Because of my parents, I chose to drop out of school and broke up with my girlfriend, and you said I

Updated on psychology 2024-07-07
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Do the right thing, being a man has to be responsible and responsible, it is indeed unfair to have a bad family background, and the starting point is lower than others, but to be a man is to hold up your chest at such a time, bravely bear the pressure of life, not to complain but to change with your own efforts, to pay tribute to you and men like you, is a man!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think you can study while working, I don't approve of dropping out, your interruption is the time to learn knowledge, if you give up then you will not be able to make up for it, now such a social education is to knock on the bricks, with it you can complete your dreams, as long as you have the spirit of not being afraid of hardship, then everything will be fine.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't think it's right, you should continue to go up, but study hard, or you'll regret it later

    On the one hand, you can explain the situation: your mother is sick and ask the teacher to give you a chance.

    On the other hand, you can go out and find a job on your own

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can't retreat from learning, you have your own ** house in the book, and you are free in the book. If you don't study, what will you do in society in the future? Continue to study, and use the time spent on the Internet to work to earn money to support yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Wrong! Wrong! Wrong!

    I just didn't read it.

    You! Yes!!! Regret!!!

    You'll be clear when you work.

    It is recommended that you do not do this.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is not good to give up on studying, and you should seek help from teachers and schools.

    You're 18 years old. Adult boys. There's a lot to fight against.

    Maybe you're not used to it right now. Don't dare to face it. To the family, to the society. They are full of doubts about their future.

    May you be strong. Things will turn around. You have to persevere.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If I did, I would do the same.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In the end, there are only two choices, one is to persevere, the other is to give up, the best ending is that you become what your girlfriend thinks you are through your own changes, and then get the favor of her parents, and finally live happily together.

    In fact, you should find the reason from yourself, why your girlfriend's parents don't agree with you being together, your girlfriend is going to break up with you, you fall in love with their daughter and it's not them, I guess it's because your girlfriend is dissatisfied with you, so you take out her parents as an excuse, if you really love her, you can talk to her, it's you who don't do well, you can change, as long as you work hard and do what she asks, there's nothing to find fault with, right? If she still wants to break up with you at that time, it is not your fault, a person who insists on breaking up with you will not see your efforts, even if you do too much, she will not look at it, such a girl is not worth your change at all!

    I have a classmate, his sister and brother-in-law got married this year, said that their relationship is actually twists and turns, his brother-in-law likes his sister very much, but his sister didn't like his brother-in-law so much at that time, so his brother-in-law gave up, and went on a blind date with a girl in his hometown, and the two of them got along well, so they were ready to talk about marriage. Although his brother-in-law can't let go of his sister, who makes his sister dislike himself, just when the two of them are about to get married, the girl and her sister suddenly contacted him again, saying that they want them to be together, in fact, as a bystander, her sister is so sideways to snatch love, it is really despicable, you don't like people to marry others, but the man is good, dumped his fiancée here to find true love, in fact, there is no one right or wrong in love, it is said that her sister and brother-in-law are living happily now, no matter how twists and turns, In the end, it's good that the ending is happy! I'm not saying that you should also find one and get married, if people really want to share it with you, then the twisted melon is not sweet, and you can only choose to give up, right?

    There is really no one right or wrong in the relationship, just by feeling, feeling right for you, even if you go against the will of your parents, you will be with you in principle, it doesn't feel right, you do too much in vain, so don't blindly pursue, it depends on whether your feelings are there?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everything has a reason, your girlfriend's parents must also have their reasons, nothing more than those few, the first may be because of your family background, this point is still easier to solve, you can tell your girlfriend, I don't have money now does not mean that I have no money in the future, the most important thing for a man is not to see if he has money, is to see if he is self-motivated, now those rich second generations who soak in nightclubs and bars every day, drive a good car every day, eat Western food, a meal is tens of thousands, such a man is rich, this kind of flower, A mountain of gold is not enough for him to spend, money can be earned, you can give me a few years, I will prove it to you, or you can directly say these words to your girlfriend's parents may be better, the second if your parents mind your family background, similar to your parents divorce or something, some people may feel that their parents divorce what's wrong, in fact, many parents don't want their children to grow up in a single-parent family. They feel that the other party will be influenced by their parents, or that single-parent families can't be loved by a complete family since childhood, in fact, this is not too much of a problem, after all, it is their daughter who is married to you, and it is your girlfriend who knows you best, if it were not for his parents, it would not have led to this. Children from single-parent families are more independent, and some things are handled more decisively, and there will definitely not be a situation where Ma Bao Nan is.

