If you are Fan Shengmei, what would you do in the face of such a relative?

I can only support my parents because they gave me life and nurtured me, but I will not support my brother's family.

I wouldn't have treated her family the way she did, I think she's just used to them to get to where she is today.

Fan Shengmei's mother's patriarchal thinking is too obvious, and I don't think I would support such an old man if it were me.

I should have taught his brother a lesson when he made his first mistake and let him know that if I couldn't clean up the mess for him, there would be no future.

Explain something to my brother and sister-in-law. They are my family, and I can't. How decisive things are done to them, you can only be reasonable.

It's my obligation to be good to my parents, my brother needs help when he's in trouble, and I can't sit idly by as a sister, but I can't do anything if I keep asking for help, so if I want to solve the fundamental problem, I still want to find a stable job for my brother, so that I won't ask for money twice in three days.

She's doing a really good job, he's all the burden of the family alone, and if it were me, I don't think I would care about these things.

I will help my brother find a job that suits him, maybe the job he was given before was not suitable for him, so he will not be promoted, I believe he is capable.

I feel like I'm going to make the same decision as him because they're my family, and no matter how much they've gone too far, I can't leave them.

It is impossible to get used to them all the time, the burden of the whole family is borne by me alone, I am just a younger sister, why should I bear it?

will let my brother and sister-in-law divorce, my sister-in-law doesn't work, she is lazy to eat, I think they are better relieved if they divorce.

At most, let the parents not starve to death, and the rest is not to be discussed!

Give 800 a month, celebrate the New Year's holiday, celebrate the birthday, give 500 more, don't think about the rest! If you come to make trouble, change your job, change your mobile phone, and be incognito! Tell them ahead of time that you'll do it! And don't bring it with you!

It's no problem to support your parents, how many families are there for your younger brother? Go to hell!

Flee and see if they starve to death.

Fan Shengmei is a witty and emotionally intelligent person, and she has enough wisdom to face life. She lives a bit vain, but she also compromises with reality. She doesn't have high requirements for love, but she never meets the right person.

The image of Fan Shengmei in "Ode to Joy" is portrayed very realistically, and there are many such people in reality.

On the surface, Fan Shengmei is an urban female white-collar worker, she works hard in a big city alone, her salary is okay, she dresses up very brightly every day, and her life is very nourishing.

But after digging deeper, you will know that the situation faced by Fan Shengmei is not good, just because she has a pair of very patriarchal parents.

Fan Shengmei also has an older brother, and most of the money she earned after working was spent by her mother for her brother. The down payment for her brother's house was paid by her, and her nephew was basically raised by Fan Shengmei. In this way, Fan Shengmei's parents and brother were not satisfied, they thought that Fan Shengmei should do this.

Later, Fan Shengmei's father fell ill, and Fan Shengmei's mother and brother came to squeeze her, it was not enough to squeeze Fan Shengmei, they also wanted to squeeze Fan Shengmei's boyfriend.

Fan Shengmei was completely overwhelmed by the burden of the family, she could have lost her friends and had a very good life, but she was completely dragged down by her original family. In reality, there are really too many people like Fan Shengmei.

Ode to joy. Among them, Fan Shengmei.

is a woman to be pitied, because she has vampire parents, she has a vampire brother, and the money she earned bought her brother a house, and her mother is also very partial to her brother. In reality, there are also a lot of Fan Shengmei. If I were a real-life version of Fan Shengmei, I would work hard to make money and never agree to my family's unreasonable requests.

If I were the real-life version of Fan Shengmei, I would be far away from my family. Some parents prefer sons over daughters, and they always ask for their daughters, for example, after their daughters get married, they still have to ask their daughters for wages to subsidize their sons, or their daughters take all their daughters' wages after they go to work. I think that in the face of such a family, I should be more and more distant, out of sight and out of mind.

If you live with them, there's a chance they'll pester you. But I can work in other cities or other provinces, so they can't do anything if they want to pester me. And when I'm away from them, I don't tell them the address, so that I can have a quiet life.

If I were a real-life version of Fan Shengmei, I would not agree to my family's unreasonable request. In the TV series Ode to Joy, Fan Shengmei has no principles, and when her mother asks him for money, she will always agree to her mother's request.

It is understandable that daughters love their parents, but they should also think about themselves and not give without principles. Daughters can take a part of the money to honor their parents, and it is their business how their parents use that money.

They can use that money to retire, and they can also use that money to subsidize their sons. The daughter has fulfilled her obligations, and she doesn't have to worry too much about other things, and she should decisively refuse some unreasonable requests from her parents.

If I were the reality version of all, I would work hard to make myself strong. Some women are just too weak for their parents to say no when they ask them for it. I think that women should be independent and have a strong heart to avoid being hurt.

I will definitely resist with such a family, and my family can give me such humiliation in my life, which will make me very sad and sad, so I will definitely resist to the end.

I will stay away from such a family, although blood relationship is a big deal, but I am not willing to help them without a lower limit.

I would give my parents a piece of money to repay them for their nurturing kindness, and then cut off the relationship and live for myself.