I m so lonely, I don t have friends, I don t have a boyfriend, what should I do?

If you look at people accurately, you can find a few good friends among your classmates and colleagues. As long as you have a good character, you can be friends even if you don't have a common hobby; And if you have a bad character, even if you have common hobbies, you'd better not get close.

Don't forget that when you find a friend, morality comes first.

Of course, if you can't see people accurately and can't see the moral character of others, you can ask your parents to see.

You're right, loved ones are supposed to be best friends by nature. It's good that you know this, don't worry, there are always friends worth making among the people around you.

In life, family, love, friendship, the lack of one of the three, I regret it; The lack of two of the three is really pitiful; All three are missing, living and dying.

I don't dare to make friends because I'm afraid of getting hurt, or the reality of society is too cruel.

You just want to have family affection is enough, but what would life be like without love and friendship?

A bold attempt is your first step in life.

Worrying is necessary, but you seem to be wasting your time by doing so.

Friendships are made, but if they are not established, how can they be obtained?

Treat others with sincerity, but also learn to see through others, it is inevitable that there will be some setbacks in the early days of dating, this is your first experience of making friends.

Whether you succeed or fail, it's worth a try.

Be mindful of the friends around you. When you put your heart into them, you will have friends. As for boyfriends. It's up to you.

I see you're idle!

Do what is in front of you! Live your life to the fullest.

Your thoughts will be solved.

Enjoy the solitude under certain circumstances, and it will be fine.

Me too, I need to find a girlfriend too. Now there's that chance...But he can't speak. I'm scared to death...I've asked questions, and a lot of people have said...That girl likes me.

But I don't know what to do myself...So depressed!

One person can be just as wonderful. Just like me. But I'm a man.

Chat with others to relieve boredom.

**Interview.

Take the initiative to release kindness, say hello to classmates, and talk about some idol things, which is easy to resonate! You can also take the initiative to ask your classmates for homework, and the relationship with each other will be closer.

Yes, life without friends is sad. If you want to change the status quo, you must learn to have more contact with people, talk more, learn from people's strengths, and make up for your shortcomings. Step by step, you can hope to have your own friends.

Hello, change yourself, find the reason on yourself, and make friends. Treat each other with sincerity, be enthusiastic and kind, you will attract a lot of people around you, I wish you a lot of friends as soon as possible.

Hope to be adopted.

Didn't this person read and copy books? Did he grow up in a one-man world? Otherwise, how can you have no friends and classmates? To be able to get into such a situation, it can only be said that it is self-inflicted, if you are afraid of loneliness, you should not let yourself fall into such a field.

When a person lives in society, he should always have his own circle of activities, that is, he also has some classmates and friends with whom he interacts. If not, it can only be said that there is a big problem with one's own virtue, and it is not possible to integrate with other groups of people and get along with others, is it someone else's fault?

In short, a person must first consider the consequences and bear the consequences in everything he does; As the saying goes: "Heaven is forgivable, but you can't live for your own evil", since you feel the horror of loneliness, you should change your virtues, so that people can accept you and get along with you, do you want others to change to accommodate you? If you can't hold on, you can only strive to change your attitude towards others and overcome your shortcomings and shortcomings; There is no other way.

If not, there will be only one way to continue the "exclusive village".

Once a person loses interest, he will be withdrawn. It's like otaku and otaku, they don't think there's anything fun outside, so they stay at home, but they don't feel lonely.

A person must always have some interests, and through these interests will pave a bridge for your friendship.

You should have had friends before, but your taciturn makes people feel bored talking to you, and then they gradually alienate you.

It's the same as like-minded people.,Talk to you.,I'll get in touch with you more.。。 After more contact, they will become friends.

The reason for loneliness is because I am not sunny enough and not cheerful enough. It is you yourself who bring loneliness to yourself, and naturally you have to drive them away on your own.

The night is dark. Black is the spokesperson for loneliness. The fall of night always makes people feel that the world seems to be the only one left, very scared, very helpless, feel that they have no sustenance, no faith, even if they originally have those honors, but those honors can't help you at all, and it makes people feel your desolation.

All you have to do is communicate, that is, go out with friends more, The landlord's method is very vulgar, but if it works for you, what about vulgarity, vulgarity can make you happy, no matter how vulgar it is, it's okay.

So if you change, then your change will make you feel that your previous self was so stupid. I want you to experience an unexpected life after the change.

Then bless you.

Hope it solves your problem.

Be honest and honest, and they will be good to you if you are good

Put your mind at ease, be generous in your dealings with people, don't be careful, be more dedicated, less consciousness, and slowly there will be more friends, and you won't feel lonely. Take the initiative to associate with others and overcome low self-esteem and pride.

1. Loneliness is not because you don't have friends.

People who don't have friends don't have to be lonely, and people who have a lot of friends don't necessarily feel lonely, so netizens feel lonely, don't think it's the reason why you don't have friends, calm down and think about it, why do you feel lonely? A person who is mature enough in his heart, even if there is only one person, will enjoy himself.

2. Don't be too your true friends.

As the old saying goes: It is enough to have a confidant in life, how can there be such a good confidant and friend? For friends, hold a normal heart, and never make friends for the sake of making friends.

Not to mention other general friends who are not real friends, no matter how many such friends are made personally, it doesn't make much sense.

3. Forget the past and face the future with a normal heart.

No matter what your family used to do to you, no matter what other things you did before, no matter how bad you were in dealing with your friends in the past, no matter how ,...... you were in dealing with your friendsThat's all in the past, don't worry about the past, the important thing now is to face the current life, you don't have any problems, and you don't need to change anything, you just need to stop seeing the interaction with others as so important, see so entangled, with a normal, natural heart to show your sincerity to the people around you, I believe you will meet the blessings of people who are willing to make friends with you!

Actually, I think being impressed is a good starting point, and it's not easy to forget. Then you have to relax, open your heart, take the initiative yourself, don't always wait for others to contact you first, smile more, and try to give others a cheerful and sunny impression. If you give others the impression that it is difficult to approach, it will naturally not be easy to touch.

Aura is important.

There is a book called "Secret" that says that if you really want to find friends, then communicate with others from the heart, which is a wonderful attraction, and slowly others will become friends with you. Thank you.

I'm actually in a similar situation to you, and my friends rarely keep in touch after graduation, and even if they get together occasionally, they don't say a word. Later, I slowly became one who couldn't speak.,When you see people, you just have to hide back.,I don't want to say a word in the company this morning.,Maybe it's the character that determines the fate.,There are many things in a person's life that can't be done by themselves.。 The day before yesterday, a good friend of the company left his job and felt empty.

It's better to communicate with people more.

When you grow up, you should learn more to be independent.

Participate in more local activities, such as badminton, yoga, participate in public welfare activities, etc.

I don't care, yes or no, no.

Open your heart and welcome a beautiful tomorrow.

First of all, you have to "belong" to your friends, and then your friends can "belong" to you.

Try to be cheerful yourself == It's not bad to play games too.

Communicate more with people Friends need to contact more and talk more When you make friends with others, people will treat you as a friend.