Why are you still single and can t catch up with girls?

This question is so simple, and it's not because your own conditions are too poor.

In today's society, there are always many boys who say that girls are becoming more and more materialistic, and they want both a house and a car, which is not enough, and they have to pay a bride price. It's just getting married, and when you fall in love, you have to buy lipstick, you have to buy chocolate, and you have to buy all kinds of cosmetics and gifts. <>

But have you ever wondered? Why is it that if you ask for the same treatment for the same thing, other boys can satisfy their girlfriends, but you can't. What's more, are these requirements really material for girls?

If you don't even want to spend money on your girlfriend, then how can you give more precious love to your girlfriend.

So, boys in their early 20s, don't always think about getting rid of singles, please get rid of poverty first, okay? Before you improve yourself and grow up to be a mature man, don't harm other girls, girls' personalities are naturally amorous and dedicated, how can you bear to let your beloved girls suffer with you.

The most important thing should be the appearance problem. If your image is not clean enough, then not many girls will want to know your heart. It's not innate. There are a lot of boys who just don't want to change themselves.

I know a guy who lost 30 pounds in two months during the summer vacation. Every fat person is a potential stock, if your body is not up to standard, you can choose to run, go to the gym for exercise, and change your shape.

There is also your dressing style and hairstyle, try to be clean and refreshing, it doesn't matter if your facial features are not good-looking, the main thing is personal temperament and dressing style. Try it out for yourself and choose a hairstyle and clothing style that suits you and make yourself look clean, at least not too scruffy.

If your height is not tall enough, either you choose a girl who is also relatively short in height, and if the girl you like is considered medium in height among girls, at this time, you can only attract his attention through her appearance. There are also many good-looking, low-profile boys around me who are also very popular.

I can't chase girls because I don't want to chase girls, some boys are very lazy, they would rather spend their time playing games and studying, and they don't want to communicate more with girls, because sometimes I really feel that girls are too troublesome, crying and making trouble and pestering you all the time, always asking you to chat with her 24 hours a day, how can a boy who has been single for so long suffer such a girl suddenly appeared in his life to restrain and discipline his life?

Can't catch up with girls and their own way of chasing girls also has a lot to do with it.,As a standard straight man,It's very hard to chat happily with girls.,Not to mention being friends.,It's not good to be angry with girls before you say a few minutes.,How can girls continue to communicate happily with you.,For girls,In addition to chatting,Did you give a gift? Did you say good morning and good night every day? Is everything that needs to be said in place?

Inexistent.

Then you can only be single, because there are many times when you don't want to take on that responsibility, so you would rather choose to be single.

This kind of thinking is not strange, it may be caused by the unpleasant relationship of your last relationship, causing you to be very tired, and even a little bit of a feeling of wanting to escape, it is recommended that you still believe in love and find someone who loves you to live well.

In such a situation, I think you should actively change your mind, and such thoughts are also very scary, and you can also talk to your friends to get comfort.

You should change your mind, and you should also improve your value, and you will fall in love, and you will be chasing the person you like, and life will be very good.

You shouldn't have such thoughts, because sooner or later you will get married, and if you have such thoughts, you will be single for a long time, and you will marry later.

You can watch more TV series about love, so that you will stimulate your yearning for love, and you will chase the girl you like again.

Maybe it's because you don't like girls that you have such an idea, and I think it's a very good thing to fall in love.

Then go on a blind date, this way is generally more convenient and fast, and you will be together when you feel appropriate.

You should face up to your feelings, and you must make yourself believe in your feelings, which are still very beautiful. Usually have more contact with women.

Why do today's boys prefer to be single and no longer take the initiative to chase girls? What kind of psychology is this?

Maybe you are better in all aspects, and you give others the illusion that you are famous.

There should be no shortage of people who are not at fault in all aspects, and it is easy to catch up with people, but there are special cases, such people are generally extremely rare, and this kind of thing really exists in real life, and the reasons for this, according to my opinion, are generally the following situations.

First: He is too beautiful and outstanding, and his personality is arrogant, which makes the opposite sex around him feel ashamed and dare not look away. This kind of beauty is beautiful, but it lacks vitality and is not easy to get close to.

Even if a man with commendable courage dares to chase it, he will definitely chase it very hard, and even if he really chases it, he will feel very boring and boring after getting along for a long time. And usually, men's patience is very limited, and few people can make it to the end.

Second, he is impeccable in terms of appearance and figure, but he has a lot of life experience. an unbearable past; dazzling past; Shameful smudges.

This third point is a bit heart-wrenching, but this is also an objective existence, and people must understand themselves correctly. But some people don't know themselves at all, look at themselves in the mirror, and always pity themselves for looking good from head to toe, a typical beauty! Now there is a beauty camera, a retouching filter down, but anyone with complete facial features, everyone can become a beauty, if the reality and the P picture become chaotic, then the evaluation of their appearance, naturally, will be seriously deviated.

You think you are a beauty, but in the eyes of others, you are just an ordinary person with an ordinary appearance, or even a slightly uglier woman, ordinary women and ugliness are not sins, obviously not beautiful, but think that your beautiful resentment and sighs are ridiculous and sad. Even if a man who doesn't pay attention to his face chases you, this man who sells "work" will run away in fright.

Whether it is a handsome beauty or a fake beauty who pretends to be amazing, in fact, you should understand: no matter how beautiful the appearance is, it is impossible to last forever, and it is superficial and sad to only use hue as capital and have nothing else. "Life is dark and long, only the soul can illuminate the future."

After a few years, you'll understand that this isn't chicken soup, it's the truth.

There are many kinds of people who actively choose to be single, and here are a few possible scenarios:

1.Focus on freedom and independence: Some people prefer to maintain an independent and free lifestyle, and they are more sleepy and willing to take control of their time and space, enjoy alone time, and do not want to invest their time and energy in another person's life.

2.Valuing career and work: Some people are particularly passionate and pursuing about their career and work, and they feel that being single allows them to focus more on their career and work and have more time and energy to pursue their career goals.

3.Experienced relationship failure: Some people may have experienced emotional failure and pain, they may have certain doubts and worries about love and marriage, and choose to be single to avoid experiencing similar pain again.

4.Pursue self-growth and development: Some people may be more focused on self-growth and development, believing that being single allows them to have more time and space to learn, explore, and try new things, allowing themselves to continue to progress and grow.

5.Not meeting the right person: Some people may not have met the right partner they really like, and they choose to be single because they are unwilling to compromise or sacrifice their own emotional needs.

In short, people who choose to be single have different reasons and motivations, everyone has the right to choose the way they want to live their lives, being single is not the same as being lonely, they can also have a colorful life.