Can guys and girls really be iron buddies?

Of course, don't really think that there is no pure friendship between men and women, some friendships between people of the opposite sex are more reliable and pure than between people of the same sex. Those who say that there is no pure friendship between boys and girls are definitely not people who do not believe that they can maintain friendship with the opposite sex. Boys and girls are inherently different species, and they naturally think about problems in different ways and focus on problems differently.

There is a good saying, men and women match, work is not tiring. It further illustrates that boys and girls can complement each other in their approach to issues and pay attention to each other's neglects.

I have three iron buddies with whom I have a very good relationship, two of whom I met in junior high school and one of whom I met at the same table in high school. My own personality is on the male side, so for several of them, I call them brothers. The mode of getting along with each other is to lose each other, never praise each other, and never be ambiguous by others.

I've been with two iron buddies in junior high school for seven years, and I've been together every day in junior high school, and a lot of funny things have happened to the three people at the front and back tables. The third year of junior high school was the most ironclad time of our friendship in seven years, and I still remember the scenes of fighting together, listening to songs together, getting into trouble together, and being punished together. Others describe the three of us as good brothers who don't look back.

So we call each other good brothers, even if I'm a girl, in some ways, they will let me and tolerate me. But there are just some aspects, most of the time, I am like a boy, I am calling them brothers, and sometimes I really feel that I am not a girl, and I am more suitable to be a boy. In this way, it can match my personality and my range of friends.

Until now, we naturally have a good relationship and are real iron buddies. I don't keep in touch often, but I never forget it.

Yes, there are some friends of the opposite sex, from the beginning of their decision to become friends with each other, they have not considered to cross the channel barrier of friends, what is more in-depth development, since the initial idea is like this. Then if they find more and more that the two people have more in common, they may also become better friends because of some friendships. But because they know too much, or know some discord or what the two people's personalities are, both of them know deeply that if two people cross the biggest obstacle of friends and become lovers, it will not last long, so it is better to get along with each other for a long time with the relationship of friends.

Sometimes I think that a friend is a kind of existence that can stay with you for a longer time than a lover! It's that sometimes you look at the development of this society, I think that if two people become a couple, maybe this relationship may not last for a long time, because everyone's personality has always been very vague, but there is not so much attention to getting along between friends and friends.

I have a very good friend of the opposite sex. We've known each other for a long time, and at the beginning we also didn't like each other, because I thought he had a weird personality, but I don't know when we became friends with each other, the kind of type that would scold each other and hurt each other, and then I fell in love, and he would complain every time that my distressed boyfriend's boyfriend had a good relationship. Later, she also had a boyfriend, and I wanted to become very good friends with him, and the relationship was like, the two of us were not friends, but slowly became a brother and sister relationship.

Slowly, even if we are related to each other, we will not feel jealous or jealous for each other.

It's hard to say about this thing, just let it be, because everyone's personality is different, and it's very good to be able to get along.

Very good! Friends are good and bosom friends are hard to find.

Does that depend on whether you feel for each other?

Depending on the specific age, boys sometimes take girls as buddies.

But they don't ask all about girls, just as boys don't ask everything about each other.

And the last half of what you say, "Say to the girl, I can take everything I have." It's obviously not something that buddies say.

It depends on what kind of girl it is, if it's a good girl.

Satisfactory answer Enthusiastic to ask friends 2009-08-30Not necessarily as a buddy is more natural But when tempting is still the same, Follow-up: Are you a boy? Do you also have such a girl iron buddy?

Yes There are a few who are regarded as buddies There are also girls who treat me as sisters Hehe This is very common But it does not hinder the development of the relationship, we will be more natural and harmonious in this way In fact, this kind of relationship is very easy to surpass the general friendship between men and women Follow-up question: That If the girl confesses to the boy, and then the boy says that he has always regarded the girl as an iron buddy, does it mean that the boy has no feelings for the girl at all?

But the boy then hugged the girl, what is this? : Maybe I'm not ready I don't want to start so soon Hugging you means that I don't treat you as a buddy, but as a woman I think he likes you, and he is also hesitant, so it's better to wait and see, feelings can't be rushed Follow-up:

But we're about to separate, and I'm going to Xi'an to go to university. After a long time of separation, it will fade, right? ：

Dude, how can it be so easy to fade Hehe, don't think too much, go with the flow Maybe after separation, he will find out that you are important to him, and the relationship is not in a hurry, and it will be self-defeating if you are too anxious Follow-up: Maybe, but what you said makes a lot of sense. Listen to the advice of others to eat a full meal The relationship must be developed by mutual interaction The man does not have this meaning, it is better to take the opportunity to go to school and go away from home to give him a buffer, it is your absolute ability to run The questioner's testimonial:

Well, I listen to you, thank you.

Yes. If you have a strong sense of responsibility.

Love will come over time, but if you want to continue to be friends, you must be careful not to go beyond the boundaries of friends.

Yes But the premise is that the girls will be more bold or boyish.

It's hard to imagine that a delicate little girl and a big man can be buddies. Hehe.

Yes, as long as the man does not have a physical desire for the woman. This kind of thing completely depends on fate, which is more precious than the fate of men and women in love. That's what I do.

Yes. 1. I have an experience! But after the boy pursued me.,I haven't promised to always maintain a friend relationship.。。

It wasn't until later that he had another girl. A few years! It's hard work to manage a real friendship like this, but the result is still gratifying, until now, we are already very iron buddies 1 can do something with a word And then he also became good friends with my boyfriend...

