What are the lessons of the family style and family motto of the ancient family?

China has been a country of etiquette since ancient times, and the education from childhood is from being a person. In the past, it was divided into the Han and the Shi. Ordinary families go to school and study in private schools, but big families are different, they have their own ethnology and have their own characteristics. <>

In ancient China, under the environment of feudal monarchy, the families in various places were more intertwined, and they were all related to each other.

To build ethnology, first of all, the ancient family style and family motto can make the clan more harmonious. used to be a big family, and they were all three wives and four concubines, with many children, and there were many bloodlines left in such a scattered situation.

This is the same as the ancient feudal system, the population of your family is increasing, but the resources you have are still only such a part, so there will be a division between the descendants and the concubines, and some of the bloodlines are far away. <>

Then there were some changes in the family, and the education of their children was not satisfied, which reflected the importance of ethnology, in which the children of the clan agreed to be able to study in it, and the group leader had special care for the excellent achievers, which could also help to create a harmonious atmosphere within the whole clan.

Neighbors, in many big families have an ancestral motto, requiring the family not to be arrogant, modest and low-key to be able to live in harmony with Lingli, and now there are a lot of bad relationships in the collar, and some have caused serious losses.

Today's Six Feet Lane is the best example, so why not let him be three feet, this is a kind of bearing, and at the same time, it is also conducive to the coordination of the strong relationship.

On my own family's genealogy, there is a long section dedicated to the family motto, requiring the descendants of the Zhao family to unite their neighbors and honor their parents.

What is left over from ancient times is not fruitful, and we must be good at discovering and learning.

Family style refers to the traditional customs of a family, which is composed of the family's lifestyle and cultural atmosphere through the influence of the times. The family motto is the code that regulates the code of conduct of this family member, and it is handed down from the family era to form the family law. And I don't know if you have noticed that family style is more like a person's connotation and temperament, and family motto is the root bone of a person's walking, so it can be seen the importance of both, although there are few family customs and family motto inheritance in modern China, but I believe that we can also learn one or two from ancient times, I will briefly give a few examples.

A porridge and a meal, when thinking about where to come from, it is not easy; Half a thread and half a thread, the constant thought of material resources is difficult. This sentence makes us cherish the importance of food and life, a bowl of porridge, a bowl of rice, are not easy to come by, half a thread, half a thread is also very difficult to take. Isn't this just how we can develop good habits from an early age?

Don't waste things at will, and don't forget your roots. <>

It is difficult for every family to recite the scriptures, but only happiness can make sense. Everyone has heard this sentence, and it is easier to understand, every family has endless difficulties, and as long as you have a good attitude, you can solve everything. It can be seen how important it is to have a good attitude, no matter what you are facing, you should have a good attitude, so that you can solve all difficulties.

This is true not only in ancient times, but even more so in modern times.

Don't look at others with your own strengths, don't ask for preparation, even if you are humble, you have to do your best. This sentence is to say that we should not look at others with our own ability, status and knowledge, and should not ask too much of others, everyone should do their best and be available to everyone. Yes, we are even more so, every position has a meaning of existence, every position is great, sweeping the cleaning workers, the police who maintain the safety of the city, the construction workers on the construction site.

Every profession is indispensable, ordinary and great.

Although these family mottos are simple but simple and profound, I hope we can all read and think more intensively.

In ancient times, there were many family customs and family mottos, and in modern times they are some common sayings or idioms, and they are very worthy of our reference.

1. Eat without saying anything.

First of all, I can't talk about food, and I can't talk when I eat in ancient times, maybe because of etiquette issues, but in modern times, there is a scientific basis. First, eating and talking can cause food to get stuck in the trachea. Because the trachea is closed by valves when we eat, so that food does not enter the trachea.

If we talk while eating, the trachea will open. Therefore, many people are prone to choking while talking while eating. Secondly, it is easy to mix air and food into the stomach when talking during eating, so it is easy for the stomach to distend, so that it cannot hold other food.

Finally, talking while eating can easily lead to insufficient chewing of food, and large pieces of food go directly to the stomach, which may lead to stomach problems in the long run.

Let's talk about sleeplessness, which is easy for us to understand. We definitely need a quiet environment when we sleep, and it will definitely be difficult to fall asleep if we talk while we sleep.

