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Distance produces beauty.
But distance can also create barriers.
See if the other person cares about you.
The time has come to test each other.
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This is mostly on both sides, and if you both choose to stick to it, it won't be much of a problem.
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When you ask me if I would like to wait for you, I still chose to be silent as before, you should understand that I am not going to promise anything like anyone, I don't want to be bound, I need absolute freedom, so I gave you the answer that I am satisfied with but I don't know if you are not satisfied, I hope you don't mind if I do this, because I am a person who has never believed in feelings, so I still choose the way I like. I just want to say I'm sorry, there's nothing else I can do. You know, sometimes liking doesn't mean that we can be together, there are many objective factors that will limit what we want to do, we have no ability to change anything, except for compromise, we can only just watch.
You send me a message to tell me that you are very uncomfortable, I am very anxious, because I rarely affect others, even if it is an impact, it is more happy than sad, so I have always wanted anyone to be unhappy or unhappy because of my relationship, your words make me feel that my existence will also affect others, I am sure I like this feeling, you said let me give a word, I said a sentence from the bottom of my heart is that I said thank you to you, thank you very much, I'll remember the first thing you told me: I want to be with you! I will always remember!
I really don't understand why we are like this, distance is really our only obstacle, like you said, if there is no distance we will be together! I really can only let this feeling spread and grow like this, but I can't do anything, I really hope I don't know you, your appearance has disrupted my life, it's really a mess, I've asked you why you want to call me ** Why do you want to play games together Why do you still say you like me, you know I really would rather never know you, how I don't want to know you, I don't want the life I've been living to change because of your appearance, I really don't want my life to change at all, but it has changed, I think my life is still the same as before, I like the life at that time, I can care about no one or care about anyone, I don't need to compromise anything for anyone, change anything, worry about anything, I hope that everything can be restored to the way before, but I know that it is impossible, I can't go back, because it has changed, do you tell me I can go back? Can I really live like I used to?
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1.Use the holiday to create a sweet reunion for two.
After separation, if the husband and wife have been separated for a long time, then they must find ways to create more opportunities to see each other. Add some sweetness and surprise to your relationship. For example, during every small long vacation, or the winter and summer vacations of children, the wife finds a time to visit her husband and get together with the other half for a while; Husbands also try to make use of their free time to go home and visit their wives in their busy schedules, even if it is for a day, so as to experience the happiness and sweetness of the newlywed.
2.Be sure to support and trust each other.
Trust is the basis for two people to get along, for couples who live in two places, trust is even more important, without trust, there is no need to maintain the relationship. Don't speculate, don't be hot and cold, since each other is sure that they want to go on hand in hand, then they should trust each other. It is important to believe in each other, to feel happy, happy, and secure from each other.
Not only should you feel safe with the other person, but you should also be honest with each other while giving them a sense of security, and you should not hide anything from the other party. In fact, the other party can probably feel it, so don't hide it from the other party no matter what it is.
3.The two sides should understand and tolerate each other.
Understanding is based on trust, there is no way to understand without trust, don't be angry because one party is busy with work or other things are not entangled in time, you know, the pressure of reality will not make it easy for everyone to live, so try to restrain your emotions, learn to understand each other, and understand each other's hardship, and be each other's pillars spiritually.
In this way, understanding will also become a regulator for the warming of the relationship between the two.
All the places are only temporary, as long as both people stick to the painted future, there will always be a day when they will no longer be separated. Therefore, two people should tolerate each other, understand each other, support each other, and get through the saddest time, and the rest is all beautiful. Come on!
4.Insist on communicating every day.
Two people are not in the same place, and there is almost no time to meet, so they have to rely on their mobile phones every day to contact each other, and keep talking every day, even if they talk about what they have seen and heard today, and talk about their children's recent situation, it is better than not saying anything for a long time, although it is a small thing, but it also means that the heart is thinking about each other, and everything is willing to share with each other.
The most feared thing is that the two people don't say anything, if there is no such daily life, how can life continue, so it is necessary to keep in touch every day, even if it is busy, two people who are not together have to talk to each other.
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If you want to be 100% sure that the other person is loyal to you, then you must be sure that the other person loves you more, and it is best that you don't change your mind and don't betray yourself, that's OK. As for how to make sure that the other party loves you more, then no matter what means, whether it is a temptation or a brick, personal skills have been played.
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Two people love each other, this is the basic, and the most basic! People who love each other should be able to understand each other, encourage each other, and care for each other! You don't need to be too strong or too light, as long as the taste is moderate!
Time and distance may be a hurdle in the relationship, it may be very deep, but as long as you love enough, everything is nothing! Time, as long as you believe in that love, it is worth the wait! Distance, as long as there is a communication tool, you can continue to contact!
Don't worry about anything, don't always think too much, just believe, simply believe, believe that your love will last long, believe that there will be a happy ending in the end, and that's enough! Love is actually very simple, it's just too difficult to do, but as long as you can strengthen your beliefs, you will definitely be able to overcome distance and time! Love always needs a test to be sweet, believe in yourself, believe in the person you love!
Everything will have a happy ending!
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My husband and I are a typical separation, before answering this question, let's first talk about why we are separated, we have a good relationship, and there is no emotional crisis in marriage, so the reason is not here, but the change of my husband's job. My husband and I have known each other since college, came to Shanghai together after graduation, and finally entered into marriage hand in hand.
In the first few years of coming to Shanghai, although we were materially scarce, we were spiritually fulfilled because we were able to work together with the people we loved. Maybe it's because I didn't look far enough, and after two years of work, my husband chose to resign. He communicated with me before he resigned, and I also struggled with it, because it was a very stable job, but he said that our future life will eventually take root in Shanghai, but in the face of Shanghai's housing prices, he can't see any hope for this job.
I agreed with him, and he chose the job he is doing now, with higher pay, greater challenges, and with that comes the need to live apart for a long time. Secondly, let's talk about the problems encountered after the separation. In the first year, I had a lot of mood swings, and there were many quarrels with each other, and many times he listened to my crying quietly in **.
Fortunately, his adjustment ability is better than mine, and he quickly adapts to the rhythm of long-term business trips, and every time he faces my scolding, he can also lower his head and coax me. But as a husband and wife, two people want to go on with such mutual understanding, how easy it is to say, the estrangement between the two people who have not been together for a long time has begun to increase, and the loneliness that comes with the middle of the night is getting stronger and stronger.
Then, let's talk about the relationship after a long separation. The answer is yes, but that doesn't mean there's no way to regulate. In the first few years, I had a lot of suspicions, especially when I couldn't get through or didn't get through in time, I would wonder if he was hiding something from me and whether his feelings for me had faded.
Even once I heard a girl's voice in him, I thought about it for several days, and finally I couldn't help but go to attack Chagang, but fortunately it didn't affect his work, and he also gave me a hug to respond, but that long-lost hug made me steady like a needle in the sea.
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Feelings can change, because distance is something that cannot be hurt in terms of feelings, and many needs cannot be given in time.
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It depends on the depth of the relationship between the two. If the relationship is deep, the relationship will not change at the ends of the world.
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The relationship will change, because two people are not together for a long time, it is difficult to maintain the relationship between two people, and after a long time, the relationship will fade.
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Husbands and wives have been separated from each other for a long time, and their relationship will deteriorate somewhat. After all, women are a kind of person who likes to be clingy, and men are easily attracted to the flowers and plants around them, so it is best not to be separated for too long, so as not to dream too much at night.
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