How can there be no such thing!

Sometimes it's nice to think about the feeling of trust between friends who are so relaxed now!! I'm glad I made the choice! 1 hehe . . .

We'll be buddies forever 1! It just takes time to grind and that!!

Yes, it's not much, but I firmly believe that there is! Friendship and love cannot be said together.

It depends on how you deal with it, I have 3 good friends who are all boys, and I don't come and go often when I'm fine, and I'll help you if I have something, I think that's enough

No, it can't be, because sex is at work.

I recommend watching the movie "When Harry Meets Polly".

There won't be at the beginning, at least one party has the idea of a crush, and after a long time, the two don't fall in love, then there will definitely be.

The answer is yours alone.

It's up to you. But it's hard to hold the line.

Yes, I have one"Dude", Since I have known her for so 6 years, I feel very good, and I will never always be very manly and bold in front of me. Of course, when she is lonely, I will accompany her as soon as she is physically needed.

I think there will be.

At least for me.

Friends of the opposite sex must be built in a special sense, and I absolutely do not believe that there are any pure friends of the opposite sex.

I think there will be, and that's it with my first girl I liked, and I told her everything, and she took good care of me

If you guessed correctly, you're a girl? Haven't you heard of "love over time"?

This kind of opposite-sex buddy, after a long time, there will definitely be one party who will be tempted first, just see who it is, both sides need to be able to manage themselves, and not expose their vulnerable side.

Wherefore, why do you come to see band pretend not to see? You two really have a tacit understanding, I don't think there is pure friendship, you try to walk with him separately for a while, to see if you can keep a normal heart, to see if you still really want to go home with him. If it's the former, you're really iron buddies, and if it's the latter, I'll hang it.

Yes, but it's still a little different that you are a woman, and it is a lot unnatural for a man, so you can make the other party feel comfortable, and this man still has to find a woman to make friends

Okay, how not. They want to say go as they say, anyway, you have a clear conscience, and I also have male buddies around me. Everyone gets used to it after a long time.

Of course, there are also many girls and boys in our class who are iron buddies, as long as they are calm. Go your own way and let others do the talking!

"When we came home from self-study at night, we happened to meet B on the road, and we were on both sides of the road"。

Isn't that a bit counterintuitive? You should get to know yourself anew, and buddy friendships can also be transformed into love, often inadvertently. In fact, there is nothing bad about it, if both parties appreciate each other, it is okay to come together.

Love ......A wonderful thing.

Stick to what you believe in and don't care what others say! I can't stand it, points, [play together in private]! Or simply, fall in love, now I don't have to say anything [pretend, you can continue to be friends behind your back]!

I think it's okay because I have a lot of buddies who all treat me as a sister or a relative, and a lot of girls like to have buddies because men get along better than women.

The body is not afraid of shadows. In fact, there can be pure friendship between men and women. Just do your own thing and stick to your bottom line, and don't care too much about other people's opinions. o(∩_o~

Some people say that there is no pure friendship between men and women, but I still think there is. It's just that they don't meet each other.

Dedicated letter, for your question.

I think it is like this: those who are clear are self-purifying, and those who are turbid are self-turbid. As long as you believe that it is pure friendship, then there is pure friendship between you, and practice is the only criterion for testing the truth.

Those who don't understand don't need to explain to them, because those who understand you will understand, and those who don't understand you explain it is useless Don't be entangled all the time because of other people's words Follow your inner thoughts.

There are no brothers of the opposite sex, only confidants and women.

Yes! However, that was before you met the person you crushed! After that, it's hard to say!

You should be able to be an iron buddy and don't care what others think.

Obviously, you are frustrated by the misunderstanding of the outside world, and you are right.

This relationship is more than when I was in school. There are a few of them in my class. I have been married for several years after graduation, and my relationship is not bad.

It's okay to know what is going on, no matter what others say, friendship is still very important in a person's life, and it is easy to give up because of what others say.

Okay, we are all brothers and sisters in China, all of us are brothers from all over the world. . .

No, it's been a long time, but it's not the love of iron buddies.

Yes, but you have to put it in perspective, and it's better to have your own partner so that you don't think about it when you're together.

One said, "When her blue-faced confidant has yellow thoughts, buddy, you are green". People feel bad, so you should pay attention to it, this is a very important issue.

It's not that male and female students can't be iron buddies, but they often slowly and unconsciously develop feelings, and they have to grasp a good degree!

Dead friends, little sisters, sisters Tao.

Sister Tao!! Super positive statement! ~~

Friendships between men and women are easy to change and don't last long. It's like a piece of ice sitting next to a brazier, either the fire melts the ice or the ice extinguishes the fire.

That's it. Only between men. There are very few between men and women, and it will always turn into a romance.

Brothers should be the same as love, it is a heart-to-heart feeling, they know each other very well, they are willing to let each other share their joys, sorrows and sorrows for the first time, and the person who is at the forefront in times of crisis can give their back to each other without any worries. It's not uncommon for men and women to become brothers, but it's hard!

Brothers just don't break off friendship and turn against each other, boys and girls become brothers, which generally means that there will be no other relationship development, only friendship.

As long as you know each other, you can call them friends, but brothers are synonymous with good friends.