Second, Meng's mother moved three times.

We are familiar with the story of Meng's mother's three moves, Meng's mother moved three times in order to have a good living and learning environment for her children, and finally moved to a home suitable for Mencius. If it weren't for Mengzi's mother's tireless move, it is estimated that Mencius would not be used as a literary master. Indeed, after the verification of many experts, a person's living environment has a very big impact on a person.

If a person lives in a violent environment for a long time, it is estimated that the person will also become violent. On the other hand, if a person lives in a peaceful environment, he or she will not become violent.

Therefore, the ancient family motto is also a very good reference for us.

Family style has a very important role in a family, very important, very important, very important. Ordinary families can learn from the family style of previous celebrities.

The family rules and family mottos that are widely spread in China's traditional culture are:

1. Confucius: If you don't learn poetry, you can't speak, and if you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand.

2. Yang Zhen: God knows what I know, what is ignorance?

3, Wen Xi Pei's: Virtue and blessing, leniency and Nengning.

4. Zhuge Village: Non-indifferent and unambitious, non-tranquil and far-reaching.

5. Wang Xizhi: The deacon has a good reputation, and the merit is a lot.

6. Hakka family motto: There is no gold in the official, and there is no waste of gold at home.

7, Tao Yuanming: Do not be related to the poor, do not learn from the rich.

8. Yan Zhitui: Living with good people, such as the room of Zhilan.

9. Qian Hao: The benefit is not to seek it, and the benefit is to seek it in the world.

10, Fan Zhongyan: The worries of the world first, and the joy of the world after the world.

11, Bao Zheng: Pure heart is the root cause, and the straight road is the strategy.

12, Sima Guang: From thrift to luxury, from luxury to thrift.

13, Zhang Zai: For the sake of the saints, for the sake of the saints, for the eternal peace.

14, Su Dongpo: With the spirit of moving forward, do righteous words.

15, Huang Tingjian: Thousands of books can be taught to children, and the legacy is full of money.

As the saying goes, "A man must have a home, and a family must have discipline." "Open the genealogy of each surname and read it, and you will have the "Family Motto" in your eyes.

Family motto refers to the admonition and teaching of the ancestors of the family to the descendants. It is an important component of surname culture and a gorgeous treasure of Chinese culture. Family motto is related to family morality and involves all aspects of people.

The importance of family motto is self-evident, and it has a very clear purpose and great significance in the following aspects, which is worth digging into, studying and inheriting.

The first is to forge a bright and majestic moral personality. The ancients and the present people put "morality" in the first place, such as "only virtue and merit, can serve others", "both ability and political integrity", "all-round development of morality, intellect and body", etc., and the main content of virtue is loyalty and filial piety. Be filial at home and be loyal to the country.

Filial piety requires children to respect their elders, give back their affection, and be extremely generous to their labor. Loyalty, requires to do one's best for the official, work responsibly, be honest and honest, and be honest, "Don't take the good as a small thing, don't do it with the evil." "It is necessary to achieve a high degree of moral self-awareness.

It doesn't matter if you are poor, if you are poor, you will think about change, and there is a way to get rich; Lack of virtue is hated by others, unrighteous and helpless, and despised by others, so it is very important to be virtuous first.

The second is to attach importance to the correct and positive method of teaching children. Simply providing material wealth to children will make them lose their sense of self-struggle and lose their ability to start their own businesses. Especially nowadays, there are not many children, living conditions are better, and social goods are abundant, so we should take precautions.

Therefore, it is a priceless treasure for wise parents to leave good moral cultivation and personality to their children and grandchildren, and to leave the breeze to future generations.

Third, it is necessary to cultivate ideals and be indifferent. Aspiration is only the first step to career success, if you don't have ambition from a young age, you may not be able to do anything when you grow up. Because meritorious service and fame and wealth are often mixed together, and the desire for wealth and nobility is often easy to cause people's misfortune, therefore, indifference and tranquility, self-cleanliness, and contentment have become a positive and enterprising spice.

Confucianism and Taoism complement each other, showing an ingenious way of dealing with the world.

Fourth, it is necessary to pay attention to the purpose and method of studying and studying. The ancients had many insights about how to read. For example, "on paper, you will eventually feel shallow, and you will never know that you have to do it."

