The unbearable lightness in life, the contradictions after the blind date, can you help me and give

If you don't want your parents to be sad, don't care about your feelings, because you have already made a choice the last time you were in love with each other. You choose what you think is the most important side, only to find that you simply can't meet their expectations. It becomes a good thing to fall at both ends.

Figure out what exactly you want. After all, you choose someone who wants to be with you every day, not with your parents every day.

The man just wanted to get married, and you just happened to show up at the right time.

He doesn't necessarily love you.

Flash marriages are fun, but not fun.

You can't marry casually, you have to think carefully.

Don't compare him to your former boyfriend, since your parents agree that it doesn't matter if both parents meet, then what do you have to worry about! After meeting, if each other's parents think it's good, it's just an extra layer of protection for you to get along in the future, and it doesn't mean that you will be determined for life.

It doesn't hurt to suggest that you meet, give each other a chance, and don't understand what is the use of worrying for no reason! After getting along for a while, if it's not suitable, you can make a decision right away, and I believe that your parents won't blame you at that time.

If you feel that your boyfriend is your spiritual support, then you should think about it, and if it is only for material pursuits, you can marry him.

If you don't like it, pull it down''Sister.''

Ask him or her about it, and tell him something about yourself, hobbies, work, life, etc. You may find a common topic, tell him that you are a police officer, and now take a statement.

...Just release your own personality. Be generous,Just be natural. In fact, meeting is just to introduce each other, and then date and play together to get to know each other to facilitate development!

The real cow upstairs, what do you think is good when you meet for the first time?

Of course, it is to introduce yourself politely, and then get to know each other from the chat!

Just talk about it. The first time is mainly to see what the other person looks like

The first floor is amazing. Actually, there is no need to say much. Come with her.

It's reasonable to get in touch with each other and not break the law It's not that you decide to marry a wife You can only marry one You haven't determined which one is a girlfriend now Everyone is an ordinary friend Is there a rule that ordinary friends of the opposite sex can only have one And the girl introduced by the financial director also told you to decide when you continue to contact Maybe she also has multiple choices Even if you go out to buy clothes, you have to choose it Not to mention a girlfriend 2 Let's contact it together But when you decide which one to be your girlfriend Just make it clear to the other one.

When I first contacted them, I had a chat, personality or something, and the general situation was clear, and I made a choice, and then I chose one to continue dating. Don't be ambiguous on both sides at the beginning, pedal on two boats, and end up empty.

Take your friend's suggestion that you go and meet the girl, so that you can not only give your friend face, but also get to know the girl better. (The process of catching must be confidential). Then make your choice decisively.

It's hard to say.,If someone finds you stepping on two beds.,You're dead.。。。 Not only is my girlfriend gone, but my reputation is not good for other friends... When the time comes, you won't be able to find a girlfriend ==

If you like that, you'll be treated with that, but people don't necessarily like you.

We all make friends first, and we don't make promises.

Otherwise, you'll be miserable.

Why do you have to choose between these two people?

From your words, it looks like you don't like both too much!

Wait, emotional problems can't be improvised.

Wait until your fate comes.

Bless you.

Pick among someone you don't like and don't like? You're sad to choose whichever you choose. Do you have to talk about it, if so, close your eyes and choose one, and the result will be the same anyway.

Love is not about money. To feel is to love.

Actually, it's right to ask you about yourself. People can't help you.

Sister, don't be distracted, hehe!

Actually, it's up to you to do this kind of thing! In fact, loving someone and choosing someone is like picking up seashells at the beach, you can't pick the biggest and you can't pick the most beautiful! You're going to pick up what you like!

Because you see the biggest, one day you will think it is taking up space and get in the way, so you will throw it away! You don't want to pick the most beautiful one, because one day you will get tired of it and you don't want it, you have to choose what you like, thinking that what you like will be collected for a lifetime, maybe older!!

Good luck sister.

Choose the one who is willing to give up everything for her.

Choose feelings, not when you buy groceries or items in the supermarket, some choose.

Feelings matter, and so does the reality ...

If you make such a comparison, if the man knows. It's all going to leave you.

What a mess, close your eyes and go in circles, and choose whoever you turn to.

It's good to meet up and meet a new friend.

Age is not the biggest obstacle to love in this era, and you shouldn't think too traditionally.

Anyway, you don't have to be a couple, just make friends, and have the opportunity to become a couple in the future.

You can't accept that you're bigger than you, forget it!

What are you afraid of when you're a year older, it's basically not bad, hehe, you think so much, how do you know if you can't do it without meeting, it's not so easy to succeed on a blind date, go ahead! Don't think about it so much, take it easy, just think of it as an experience! It's better if you succeed, it doesn't matter if you don't!

The two are older, and age is not an issue.

Maybe this is life, and it is unrealistic to blindly pursue it.

I personally feel that as long as you have a good heart and are easy to communicate, there will not be too many contradictions, for example, the conditions of both parties cannot be the same, and she will not give you too much pressure because of good conditions.

