The blind date girl is getting colder and colder to me, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-27
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Brother, don't look for it, that's it! She doesn't necessarily see you when she goes, and there can't be anything good when you do, buddy, I'm also a person who just came over, believe me, that's right, buddies are used to it, blind dates are like this!! There are two possibilities for this scenario:

    1, she is also relatively lonely during this time, so I will play with you for a few days, and say goodbye after clearing the boredom! 2, (rough words) riding a donkey to find a horse, the horse has been found, what is the use of a donkey?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I've seen a lot of this situation.,Now women are all the same color.,Relying on a bit of posture.,I look at it higher.。。

    Dude, don't waste your time, take advantage of the morning and make another plan, remember, the people who care about you will not let you think badly, they will make you think badly, they are definitely the ones who don't care about you...

    Hand typed words,It's very tired.,Satisfied.,Thank you.。。

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No more fun! Brothers, withdraw! I'm from here, too!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Sincerely ask her if she is not doing well, and you have to analyze her previous emotional world, and wish you true love and happiness as soon as possible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think so, but if you like it, you should go for it, and no matter what the result is, at least you've worked hard, so that you're worthy of your heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Blind dates are now buying and selling... When the two parties meet each other's requirements, they will be together and say goodbye if they can't meet them

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Well, eighty percent of it looks like there's no drama.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You are shy, and your mouth solves everything.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Blind date is actually a way for everyone to choose an object, this way is also more direct, in fact, it also skips some cumbersome processes, so that two people know each other directly, and then continue to develop, compared to our daily life, to know others by themselves, this way is also simpler. So if the girl we know on a blind date and the other party has been very cold, what should we do?

    First of all, we can actively open up the topic with the other person, find out what he usually likes, and then chat with him, but in this process, we try to talk about something that he is interested in, so this also means that we must actively understand him. If we don't know him well enough, and then talk about topics that he is not interested in, then the other party will naturally be very cold, after all, he doesn't know what to reply.

    If we want to continue to develop with him, if we want to get to know him better, then we can try to ask him out again. But at this time, it is also said that we are chatting with him, we must talk about what he is interested in, don't just talk about our own things, because we have just met two people with him through a blind date, and we don't know each other very well. At this time of chatting, we can ask him, that is to say, throw questions to him, and then he has to us, although he may be cold, but we can understand them through these questions, such as asking them what they did today, what they ate, what they liked?

    But if we just want to be polite with him, or if we don't feel the need to develop with him, then we just chat with him every day, and don't take this matter too seriously, otherwise we will be more uncomfortable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can find some topics that the other party is interested in, your way of speaking is humorous and funny, and you often ask each other out to eat, ask each other to go to the movies, and create some small surprises for each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The other party has been very cold, which means that the other party doesn't look down on you, so there is no need to contact her at this time, and if you can be together in time, you will still dislike you in the future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    At this time, there is no need to go on a blind date, because the other party doesn't want to go on a blind date with you at all, so there will be such a performance, so it is better to choose to separate.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. Don't reply to messages or perfunctory. After meeting, go back and then contact and send a message, often do not reply or even if you do, it is very perfunctory, just a single word back and forth so that you can't find a topic to talk about, this situation is hopeless, the other party doesn't want to bother anymore, so you don't need to contact again.

    2. If you don't answer or chat, you're not interested, and you're going to hang up after a while, which is hopeless, so give up decisively.

    3. I can't make an appointment. After meeting, I make an appointment to play or eat or something, always saying that I have something to do and I am busy or saying that I have been to such and such a place, this kind of words are just perfunctory and, I don't want to go out at all, this kind of can also give up decisively.

    4. If you don't accept the gift, or pay you back with money after accepting it, this kind of thing is to draw a line with you, so you are not satisfied, you can leave directly without the next step.

    5. It's just not so enthusiastic, but there will still be a response that won't ignore you, in this case, it means that the other party hasn't completely blacklisted you, if you have a good impression of the other party and want to develop further, there is still a little hope.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Most blind date girls are very cold, why is that? Girls are generally not very active, and boys should take the initiative. Some girls may not want to go on a blind date, but the family forces them to go on a blind date, so the performance is not so positive, and some girls are naturally cold and have no feelings, so it depends on how the boys behave to influence such girls.

    In blind dates, all social comments emphasize that men should take the initiative, and this rule is naturally correct and cannot be refuted. After the girl goes on a blind date, no matter whether she is satisfied or not, all he can do is wait, wait for the boy to send her a message, wait for the boy to ask her, and wait for the boy to give a gift. It's not particularly difficult for boys to take the initiative, but the problem is that many girls who go on a blind date will have a blind date the next day, or even that night, and then there will be a guy who chats with him on a date.

    In fact, when going on a blind date, there is nothing to blame for this phenomenon, everyone can choose when they are single, but no matter how active a boy is in this situation, he can only become a selected object. It can be seen that the proportion of young people in first- and second-tier cities who have affection-guided blind dates has begun to slowly decrease, while at the same time, blind dates in some third- and fourth-tier cities and below are almost the only way to know the opposite sex of the right age.

    In some cities, there are relatively few girls, and there will naturally be more choices on the macro level. The blind date is inherently good for boys, giving everyone a fair opportunity to communicate, but the passive familiarity of the female physiology makes the blind date look like giving the boy a chance to chase her, and then naturally stands on a higher level. But then again, if the girl is too active in the blind date, the boy may also lose interest.

    In the end, if you are a boy and can't stand the coldness of the girls on the blind date, you can choose to go to the first and second tier cities to find a heartwarming encounter. If you are a girl and meet a more satisfactory blind date, it is best to give a little more positive signal and may the world be full of love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This is because many girls who go on a blind date don't have much expectation for the blind date, and their thoughts are relatively negative, so they are relatively cold.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe it's because you want to leave a particularly cold image on the other party, and you want to get the other person's attention, so it looks very cold.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because girls are not satisfied with boys, and they don't like this form of blind date, they show a sense of coldness.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    may just want to leave such an imagination for the other party, so when going on a blind date, this person will look very cold. It may also be that I have experienced a lot of feelings, which is why I am like this.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because these girls are not very happy to go on blind dates, and these girls feel that it is good to be single and have no plans to get married.

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