There is a female college student who wants to date me online, but we are too far apart, what should

Updated on educate 2024-07-23
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I can't accept it. Think about it, it's still okay if you really love each other. After all, online dating leaves a bad impression. Parents are even more opposed.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's best to restrain yourself.

    Or be friends

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Forget it, she guesses it's curiosity about the Internet.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hey!Boss, think about it!

    Besides!Of course you can do online dating!Hey!

    You have to figure out what online dating looks like!Online dating, in my opinion, is something that can be talked about after surfing the Internet!You can tell each other anything happy or painful!

    It's also a place to talk! In my opinion, online dating is like this!Don't understand what your online dating looks like!

    Online is online after all!Not in reality!There are examples of deception in reality, let alone online!

    Nowadays girls are more open than boys!Don't take it lightly!It's a fantasy on the Internet!

    Got it !I mean, don't believe it!It's all a lie!

    She may be fascinated by your appearance, that is, maybe you are handsome!It's nothing, don't take it to heart, online is online after all!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This kind of problem can be handled by yourself.

    Give yourself some time to see if you can really accept her.

    You can say to her, "Give me a little time" and let me accept you slowly.

    I think she'll agree.

    Do you have a girlfriend?

    If you have a girlfriend, you shouldn't accept her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Go with the flow, and when you give happiness to others, you are also happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why pity a flower alone.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you can't give her a promise, don't promise her. Even if you agree to be with her, do you have confidence in your feelings of separation? It's just going to make both of you tired when the time comes. It hurts two hearts, and it's better to end the relationship before it begins.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The answer is yes

    Why? There are many reasons for this.

    First: she is a student, and the future is unknown.

    Second: She only has a temporary affection for you, you are netizens and not show that you know each other in life, and you don't know each other's personalities yet.

    Third: she is still young, and her family will not agree.

    Also, love is big, if you really love her, you should be good for her, her age is not allowed, and this will bring disadvantages to her studies. Neither of you knows each other's personalities, and that's important.

    You're older than her, you've been through more than her, and you'll see what I mean.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You shouldn't say no. Wouldn't it be great that you should let things run their course? Maybe she's the only one for you and me!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Say no, don't make anything too ideal. Let's be realistic. The chances of happiness will be many.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Dear landlord.

    Glad to analyze for you.

    I've had your problem before.

    1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.

    If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.

    Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

    6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties.

    Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

    8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

    9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

    Looking forward to your adoption !!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. In this case, the rash intrusion of parents may cause bad results, it is recommended that you calm down first, knock on the student's relevant situation, if there is something wrong, and then use the method of hinting to remind students to help them develop a normal view of love, so as to help them deal with online relationships normally.

    This, most of the students in college are actually adults, with their own independent judgment, at this time the parents' rash intrusion can be noisy can create a wide type of bad results, it is recommended that you calm down first, knock on the side of the student's relevant situation, if there is something wrong, and then use the method of hinting to remind, to help students develop a normal view of love, to help themselves to deal with online dating relationships normally.

    However, it affected my studies, and my grades were very bad.

    It was she herself who told me about online dating, yes.

    I wanted to help her, but I didn't know how to do it.

    Thank you, thank you!

    In this way, you can specify some rules with her, such as reminding her that studying during college is also very important, and explaining the pros and cons with her, in fact, at this time, most students have already struggled to understand the painstaking efforts of their parents, but sometimes the concern of changing the degree of portability may cause the opposite effect, you can find out what is wrong here, such as whether your daughter's online dating partner is sincere to your daughter, if it is indeed sincere, then you can put the key on promoting your daughter's learning.

    For example, you can tell your daughter that if your grades are good, you can reward your daughter for traveling with her boyfriend, or exaggerate a little and say that if your daughter's online dating partner is too good, but your daughter's grades are not too good, there will be something wrong.

    According to her description, it seems to be true, and it is also **, but my daughter's studies are very poor, and I think it is caused by online dating.

    If your daughter has just entered a brother's college, this situation is normal, after a stressful high school, most people will choose to relax appropriately during college, and the need for love will also increase to a certain extent, you can also remind her of some of the needs of her own environment, such as slightly controlling the giving of living expenses, making her understand the importance of scholarships, or reminding her of the important leakage of some certificates or awards.

    The problem is that according to her, the boy is not a university student, but seems to be a technical school student (for special reasons).

    The main thing now is to make your daughter interested in learning, which can ask for the boy's help in a certain aspect, and you can talk to the boy in a more secluded tone with her consent to exchange ideas about his and your daughter's future and promote the progress of both parties.

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