Go for it, give everyone more chances.

Falling in love and getting married are two different things.

When you get married, you see, firstly, you have similar interests and compatible personalities, and secondly, what your character is and whether you can run a family. As for appearance, it's okay if you don't get intimidated by her.

Seeing that you said so much, it is nothing more than that you feel that you have a good appearance and feel that the woman is not worthy of you, but you are under economic pressure and feel that there is no way out. In fact, it's very simple, good appearance can't be eaten, and ability is fundamental for men. If you feel that you can work hard, and you have the confidence to break out of the world by your own efforts, then the emotional marriage will be let go first; If you think that you have reached the end of the road, there is no store in this village, and it is also an option to find a woman with a solid family and fight for decades.

But no matter what choice you choose, remember one sentence: looking for a wife is character, and marriage is a lifelong thing, men, dare to do and dare to be, men, be responsible, for themselves, but also for others.

Your mother is right, a beautiful face can grow rice, if you really find a beautiful wife, she will be cruel to you all day long, do you think it is worth it? The object also depends on the character, after all, the two of them have to live for a lifetime, and being good to you is the most important thing. And if a woman has a bad appearance, she will not have a sense of superiority, the more she will care about you, and vice versa, the beautiful ones want to find good conditions and think that they have capital.

Sending people to live under the fence. Interesting?

Don't listen to their nonsense. Why wait until you have money to find a woman... Something like the ugliest man in the world: 1 man with a heart of flowers.

2 men who beat women.

If you're single and don't like another girl, marry her and you won't regret it. If you have a girl you like now. You just leave her, so you won't regret it, your mother is right.

It's better to be realistic. No matter how good the relationship is, it is only a matter of one or two years, and the rest is actually just responsibility. In the future, the conditions are better and more stable, how can I not find a beautiful lover!

But be careful when playing.

Second, listen to what you think in your heart, and don't force yourself if you don't want to, because you still have a long way to go, and a momentary impulse may cause regret on both sides. Third, try to start your own business. Poverty is temporary, but marriage is lifelong.

If you don't like it, don't say yes, I've met people like you before. But my family listened to me and said that they could live with me if they liked. So I didn't agree.

What about having money! The unhappiness that you haven't felt together is not bitter for yourself! You are still young, and as for the job, as long as you work hard, there is still a chance to find a good one.

There are good girls, too, and not every girl is greedy and vain! I'm good at this one right now. Hehe, so you have to stick to your ideas!

Remember that there is no happiness in reluctance, and you will not be happy in that kind of life after you have it, I feel so much about this....I wish you a good job and a good wife!

Your mom is right. I'm looking for a pretty one, but for the sake of the house, alas, I'm going to die.

Ay! It doesn't matter if you chase more points or not, I'll tell you what I think!

It's really a scoundrel to hear you say this, it seems that it is difficult for you to choose, there are so many wishful things to be found in life, and contemporary society is like this, too realistic.

No one can help you with this kind of thing, all you can do is to give advice for your reference, the real choice is still up to you, after all, the person who wants to live a lifetime is yourself.

Good luck finding satisfactory answers!

I'm the same as you, I'm also 1.7 meters, very slim and beautiful, but after the blind date, a long fat is also 1.71 meters, but it doesn't look as tall as me, but the conditions at home are good, my parents agreed, but I'm thinking about it, and now too, hey, my parents and relatives also ask me every day how I am, annoying.

Marriage is the grave of love, this sentence is just for those who don't cherish life, but like a buddy who has no love foundation and wants to live a good marriage, it's good that you Hunan people don't eat chili peppers, you give up on her when you choose feelings, and choose to mix up and accommodate her after decades of life, not to mention that she has money, she doesn't have to work so hard to go out and sell her life, there are many women outside the money, and life is either happy or bitter. It's up to you how you choose.

The handsome guys now are all with ugly girls. Beautiful women are matched with ugly men.

It's okay, when you have money, you can wrap a few Xiaomi.

Money is there, good woman, there will be...

Don't be in a hurry, don't be in a hurry about marriage matters.

Besides, you are still young, there are many men who are 7 years older than you, and there are many in the world.

2 hours.

Girl, you're in too much of a hurry.

Maybe they're busy with something else right now.

I don't have internet access, so let's wait.

There is also from this can be seen that you are interested in this blind date.

It is relatively satisfying.

Congratulations, you found Ruyi Langjun... But if you're a girl, don't be so anxious... It's not necessarily that yours is busy... Wait two more days for news... Good luck...

Are you still in school Are you in such a hurry to find a man who is 7 years older than you If he doesn't add it, he won't add it What are you anxious about Is it possible that you have no one to ask for? There is still a long way to go in the future Can you guarantee that you like him at the age of 21 Marry him Don't you regret it when you are 25 years old Getting married too early is not a good thing for girls Not to mention that you are still in school It shouldn't be so feudal that you accept blind dates and want to develop Oh my god The current society.

It's better to take your time in emotional matters.