I love and love mine , who should be chosen in my heart?

Before <>, I will choose what I love, because I have not lost the ability to move, I am still a girl, I am still young, I have a lot of youth and time, I can do a lot of things, I am full of endless imagination for the future. I think the future life is very beautiful, I don't want others to break my vision, I will do everything I can to live, live my own way, I want to live beautifully. I know I'm not very good, but I can still choose to love someone, to give for him, no matter how hard I try, I want to try my best to love him and give him the best of everything.

Even though he's not the best and the best, I just like him, and I don't know what's good about him, maybe he gives me the feeling I want, no matter what, I want to stay with him and live with him.

But now I'm tired, I want to choose someone who loves me, in his eyes, you are the pearl of his palm, he doesn't want you to have any negative emotions, even if you have, he will try his best to help you solve these problems, you are his world, you are his center, he revolves around you every day, gives you everything you want, takes you to travel, to buy clothes, to eat food. He wants to bring you the best of him, and you are one of those people who are especially important in his heart! You are his little public act, and you don't need to worry about whether he will run away, he always loves you, and he will stick to it to the end.

Maybe choosing what you love will be particularly tormenting, experiencing heartache and tears, but if there is a good result, it will be particularly happy.

Maybe choose to love you, you don't need to worry about anything happening, he will help you solve everything, he is the umbrella. Maybe it's going to be very relaxing!

Before going through so many things, I believe everyone has a lot of illusions about love, find someone they love, walk with him, chat, learn to cook for him, watch movies with him, have a cup of tea in the afternoon, and even look at each other quietly. That's probably the best thing to look at.

You may even think, I don't want a car, I don't want a house, I just want us in a small but warm house, you cook, I make soup, you read, I sleep.

You will also feel that you can do everything for one person. Do you think that there is love in your heart, full of tenderness, how can you worry that there is nowhere to put it.

However, if this is really the case, no one will be moved to cry by Aunt Qiong Yao's story, and there will be no people who will resonate with the soap opera.

Slowly, you will find that life is not so simple, and everyone's life is no less than a bloody drama.

You are tired of love, it's not that you don't love anymore, it's just that you've been defeated by life, and you want to find a warm embrace to lean on, instead of being happy and sad and not following yourself. So you see the person who has been silently guarding behind you, and you think, that's it.

Or, the person you love doesn't love you, and you're tired of love, and you want to try what it's like to be loved.

But in fact, whether you choose what you love or choose to love you, it is unfair, if you choose to love you, he gave so much in the end, that is, he came together with you, your heart is not there, and it delays others. If you choose what you love, but he doesn't love you, then your love becomes a burden, and the better you treat him, the more guilty he feels.

So everyone is inevitably secular, so Romeo and Juliet, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai have become a good story for the ages.

In fact, this is not a simple choice to be chosen relationship, this is a question of whether you believe in each other, if you believe that two people can still love each other, you still believe in love, you don't have to hesitate, you can be brave to chase. Who can guarantee that if you work hard, you won't be able to catch up? If you really can't get together, it means that you haven't met yet, then if you are willing to wait, you will definitely be able to meet you in the future, and he loves you.

If you are tired and no longer believe in love, when you look back and find that the people who have been with you all the time, you will find that what you are chasing in front of you is nothingness, and this one by your side is your final destination, so you will still marry love in the end.

Therefore, how can you be so pessimistic, you still have to believe in love, love bravely, and hope that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married.

Don't ask yourself which one to choose, you dare to guarantee that your destiny will not appear in the next second, you have to believe that you are a lucky person who will come together with love, who prescribes, the person you love can't love you.

Whoever loves me, I will love whomever I love" usually refers to people's attitudes and behaviors in romantic relationships, that is, as long as the other person has a good impression and love for them, they will respond to each other's feelings and establish a romantic relationship with each other.

This view of emotions may bring some benefits in some cases, such as:

1.Boosts self-confidence: If someone likes themselves, it will make them feel valued and affirmed, which will boost their self-confidence and self-esteem.

2.Increase engagement: If the other person expresses love and responds to it, it will increase the engagement of the relationship, and both parties will be more engaged and serious.

3.Reduce the difficulty of choice: If you do not have a clear attitude of liking or disliking the person you are in love with, the other person's confession will make it less difficult for you to choose, and you can make it easier to decide whether to enter a relationship.

However, there are also some deficiencies and problems with the emotional concept of "whoever loves me, I will love whomever I love":

1.Lack of true love: If you don't really like the other person, but only respond because the other person likes you, the relationship may not be strong and healthy, and may even cause hurt and pain to both parties.

2.Ignoring your feelings: If you don't have a crush or dislike for your romantic partner, but you respond because of the other person's affection, you may ignore your feelings and needs, and you will end up being bad for yourself and the other person.

3.Lack of serious consideration: If you build a relationship only because the other person has a good impression of you, you may ignore the other person's personality, values, hobbies, etc., which will eventually affect the relationship and happiness of both parties.

Therefore, the emotional view of "whoever loves me, I will love whom" needs to be considered and judged in the actual situation. If you also have a good impression of your romantic partner, and your values, interests, and hobbies are compatible, then responding to the other person's love may be a good choice. But if you respond simply because the other person likes you, then you should seriously consider your own feelings and needs to avoid causing harm and pain to yourself and the other person.

Whoever loves me, I will love whomever I love" is usually considered to be a relatively simple, selfish and unprincipled view of love. The disadvantages of this view of love are:

Lack of selection criteria: This view of love does not have clear selection criteria, just passively waiting for the love of others, easily swayed by appearance, emotion or other superficial factors, and lacks real choices and judgments.

No self-positioning: This kind of love concept lacks self-positioning and self-awareness, and it is easy to passively accept the opinions and opinions of others, and lack the ability to think and judge independently.

Higher risk: This view of love can easily lead to emotional instability and fluctuations, because emotions are not based on deep understanding and true mutual understanding, but on superficial attraction and emotional needs.

Therefore, we should maintain a certain degree of vigilance and rationality for the emotional view of "whoever loves me, I will love whom". In the process of love, more attention should be paid to the degree of matching of internal qualities, values and goals, rather than just external manifestations and emotional needs. At the same time, it is also necessary to have self-orientation and self-awareness, and to continue to learn and grow in order to build a healthy, stable and long-term romantic relationship.

Whoever loves me, I will love whomever I love" can be said to be a more selfish and shallow emotional view. Because the essence of this emotional outlook is to only focus on whether you are loved or not, and ignore the understanding of the other person and the depth and authenticity of feelings. Such a relationship can easily arise when the interests or conditions are relatively different, and it is likely that they choose to love each other out of selfish interests or needs.

On the contrary, true love should be based on mutual understanding, trust, and respect. Love needs to be deeply thought about and the precipitation of feelings, rather than rashly choosing to love someone. Considering only one's own feelings and needs in love, without taking into account the feelings and needs of the other person, is not only easy to lead to the transience and superficiality of feelings, but also more likely to bring harm and pain.

Therefore, we need to establish a healthy and mature emotional outlook, be able to maintain inner balance and self-reform self-worth, so as to pursue the true meaning of love.