When did you start to become hypocritical?

Generally speaking, changes in our personality are influenced by our environment. But I only understood the hypocrisy after going out to work, after all, many times we can't be straightforward, we always have to hide our inner dissatisfaction, so that we will not be isolated.

On the day I became sensible. New Year's money, my family told me that when others stuff you with New Year's money, you can't just continue, you must first say "don't, don't, thank you", in fact, I want it very much, but I still have to say no.

After I have experienced some things, I found that getting along with people, exposing myself too obviously, will be more vulnerable, my emotions need to be taken care of by myself, and sometimes I need to disguise myself when necessary, disguising myself is not to hurt anyone, but to avoid being hurt, I used to be very naïve to everyone, until my trust was trampled on, that feeling is really very uncomfortable, so I will disguise myself well enough in the future, I don't want anyone to see through my heart and see through my fragile side.

I've always been very nice to everyone, but later I found out that the pay is not proportional to the return, and sometimes, you can get better things through the hypocritical side, and sometimes you take the people around you too seriously and don't pay attention to it, sometimes it may be just a small thing, but it makes me very emotionally damaged, I feel very sad, so I gradually put on a disguise and start to become a pseudo-good person.

After I went to college, I began to have roommates, and a few friends, we would sometimes go out to eat together, and the meal money was originally paid by ourselves, but for the sake of convenience, one person paid the money, and then everyone transferred the money to that person, because every time everyone didn't like to bring cash, the cash on me came in handy, so basically I was paying every time.

At the beginning, they will immediately put the money in the Alipay or WeChat account, so every time I pay the habit of gradually developing, and then there is a roommate, she forgets all kinds of things every time, and then I am embarrassed to ask, the relationship between roommates is so good, I am afraid that talking about money hurts feelings, so I feel that there is no need to care about a little money, and then there are more times, I will calculate who did not give me, and then I feel that my living expenses are becoming more and more insufficient, some of which are for this reason.

I feel like I'm like a big wrongdoer, no one remembers my good, once asked a roommate to help me bring a meal when I came back, the other party was unwilling, if I remember correctly, she owed me at least fifty yuan and didn't give it to me, in fact, the money was a few hundred dollars, I spent money to buy a lesson, so when we ate together, even if I had money, I would say that I didn't have money, we each scanned the code to pay, sometimes the store does not support scanning the code, I took out my own money to pay, This change is something I dislike about it, but it's all because you need to be reserved about yourself, and it's all about protecting yourself from harm.

Probably I guess everyone has had this experience, so when they go out, they will deliberately not bring money, only I, a stupid white sweet, stupid after suffering a loss, I know how to disguise to protect myself, I think I am doing the right thing, I will not hurt anyone, but I also do not allow others to hurt me through my trust.

I've never been hypocritical, and I hate hypocrisy so much.

As I grew up, I slowly became what I hated when I was a child, and I hated those hypocritical people when I was a child, and I felt that I had to live real to be worthy of myself, but slowly I found that the world was very hypocritical, and the real life was not so happy at all. In order to adapt to the environment, I slowly became hypocritical, and I found out that I was such a hypocritical person when I was in junior high school.

When I was in elementary school, some of my classmates were the kind of two-faced people, I thought they were hypocritical, so I never liked them, I think people should be real when they live, I can't figure out why they obviously don't like this person and play with them every day with a smile, and they don't talk when they are bullied. After entering junior high school, I found that those hypocritical classmates had a very good interpersonal relationship, they had a lot of friends, and they lived more real than before, and my original real person slowly became very hypocritical, I began to have two faces, in front of people I was a person who could make friends with anyone, but after people I actually hated those so-called friends. I also became like a wall-to-wall grass, always choosing the side that was beneficial to me, making friends not like before because I was happy to make friends, I began to look for people who would help me to be friends, and I became the most annoying person I used to be, but it would be very difficult to live at school without this.

Sometimes I want to keep my heart and live a real life, but it's a very difficult thing to get along with everyone in life, so I slowly become what I hate. It's really tiring to hope that I can become as real as before, and to live hypocritically.

From the first time I went out to work, I found that sometimes being too honest is not a good thing, and I still need to be a little discerning.

Theoretically, you can't be hypocritical at any time, but everyone does have a hypocritical side or a moment, hypocrisy is a derogatory term, but if the situation is different, it may also be a positive word.

For example, when a loved one needs comfort, there is no way to tell the truth, but to make up some lies in the hope of reassuring and comforting the loved one.

It can also be dealt with with "hypocrisy". Hypocrisy of good intentions, of course!

In modern society, in the workplace or business, hypocrisy may sometimes need to be used appropriately. But the premise is that it is not harmful and beneficial to both parties.

In the final analysis, it is necessary to be honest with people. Abandon hypocrisy!!

Be at ease, to live in this world is to be hypocritical.

In fact, everyone has a hypocritical side, but the degree of manifestation is different.

Because people want to survive in society, there is competition in order to survive, and in the competition there is a connection to the ability of the individual, and some hypocrisy is because of the means used to achieve certain ends.

Sometimes you have to be hypocritical on certain occasions, and you should understand the truth that the law of the jungle is the strongest!

Some friends are worthy of your heart's work for him, and some are just ordinary friends or can only be regarded as superficial friends, so hypocrisy is only for those who need to be hypocritical to them, not in front of true friends.

We have to admit :

Sometimes just getting to know a hypocritical person will leave you with a good impression.

However, after a long time, as soon as the veil of hypocrisy is lifted, there will naturally be no good imprint in the bottom of one's heart.