Facing the future, very confused 20, facing the future, very confused

I think you should be under the age of 20 now, people at this age group are easy to be obsessed with feelings, especially boys, and the rest, if you are really thinking about the future, you will not think like this.

There's nothing wrong with your current thoughts, but you just don't see far enough to think about it, do you have the ability to go back to college together now? Even if you can both go to college, can you guarantee that you will be together in the future? If you don't go to college, how much income do you have now to support a family?

Or do you have a way to find a better way to increase your income? Is your girlfriend very content with your current situation? And so on, as a man, you should consider.

I had a subordinate who had the same idea as you, and after talking to him twice, he understood a lot.

You pity your current relationship, and that's right, a man is responsible for his girlfriend, so you have to think about her future. If you see that you can be with her in front of you, or even get married, but after getting married, your development opportunities will be small, after a few years of having children, if your economy can not be satisfied, you will complain to each other, it may not be good, it is better to work hard while everyone is young now, only work together, no matter what happens in the future, at least you will not complain about each other.

Think about the future, if there is no material guarantee, can you guarantee that you and her will be together for the rest of your life? She will not change her mind for the rest of her life? There is a saying that no matter how romantic love is, it can't withstand the torture of time.

When you fall in love, it's for love, and after you get married, it's for life.

As long as you have a goal in mind, work hard

Confusion means that you have not set your own goals for yourself, just go forward in a trance, don't give up, and don't lose until the last step.

Do it now. The future is at your feet.

I am also a child in the countryside, and to be honest, I have envied the children in the city, because they have lived a better life than us since they were young! But I never had low self-esteem, because my family loved me very much and I didn't have a lot of money, but I was still happy and happy. I'm a sophomore now, and I'm not very clear about my future, but I know that I should work hard because I want to live a good life and be happy for my parents, so I've always been very optimistic about life.

It's not that the diploma determines everything, now this society may say that the diploma is a threshold, but as long as you work hard and have the strength, there will still be people who appreciate it, as for the problem of your laziness, in fact, everyone is lazy, depending on the degree, if at the moment when you are hungry, you still say that because you are lazy and don't want to do things, then I think it's your own problem. Therefore, no matter how much I tell you, you also need to cheer yourself up, for your family, and for yourself. Don't be afraid to try.

As long as you don't live in the dreams you weave for yourself, you won't be confused, get up! Wake up! o(∩_o~

Every day is live.

I had to prepare. There is no notice.