    Now the society advocates free love, parents should not interfere too much in their children's love, if her parents are because of the hardware conditions I said, you can go and talk to her parents, if her parents are really like on TV, they don't respect you at all, or keep their dignity, after all, you are also raised by your parents, there is no need to compromise for this matter, not to mention that your girlfriend has no opinion at all, her parents said to break up!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, you don't want to give up, it seems that you have deep feelings for your girlfriend, and your girlfriend, respecting the opinions of her parents, it can be seen that she is very filial, but she gave up your feelings too easily, did not make any efforts, and tried to make her parents accept you, I don't know what she thinks in her heart. Is the relationship not deep enough? Is it a weak character that can't afford setbacks?

    Or is it too much pressure from parents?

    Has she talked to you about what your parents say about you, and what your parents' requirements are, at least then you also have a goal and a direction to work towards, for your future, with your sincere dedication and sincere dedication to strive for.

    Of course, the joint efforts of two people can touch the hearts of parents even more. They all want their daughters to have a good life, if your daughter really belongs to her, and you can treat her sincerely, and at the same time respect and honor them, one day they will open their hearts and accept you. It's just that now your girlfriend has taken a step back, then you have one more obstacle, originally the two of them worked together to move their parents with action, now you have to win back your girlfriend's heart first, and then face her parents together.

    We will encounter many difficulties in life, and what we should do is to find a way to solve them, not to retreat.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    She will show that she is very filial, but also shows that she does not love you enough, if you are really reluctant to start from his parents, where dissatisfaction is elsewhere to make them satisfied, improve their good impression in their hearts, improve their own external conditions, parents to choose a husband for their children The proportion of economic conditions is very high.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Oh, if your girlfriend still loves you and continues to work hard, then if you just obey your parents' obedience and don't have any opinions, then forget it It still depends on whether your relationship can stand the test of your parents Come on.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hehe! What a joke! You can ask your ex-girlfriend; Whether she will live with her parents for a lifetime or with her husband in the future, happiness is in her own hands, which can only show that she doesn't love you deeply, or she doesn't understand love!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let's put it this way, if you want to get married in the future, it's a matter of two families, do you have the ability to bear it? Persist if you have it, give up if you don't!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Friend, if you really like her and you really don't want to lose her, then go for her, provided of course that she loves you as much as you love her. If you are sure that if you want to save this relationship, you have to overcome the parents, since her parents have a bad impression of you, then you have to find out why her parents have a bad impression of you, and then you can say that you have improved. Today's parents are so realistic, they all want their daughters to have a good home, if you don't have a sufficient material foundation, there is really little hope, the so-called love supremacy will also fade when soaked in firewood, rice, oil and salt, so brother, you can grasp it yourself, ask your heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm in the same situation as you, and I don't know if I should keep it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Find your girlfriend's best friend and let them persuade your girlfriend Maybe it will be useful, my mom said.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There are many different views and cultural backgrounds on the question of whether parental consent is required for marriage. In some cultures, it is crucial to respect parents' opinions and decisions, and their consent is seen as part of a successful marriage. In other cultures, however, the individual's autonomy and freedom of choice are more emphasized.

    In my opinion, while it is very important to respect and consider the opinions of the parents, marriage is a personal decision that should ultimately be decided by the spouses according to their own wishes and choices. Marriage is a partnership that is a major decision for personal happiness and life. Although the support and blessings of parents are very helpful to the stability and happiness of the marriage, fundamentally, the decision should be in the hands of those who are directly involved in the marriage.

    However, communication and consultation with parents is a very important step when considering marriage. A parent's experience and opinion can be valuable, and they may also have advice on how to measure or understand their partner. When discussing with parents, it is okay to be honest about your thoughts and decisions and try to seek their understanding and acceptance.

    If you encounter contradictions and disagreements, you can try to communicate and explain further and seek a common solution.

    We should also be aware that the role of the family in marriage decisions may vary in different cultures and contexts. In some cultures, traditional family values, respect and dependence on parents are more influential; In other cultures, there is a greater emphasis on individual autonomy and free choice. Therefore, in marriage decisions, we need to find a way that suits us by balancing respect for family values and personal pursuits.

    Above all, whether we seek parental consent or whether they give blessings and support, our own well-being and power to decide should be crucial. Marriage is a major decision in life, and each individual has the right to pursue his or her ideal marital relationship. While respecting the opinions of our families, we should also adhere to our own values and pursuit of happiness, and ultimately make decisions that are in line with our own wishes and interests.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You are an adult and should have your own opinions, you should not follow your parents' arrangements and not break up with your girlfriend.

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