Why do I care so much about my friends and why are friends important?

Actually, friends are important to everyone, and it's not a bad thing that you're in a friend, however, you forget that you should trust your friends. It doesn't matter what he means, whether he is good or evil to you, for yourself, if it is a friend you like very much, you should believe him. I don't know if I'm right, but I think that the most taboo thing for a person in social interaction is to lose oneself in front of one's friends.

What you have to do is not how accommodating he is, how much to be attached to him, you have to be yourself in front of your friends, let your friends know what kind of person you are, you know, the so-called offending people, everyone's standards are different, maybe for a person, killing people and setting fire is considered to offend people, but maybe for another person, a minute late text message is called offending people, what I want to tell you is not that you may have offended him or you may not know, what I want to tell you is that since everyone's standards are different, So, why should you give in? It's good to care about a person, but caring about a person doesn't mean losing yourself, even if you care about a person very, very much, in your mind, in your consciousness, you have to be sober, know what you should do, how you should tell him what I want to tell him, you should find a way to know his character, find a way to let him know your character, find a way to understand him, help him when he is in trouble, however, you must remember that if you lose yourself in dating, then, You'll never make a truly good friend. I don't know what I'm saying, do you understand?

You should be righteous and natural.

I used to be like that, but I wasn't just a good friend, I cared about the feelings of everyone around me.

A word from a roommate will make me think a lot, a good friend's cold reply will make me think a lot, and even if other people have conflicts, I will think about how to solve them.

Therefore, many people's evaluation of me is that I am delicate and sensitive, which may have caused trouble for others for a while.

At present, my own problems have not been solved, I want to record it, and also share my experience with you, every time I encounter a problem, I will go to Zhihu, find some of everyone's, and find that I am not alone, it turns out that there are also people who are experiencing such a feeling of trouble, and occasionally if you are lucky, you can also find a sharing that comforts the soul.

So if you read this, I hope it can bring you some comfort as well.

I don't have many friends, there are only a few friends, I used to be a very simple person, I often feel that I am very happy and lucky, but I also have a little secondary two, I remember that I liked a sentence very much, if there is no difference between what you give me and what you give to others, then I don't want it. Haha, isn't that stupid.

Later, what changed me and tortured me the most was my current best friend, we were college roommates, and we shared a house together after graduation, and the relationship was really good when it was good, but she was a person who didn't care about others very much, and I was so sensitive, so when she was cold and in a bad mood, I was very miserable, I didn't eat well, I didn't sleep well, and she still had a lot of fun alone, and the biggest contradiction between us was that she often went hot and cold, and she didn't talk or care about people when she was unhappy, Every time, I write a small essay and reconcile, why is it so humble? Probably because her coldness and detachment have always been the character I wanted. But because of her torture, I don't care about other friends, and now I only care about her alone, crying countless nights and wanting to give up, but when she turns around and comes to me, I can't help but be nice to her.

It's really ridiculous, if you put your insistence on her somewhere else, you will definitely gain a lot.

If you care too much, it means that you are serious about your feelings, which is understandable. But it's easy to make the other party have difficulty breathing, and to put it bluntly, you feel nervous, so it's better to learn to get along correctly.

If you care about someone, of course, you care very, very much about them, and then it's normal.

A friend is someone who accompanies you when you're lonely and lonely, someone who can drink with you

Real friends get along with each other, no need to deliberately disguise, no fear of losing face, no need to please politeness, use their most comfortable way, they can be more relaxed with each other. You don't have to wear a mask, wrap yourself in a shell, and display the beautiful scenery in front of people, which is the most comfortable state for a person. And real friends get along with each other, and they know each other clearly enough, and they don't need to pretend.

1. Friends will make us happy, the use of making friends is that it will make us feel happy, before making friends, we will also feel happy, but after making friends, we will have more happiness, and this more happiness is what friends bring to us.

2. Friends will make us not lonely, before we don't make friends, in our leisure time, we will have times when we feel lonely, but when we make friends, we will not live as lonely as before, make friends, let us feel that we will not be lonely.

3. Friends will help us resolve difficulties, although making friends is not to help us resolve difficulties, but when we are in difficulty, friends will selflessly stand up to help us, will selflessly stand up to help us resolve difficulties, make friends, will make us feel very warm.

Summary. Hello dear, I've seen your question here. I probably see what you mean, and here are my analysis and suggestions regarding the questions you raised.

For reference only, I care about friends very much refers to a person who regards friendship as particularly important, and he puts the things of his friends in the first place, and it is possible that in many things, if he chooses 1 of 2 between a couple and a friend, he may choose a friend, because there is a person who puts his friend in the first place, and such a person we usually say that he cares about his friend very much. Hope mine can help you

Hello dear, I've seen your question here. I probably see what you mean, and here are my analysis and suggestions regarding the questions you raised. For reference only, I care about friends very much refers to a person who regards friendship as particularly important, and he puts the things of his friends in the first place, and it is possible that in many things, if he chooses 1 of 2 between a couple and a friend, he may choose a friend, because there is a person who puts his friend in the first place, and such a person we usually say that he cares about his friend very much.

Hope mine can help you

What can I do to fix this?

I don't think it's something that needs to be corrected, because it's not a bad thing, and it doesn't affect your normal life, if you feel that it's affecting your life, then you can find a way to divert your attention, or try to say it to your friend a few times, and if you don't say no a few times, you may slowly stop putting your friend in the first place.

Thank you, teacher.