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Facing difficulties and setbacks.
Setbacks are also the dregs of life's wealth, and almost everyone expects smooth sailing. Many people say: On the way forward, even if there is no song and swallow dance, no blooming flowers, it is best that there is no wind and rain, no setbacks.
Actually, it's impossible. I'm not thinking about this topic here, though. I would like to talk about my own views on setbacks.
I realized more and more deeply that setbacks are also an asset in life. A life without setbacks is overshadowed in a sense.
Saying that "setbacks are the wealth of life", the main point is that setbacks make us smarter, stronger, more mature, and more perfect. Of course, this requires us to withstand setbacks in the first place. As the saying goes:
Suffer a loss, grow a wisdom". This is an absolutely "old man's words", an absolutely reasonable philosophical saying. For example, a child was accidentally bitten by a dog, and it hurt and cried.
For the child, this is a setback. After this setback, the child knows that dogs can bite, and he must be wary of dogs. The next time, he will find a way to avoid being bitten by a dog.
Wouldn't that make it a little smarter? However, in real life, I just noticed that people who have been bitten by dogs have been bitten by dogs again! How can this be understood?
I analyze it and think that the key lies in people's attitude towards frustration. Similarly, to avoid being bitten by dogs, some people take the method of yelling and screaming when they see a dog, pulling their legs and running away, which backfires and fuels the arrogance of dogs, and it is inevitable to be bitten by dogs again; When someone saw the dog coming, he just bent down and pretended to pick up a brick from the ground, and the dog immediately slipped away with his tail between his legs. Even people who have never been bitten by a dog can still use the latter method against dogs.
This is because smart people are not only able to understand some truths from their own setbacks, but are also good at summing up lessons from the failures of others. From this point of view, isn't setbacks a rare spiritual wealth? It is true that we can learn from the lessons of others.
But I always feel that the path of life is too flat, and the whole life becomes boring. So, I thought, many of us who are parents, teachers, elders or leaders now, can we let go more and let our children go on their own, so that they can rely on their own efforts to achieve a career? There are also students who fail in the college entrance examination, can they also get something from the setbacks, cheer up, and start a new round of fighting?
If you have had more setbacks and hardships than others, then, once you succeed, you will inevitably have more joy than others. After experiencing setbacks and hardships, you will work harder, cherish more, and be more productive! The more afraid you are of dog bites, the more you will always be bitten by dogs.
Instead of always being passive, learn to take the initiative to attack. As long as we can withstand setbacks, then setbacks will make us smarter. Isn't it precisely the various setbacks that mankind has experienced that have been underneath human society and held up modern civilization?
Setbacks are indeed a wealth of life.
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Take a look. Think about it from another perspective.
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When I'm facing setbacks.
Setbacks are an indispensable part of life, and we will inevitably encounter many setbacks in the journey of life. However, various people deal with setbacks differently: when some people face setbacks, they choose to give up without finding the cause; There are also some people who are very calm when they encounter setbacks, carefully find out the cause, and solve them.
Of course, I chose the latter, and I chose to deal with setbacks calmly.
Whenever I encounter a setback while doing my homework, I will sit down, think carefully, and carefully analyze each question to find the best solution; When I really can't, I humbly ask my teachers and classmates for advice.
Whenever I encounter a setback in integrity, I will calm down, think quietly, compare the importance of the two, choose the right outlook on life, and then make the right decision, which will never leave a shadow in my life.
Whenever I encounter an annoying setback, I will calm down, of course I will not be anxious, I will think about the cause and process of the incident, judge who is right and who is wrong, and then draw conclusions. Naturally, the frustration will stay away from me.
Whenever I encounter setbacks in exams, I think about my father's expectations for me, my mother's desire for me, and my teachers' guidance to me, which will make me calm down again and answer the questions seriously. If I really won't, I won't blame anyone, because it only proves that I haven't studied hard enough, and that I have to continue to work hard in my future studies.
No matter what setbacks I encounter, I will think carefully and analyze them, and never let them take advantage of them, so that they will always stay away from me.
Setbacks are an indispensable part of life. People always grow in setbacks, because setbacks give us the strength to grow. Setbacks allow us to calm down and review our own shortcomings, so as to transform and improve ourselves, so that we can make fewer mistakes or no mistakes in the future.
If there are no setbacks, the journey of life will be smooth sailing, and no one will think seriously about one thing or one thing, study hard, and be inspired by it.
Frustration is all around you and me, if you and I are good at observation and thinking, you will succeed from setbacks and get a sense of happiness beyond yourself.
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