Book knowledge is important, but how to put the knowledge learned into practice and turn the knowledge into the art of life is what should be pursued. In reading, we should choose the good and follow it, and do not be fooled by the bad.

Fifth, you should properly grasp the way to make friends and receive things. Making friends is a profound knowledge, making friends, we must be cautious, distinguish between bad friends and good friends; We must see the wise and think together, and be generous to others; We must learn from others' strengths and make up for our own shortcomings; Forgive others with a heart of forgiveness, and blame oneself with a heart of blame. These should be the foundation of dealing with others.

The family is the cell of society, and the family style is good, the society is harmonious, and the country is prosperous. The family style needs to be standardized and promoted by family rules and family mottos, and it should be integrated into the paving of the country's rule of law society.

Family motto is a treasure of traditional Chinese culture. With the development of society and the prosperity of the family, we must also judge the situation, keep pace with the times, and constantly improve and enrich it, so that these immortal cultural treasures that have been passed down for thousands of years will bloom with more brilliant brilliance!

Here's mine, I hope it can help you.

Home is a place to return and reunite all year round; Home is also a place to plan for the future in the new year. Therefore, here and now is an important carrier and an excellent opportunity to carry forward the good family style and inherit the good family motto. A good family style and family motto is the cornerstone of everyone's self-cultivation and life.

Although each family has different ways of celebrating the New Year and different family customs and family mottos, the connotation of each family's family style is based on the common culture as the gene, and the excellent traditional culture subtly affects people's value orientation.

The descendants rely on the connotation of family style and family education, the extension of family training and family learning, and the inheritance of family style and family learning, which has been passed down from generation to generation, and has always been a precious spiritual wealth in the history of Chinese culture. Let's walk into the Changshu Family Style Culture Palace together to explore the exemplary role of family style and the universal and far-reaching educational value. Promote the traditional family style of Changshu, carry forward the essence of traditional culture, and popularize the content of Changshu Wu culture.

Discuss family education, talk about family affairs, establish family mottos, promote family style, and pass on family gifts, and contribute to the realization of the "Chinese dream" of the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation.

The exhibition takes family style as the core, family motto and family letter as the carrier, and shows the touching deeds of the Chinese classic family motto, the red family style of the older generation of proletarian revolutionaries and the contemporary outstanding Communist Party members, as well as the civilized demeanor of contemporary ordinary families.

In order to carry forward the excellent traditional culture, practice the core values of socialism, spread the positive energy of upward and good, and inherit the good family style and good family motto, the Eighth Provincial Institute of Geology and Mineral Exploration carried out the activity of "showing family style and family training".

Households have family training cards, villages have family education halls, and towns have family style cultural parks. Cheqiao Town, De'an County, invested more than 200 yuan to build a family style culture theme park next to National Highway 316, with excellent traditional culture corridor, family rules and family law allusion corridor, family style heirloom family discipline and family rules and aphorisms corridor, cultural etiquette from me to start the corridor, honest and honest corridor, socialist core values corridor, etc.

The family rules and family mottos that are widely spread in China's traditional culture are:

1. Confucius: If you don't learn poetry, you can't speak, and if you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand.

2. Yang Zhen: God knows what I know, what is ignorance?

3, Wen Xi Pei's: Virtue and blessing, leniency and Nengning.

4. Zhuge Village: Non-indifferent and unambitious, non-tranquil and far-reaching.

5. Wang Xizhi: The deacon has a good reputation, and the merit is a lot.

6. Hakka family motto: There is no gold in the official, and there is no waste of gold at home.

7, Tao Yuanming: Do not be related to the poor, do not learn from the rich.

8. Yan Zhitui: Living with good people, such as the room of Zhilan.

9. Qian Hao: The benefit is not to seek it, and the benefit is to seek it in the world.

10, Fan Zhongyan: The worries of the world first, and the joy of the world after the world.

11, Bao Zheng: Pure heart is the root cause, and the straight road is the strategy.

12, Sima Guang: From thrift to luxury, from luxury to thrift.

13, Zhang Zai: For the sake of the saints, for the sake of the saints, for the eternal peace.

14, Su Dongpo: With the spirit of moving forward, do righteous words.

15, Huang Tingjian: Thousands of books can be taught to children, and the legacy is full of money.