How to get along with the old man now, how to get along with the old man?

They are all relatives of their own family, and the elderly will not sit idly by and ignore your difficulties.

However, they are all ordinary people, and it is impossible not to be tired and slack.

Understand each other, the old people will feel powerless when they are old.

If you have more living expenses, you will pay less, and you can solve some problems to some extent. You only care about your own children to take care of, save money for your children, but also take care of the feelings of the elderly.

Chat more with the elderly, usually buy fruits and vegetables, you don't want to save this money.

Don't ignore the feelings of the elderly too much for the sake of work, children...

The old people are all children mentality, they like to talk about their past, and then use their own opinions to evaluate, don't argue with the old man, even if he is wrong, you have to be patient to find a way that he can accept to tell him. Usually care more about the elderly, and buy some practical gifts for the elderly during the New Year's holidays, they are very happy.

Understand them from the perspective of the elderly, respect their opinions, talk to them more, and believe that they can understand the young people. After all, the elderly want their children to be well.

Because the old man is old, there is not so much energy to take care of the child, you have to understand this, don't think that the old man is dissatisfied with you, you should give the old man some living expenses, this may be the most concerned thing for the old man, you all have a home, and the old man still eats and lives in the old man's house, and the old man may be unhappy when he talks about the people outside, give the old man some living expenses appropriately, see how it is, if there is still no improvement, go out to live.

Be kind to the elderly, and care more about the elderly in life. The old man is also self-made.

I'm really ashamed of you for your question.

Then you should be considerate and caring for the elderly, so that he feels that the effort is worth it.

One, the old man, after all, they are old, and they are degrading in all aspects, if there is a dispute over something in the sedan chair, we can let them, not with their general knowledge.

Second, if what we encounter is not a trivial matter, then we must lay out our principles and bottom line. They don't dare to talk about us casually.

Third, if it is our own parents, then it is a different matter, we should have more patience and love for them, just like they did to us when we were children, after all, our parents love themselves, and they will understand our painstaking efforts.

Fourth, in order to avoid quarrels, let's leave his sight, out of sight.

Fifth, if you are an unfamiliar elder, then you don't have to pay too much attention to what they say. After all, they are elders, for the sake of their parents' face, let's take a step back and don't care about them.

Sixth, if it is an old man who is a stranger, then we must remain calm and rational, and distinguish between right and wrong, so that we will not suffer losses.

Seven, if it is a troublesome old man who can't be solved, then he has to find a police uncle to help.

In fact, their parents are also people who came from a young age, and they were also young at that time, and they were also in their prime, especially when my father was a teacher when he was young, and he won the first place in sprinting, but as time goes by, everyone will get old and become an old man who seems to be a little old-fashioned.

At this time, their thinking or some practices are completely different from those of young people. For example, when they use mobile phones, they will only use simple old people's phones, and Brother Wan Yu will give them a smartphone, and they will not use it.

Another example is that sometimes the perception of a thing is completely opposite. Especially for parents, after the age of 80, sometimes when you say east, he says west, you say south, he says north. There was no way to communicate at all, so I had to obey them.

I don't think it's a simple big sentence, but because they are old, their way of thinking is completely different from that of young people, they feel that what they recognize is right, and what others say is wrong, so they admit their own reason.

So if there are elderly people in the family, you must not take them too seriously, obey them in everything, let them do whatever they say, they say right, you follow and say right, as long as they are happy.

I haven't seen the most exaggerated intergenerational relationship I've seen so far, and I don't have that special feeling! The first is to be grateful, and family members are the people who have been with us the longest. Between family members, mutual support and help are indispensable, and the nourishment of kindness is indispensable.

Dealing with outsiders, we still know that "the grace of a drop of water is reciprocated by a spring". We should be more grateful to our families. Grateful for the company of family members and the support of family members.

We must repay our parents with filial piety, our lovers with love, and our brothers with love. Don't stay in the favor of your family for a long time, everything will be taken for granted, you will only know how to ask for it, and you will not know how to be grateful. The more grateful a person is, the more harmonious the relationship with his family.

The second is to be considerate. Between family members, who have been together for a long time, there must be friction and contradictions between each other. As a family, there is no problem that cannot be solved.

When you encounter a problem, don't rush to get angry, and don't speak ill of each other. We must try to restrain our meanness, control our words, and let our mentality calm down and calm down. Don't lose your temper and fight in front of your family; Don't speak harshly to your family members and don't speak out.

Love is understanding and tolerance, and relatives need to be considerate. We should get along with our family members with peace of mind and be more considerate of our family's difficulties. If there is a conflict with your family, take a step back, endure it, and leave some leeway, and the friction will be eliminated and the contradiction will be solved.

People who are considerate of their family will be more comfortable with their family and more comfortable they will be.

The third is to have a heart of help. Brothers are of the same heart, and their profits are gold; Brothers are at odds and fall apart. In this world, the most terrible thing is that family members can't help each other, and they are still intrigued.

A family should help and love each other, and not have different hearts; A family can't speak two words, and it can't do things. If a person has shortcomings, the home will not be tidy; If a person is not happy, the family will not be happy. A family cannot allow one person to be left behind.

When family members are in difficulty, they should treat it as their own difficulties, and they must not be bystanders, let alone fan the flames. Only by sincerely cooperating and helping each other can the family be good and the family business prosperous.