Reflect on why you are still a single dog?

I'm too homely.,And it's lazy.,Don't go out much.,Often stay at home and play games.,So I know very few girls.,I think girls are not as important as games.,So I've been single.。

On the one hand, I want to fall in love, but on the other hand, I am worried that the appearance of the other party will disrupt my life, so I hesitate in front of love.

I am more afraid of falling in love with someone and then being abandoned, and I feel that it will be very painful, so I still feel that I don't want to talk about it, and it is more free to be alone.

I don't have a house, no money, no car, I look average, I feel inferior, I feel rich, and I have the confidence to fall in love when I have my own career.

I don't look so good-looking, even if my appearance is low, my EQ is also low, and I usually am very homely, I don't dress up much, and I dress very casually.

I feel that I am too handsome, so many women dare not approach me, thinking that I look more attentive, and I am really wronged, so I have been single.

I work every day, so I usually have very few people in contact, and I'm basically in the company every day, so I don't have time to fall in love at all.

I feel that I am not only ugly, but also have a very stinky temper, and the most important thing is that I dislike others for not being good-looking, and I am very demanding and picky, so I have been single.

I feel that I am too good, others are not on the same level as me, they are not worthy of me, maybe I should keep a low profile and lower my requirements.

Maybe I'm too strong, a female man, and I don't know how to rely on people, so I am often regarded as a brother by men, and I don't treat me as a woman at all.

I usually do everything by myself, and the boys want to help, but I refuse them all, for fear of bothering them, and I think I can do it, maybe too independent, so I have been single.

Because the rational way of thinking is destined to conflict with the sensual female thinking, the two cannot be both, and the truth is taken at the expense of girlfriends.

It's not pretty. No money. It's better not to try, 99% of the time is doomed to fail, and after reading a lot of speeches, it's either money or money, and it seems that the world is like this.

I'm not a single dog, what am I doing here?

Of course, I will reflect, because the people around me have found their other half and are very happy, so I will reflect on myself, why I have always been single, I am not so unbearable, why I always can't find the right person?

I think it's also a good thing to reflect on ourselves often, because through reflection, we can find our own shortcomings, we can recognize our shortcomings, through reflection, we can improve our strengths, make ourselves better, so that we can attract others, if we are always immersed in our own world, do not reflect on ourselves, then we are considered to be excellent, and we will not meet a person who really likes us, and we will become more lonely, so even if we are single, We must also learn to reflect on ourselves, so that we can meet the person who is really suitable for us.

It's not terrible to be single, what is terrible is that we are always immersed in our own world, so when we are born, we must also learn to reflect on ourselves, know our own shortcomings, and then adjust at any time, so that we can meet a person who is really suitable for us, and we can harvest more happiness. At that time, our situation will become more awkward, and we will also be guided by many people.

If we want to get rid of singles, we must adjust our mentality, open our social circles, open our hearts, and take the initiative to strive for happiness, so that we can meet a person we like as soon as possible, if we always stay at home and wait for love to knock on the door, then it is difficult for us to meet a person who is really suitable for us, because excellent people will take the initiative to strive for it, and will not wait for love to find themselves at all, so everyone in the town must learn to take the initiative in the face of love, so as to obtain happiness, And when we are single, we must also learn to reflect on ourselves and know that our shortcomings are **, so that we can be recognized by others.

I think it's also a good thing to reflect on ourselves often, because through reflection, we can find our own shortcomings, we can recognize our shortcomings, through reflection, we can improve our strengths, make ourselves better, so that we can attract others, if Min Xingkai is always immersed in his own world, not to reflect on himself, then even if we are excellent, we will not meet a person who really likes us, and we will become more lonely, so even if we are single, We must also learn to reflect on ourselves, so that we can meet the person who is truly suitable for us.

I will reflect, often when I am alone, reflect and summarize.

Yes, I am still single, and I must have too high a position for my spouse, so I can't find a partner.

I also had a good idea of this problem before I got off the list, and there should be many reasons why a person is single, so what I said is from my own point of view, and there will be particularities

Of course, I have now successfully taken off the single, so when I think of the days when I was single before, in addition to reflecting on why I am single, I also cherish the current blessings even more

No, because I've always believed that the person who should show up will appear.

I did reflect on it when I was single before. At that time, most of my friends said goodbye to being single, and only me and a few people were alone. Later, we looked at each other and found that the reasons why we couldn't find a boyfriend were very similar.

The main reason is because of fat and ugly. As a girl, she has no appearance advantage in this era of looking at faces, so she basically said goodbye to love. Many couples are in love, and when it comes to me, it ends at first sight.

It's just that it doesn't look good, after all, it's a genetic problem, and I can't blame others. But not dressing up is my personal problem, I casually tie a ponytail every day, I don't wipe my face, I don't pay attention to my clothes, I always wear casual clothes. Whoever you stand with will bring out each other's incomparably beautiful ......

Coupled with the fact that I was too self-indulgent and often kept my weight at the middle to fat stage, I was already muscular, and I looked stronger. Every time other female classmates were curious to pinch my biceps, I reluctantly told them that it was the sequelae of sprinting in the past. With such thick legs and stomachs, going out in a skirt is comparable to a man's appearance, and it is useless to have beautiful clothes.

Another reason is personality issues. Since I was a child, I have exposed my old man's side, either boys treat me as a brother, or I treat others as sisters. No matter how iron the relationship is, it always feels like there is no difference between genders.

This situation gradually improved in college, but the appearance did not change for a while.

Since I came to work in Beijing, I have changed my face to look like a woman. The effect is still very significant, I lost a few pounds, put on light makeup, changed clothes, and someone actually came to talk when I went out. Hehe, it turns out that the quality of the style has a decisive impact on whether you are single or not, no need to reflect, hurry up and transform!

Because I am a very cold person, there are many people in real life who are very difficult to approach me. Only people I know very well, and I think of people with good character, can be friends with me. Some of you may have known me for about three years and only spoken a few words to me.

Because in normal times, I am very reluctant to talk to people I don't know. In this way, my circle of friends will become very narrow, and there will be many people who want to know me, but there is no opportunity, there are relatively few people I know, and of course it is very difficult to be my other half. It's also because I don't want to find my other half at all, I feel that I am living a very happy life now, making enough money every month to live the life I want, and I have some savings to go out and play.

I also don't want to find another partner to keep me with, and I often mess with my friends, which makes me feel very annoying. If I spend too much time with me, I will also get bored, so I am not suitable for my other half right now.