heart.

Now you should understand what the other person means...

Good luck. o(∩_o...

A man who has experienced the incomparably deep and wide sea can hardly attract him to the water elsewhere; Except for the clouds of Wushan, which are steaming and cloudy, the clouds elsewhere are eclipsed. That's the approximate meaning.

This poem was written by Yuan Zhen to his deceased wife, and he thought that the woman in his mind was the best among the beauties, and no one else could compare to the woman he loved the most. If the two have experienced a lot together, it can be expressed like this, but if they are just ordinary friends, it is not appropriate to describe them like this.

Thinking about the sea was once difficult for water, except for Wushan is not a cloud.

Take the second flower bush lazy review, half of the edge of the cultivation and half of the king.

Once he loved you very much. No one can replace you.

Me too. But I'm waiting for the end to come.

No. The main thing is that you can't see people who share your ideas.

Because people who are single-minded about their feelings are either preempted by others, or deceived by those who do not seek results, or they just hide themselves, in short, it is not easy to find. Get along with too many people, and you will find that in fact, they don't seek results are really simple, so simple that you can find that ** is so easy to do!

Then you will find yourself further away from their group, as if you were separated from the crowd, so that you will be forgotten by the masses, and slowly you will be hidden from yourself ... Hehe.

Everyone has their own view of feelings. There is nothing that does not fit.

You don't have to impose some ideas on yourself and ask for trouble.

First of all, make sure you don't regret your choice!! Secondly, in choosing your hobby!! Although people nowadays will be very busy in society, there will still be a second career!! If you go in the direction of your heart, you can't go wrong!!

Personally, I don't think your hobby can be turned into a career, otherwise the little fun you have will be gone.

Have a stable job and develop interests at the same time. It can not only make you more energetic work, but also allow you to better enjoy your interests.

It's good to have expertise. I remember that "What to Read in College" said that people with specialties to find a job is a "gift**" in the supermarket, and to promote this major by the way to give your expertise, come on!

First of all, we should solve the problem of food and clothing, and then think about other things on this basis.

What should I do when I am very confused? At this time, we may be pursuing the wrong thing, trying the wrong thing in the wrong place. Need to wake up in time.

You are confused because you are not satisfied with your current life, but when you try to change your current life situation, you encounter setbacks, so you lose confidence a little, but you are more unwilling.

In fact, most people are like this now, relatively speaking, your current situation will indeed make some people envious, but you have different requirements from them, so you are confused about what you should do in the future.

Have you ever wondered if you have set a goal and have been working hard according to it, will you have a bit of fighting spirit?

We are all the same, when we have no goal, or the goal is too far away or beyond our reach, we will feel lost, then, we re-examine ourselves, re-find ourselves, re-understand ourselves, put ourselves in a correct position, set a short-term, within the scope of their own goals, from near and far, from easy to difficult, step by step to achieve our ultimate goal, it can also be said that we will finally achieve the goal of a timetable, step by step, Achieve it step by step, so that you will see your achievements little by little, and you will not be confused anymore.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, you have a chance to meet thousands of miles away, but it is difficult to hold hands on the other side, the one that belongs to you will always be waiting for you.

I wish you happiness.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, if she doesn't like you, you can't give up, insist on moving her If you want to give up, there is a way out, and the way out is time, let time dilute everything.

When the interruption continues, it is chaotic.

If it is destined to be fruitless, why hold on?

Give it up.

Landlord, wake up, that woman must know your thoughts, if you are leaving immediately, just use you as a spare tire, landlord, you should hurry up and withdraw now.

Since you can't hold on and you can't give up.

Time will help you solve everything, really, there is no other way but yourself and time.

Hello friend, you said that she fell deeply, so do you feel that you like her? Maybe it's because of her hazy, imminent feeling that you can't hold on, make you very obsessed, and you can't catch it, and inadvertently he will be very good to you and make you very happy. It's this feeling that makes you confused, and you don't know where your path belongs.

You know how many people are familiar with her, how many do you think you can count? You want to persevere, but you can't find a reason to persevere, that's true. Want to give up, but don't know how?

Don't you really know how to give up? It's just that you don't want to give up just like that. Although it is a kind of cruelty to let a heart that sprouts love choose to give up.

But I advise you to give up.